Stop Fixing Yourself (You're OK)

The trouble with most people is they’re busy trying to fix things in themselves that they really don’t understand. Stop fixing yourself. Don’t interfere. Don’t fix anything. Simply watch. Observe. You're OK. These things in you just need to be understood. If you understand them, they will change and you would finally see that all is well, within you and around you. This practice is a simple way of discovering this.

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I first heard this wisdom while in the company of my now-departed mum. She was ahead of her time, as was Tony. Or, perhaps better stated: *outside* of time. The revolutionary brilliance of this teaching, simple though it is, took more than a while to sink in, and for me to try to make a practice of this shift in thought (“don’t try to FIX it; understand it”). It remains one of the pillars of what I regard as Tony’s gift to us all, and there’ll likely never be another like him.

Amazing! So grateful that Tony’s wisdom has been captured on here. Many thanks 🙏❤️💫

Things don’t need to be fixed, they need to be understood. I love this.🙏❤️

I love all of De Mello's talks! Thank you for having them on IT! 💙

I am so grateful I came across this particular post. I bought a book by Anthony....a while ago..I'm going to go back to it today. Over the last 3 wks I've been fixing THINGS..no water as tank needed repair, ph not working, call a technician......issues with communication during this stressful time with a relative...being an observer from the 'sky' will give me an alternative perspective. The journey one takes in this life needs to be that way so you are objective I think. Thank you!