Incarnation & How Spirit Babies Choose Parents: Episode 2

In this second episode of the Spirit Baby Guide podcast, I dive into how Spirit Babies plan their lives before coming to Earth, and how those plans weave with our own soul journey.

I share insights from Seth Speaks by Jane Roberts, along with real examples from my mediumship sessions and my personal story.

You’ll hear about three distinctive categories of Spirit Babies based on when and how they choose their parents or family, and I’ll give you practical tips to help you sense if a soul from any of these groups might already be around you.

By the end of the episode, you’ll be invited to reflect on your own soul’s plan - what it may have prepared for this lifetime and the direction it’s calling you toward right now, whether that involves motherhood or a different path of growth.

Transcript

Welcome to the Spirit Baby Guide Podcast.

I'm Aga,

Spirit Baby Medium and Spiritual Guide.

In each episode I share messages from Spirit Babies,

Spirit Guides,

Signs and stories from this path and I answer your questions on my own and with guests.

My intention is to bring you light,

Clarity and companionship on your path so you can step into your authentic self and welcome all that your soul is here to experience and create.

Let's begin.

Welcome everybody to this second episode of Spirit Baby Guide Podcast.

I'm Aga and today I will talk about Incarnation and about how your Spirit Babies,

So the souls of your future babies,

Choose their parents and plan their life on Earth.

And when I talk about this,

I'd like you to also think about yourself.

How,

As a soul,

You might have planned to experience or to create something in this lifetime that you're having right now on Earth.

Let's dive in.

Before we begin I want to say this.

What I'm about to share is a simplified view of something that is incredibly vast and multidimensional.

Please remember that I'm speaking through a human mind filter,

So I translate what I sense into words,

This language,

So that we all can understand.

But there are surely other aspects that I haven't noticed yet and they are bound to come up in my readings,

In my research or anybody else's research.

And I look forward to those.

So think of this episode as a map,

Not as the entire landscape.

It is actually meant to guide you,

Inspire you,

Not to limit what's possible.

I'm holding in front of me a book,

Seth Speaks.

It's a channeled book by Jane Roberts and this book has more than 50 years now.

It's from 1970s.

And in this book Jane channels an entity called Seth and this entity,

This being of light,

This guide,

Shares teachings on the nature of reality,

The soul and also the subject that is very pertinent to this episode,

Incarnation.

What Seth says in this book,

And I will quote this for you,

Is In each life you choose and create your own settings or environments.

And in this one you chose your parents and whatever childhood incidents that come within your experience.

You wrote the script.

When I first read those words,

And that's when I wasn't really fully immersed in Mediumship work yet,

I wasn't sure what to think of these,

But still those words resonated with me on some level.

And later,

To my surprise,

These words started coming up in the Mediumship sessions that I was having with departed loved ones,

But also with souls of babies that I started communicating with.

The same theme appears in Walter McEachin's famous book on spirit babies and that one was published 30 years after Seth Speaks.

And that book brings forward the idea of souls choosing their parents,

Environments and also contracts before incarnation.

I mention these books because the idea that souls plan and choose is not just one voice.

Many channels and mediums speak about those aspects of incarnation and it is also something I hear again and again in my own channel sessions with spirit guides and when connecting with spirit babies.

In my Mediumship sessions with spirit babies,

So the souls of your future children,

Often they say messages that show a degree of pre-birth planning and the reasons why they would like to be born on planet Earth.

And after so many sessions,

Mediumship sessions with spirit babies,

And I had thousands and thousands of those already,

I noticed that there are three clear patterns in how souls choose their parents and I know this is just a simplification,

So please remember that.

I will share with you those groups and I will pause just after each and I will also ask you a question because maybe you are already connecting quite consciously with any of your babies,

Spirit babies,

Who might have chosen you in all those different ways.

The first group that I notice is the most common is the pre-birth planning group.

This is when a soul of a baby communicates with the soul of a mom or the soul of the dad before anybody is incarnated on planet Earth and they choose that there will be an experience between any of them in the physical form on planet Earth.

Such souls of babies usually feel strongly connected to that specific parental figure,

Let's say mom or a dad,

So they will be energetically linked with that soul.

And I would say that group is actually one of the largest groups that I have recognized in my readings.

I would give about 50 to 60 percent to this category of souls who have chosen their parents at that moment of the soul journey.

And such souls of babies will usually say directly to me that they know mom from different incarnations across the wide universe and not all of those journeys were only on planet Earth,

But some of them were.

Sometimes it is not about the mom,

Sometimes it is about the dad,

So spirit babies will choose or discuss with the soul of the dad as well that hey,

I'm there for you,

Whoever you meet in your life,

Know that I will come to you.

And this group is quite specific because usually it is a choice of a specific parent,

Specific mom or a specific dad,

And that soul will continue following energetically that mom or that dad throughout their lifetime.

Many souls from this group will want to incarnate on planet Earth,

But some of them,

They will stay around you just as your guide.

What this means is that you might be sensing their energy around you,

But they are not the ones that will be indicating that they want to be conceived or born.

And I want to say that none of the groups that I have discovered,

There is any given group that it is most likely that a soul will incarnate and will be a take-home baby in this lifetime.

But this first group,

The pre-birth planning group,

Probably has the highest chances of this happening.

But it is not only about the live birth,

I wanted to mention that,

Because some of those souls,

They also plan for a short visit.

It could be a very short pregnancy,

Chemical pregnancy,

Or any length,

The second trimester,

The third trimester,

Or even the infancy.

So those babies,

They might have planned that they will enter mom's life and that is strictly linked to that mom's soul journey,

Mom's path,

Or even dad's path.

But how do I know that that soul of a baby is actually a spirit baby that decided with you,

Together with your soul,

That they will be around you or join you in this lifetime?

I followed a few moms over the span of about a year and a half to two years.

So I've been doing,

Recurring spirit baby messages to those moms over the span of those two years.

The maximum was two years.

And some of those relationships that those moms were in,

They stopped existing.

So the relationship broke up and partners separated or divorced.

And it was interesting to notice the response from the spirit dimension,

So spirit babies,

How they reacted to that change of the environmental circumstances of mom and dad.

And some souls of babies still remained around the mom and just wanted to say,

In this case,

I was focusing only on moms.

So I wasn't doing greetings for dads,

It was only for moms.

But in those cases,

When the relationships broke,

Some of the souls of babies still remained around the mom.

And I already knew that that is a strong indication that that soul of a baby was probably a pre-birth planned baby.

But there were also cases where there were spirit babies at the beginning when the relationship was still functioning and everything was fine.

And then those babies were not visible or were not responding to when I was trying to connect with them after the divorce or separation of that couple.

So this either indicates that that spirit baby was either linked to a dad and it follows dad,

Or it was more attracted to the dynamic of the couple relationship.

So maybe there was no prior soul agreement or pre-birth planning on the soul level between that mom and that baby.

But I wanted just to mention it.

My readings were mostly within certain cultures and ethnic groups.

So I don't have the full picture of how it may be for any mom across the whole world.

This is still something that I would love to explore.

But looking only on the examples of those women who I did the reading for and who I followed for a certain period of time,

I wanted to say no matter which partner that mom chose later on,

Those souls kept following the energy of mom.

They were still around her energetic field.

So the big question now comes in,

On the human level,

How you may know that you have such a soul around you,

That you both chose this coming experience of a family together at the soul level.

You and the soul of your baby.

So to answer this question,

I started actually asking moms who were coming to me for my sessions about their very first memory of when they actually thought about becoming moms themselves at any point in their lifetime.

And I was asking for this very first specific memory about wanting to become a mom of a specific gender child or number of children,

Etc.

And those memories usually go back to childhood times.

These were the most common responses that I was receiving from women that they remember that when they were children,

And they always thought that there will be a mom of one or two or five children.

So there were different ideas there.

But there was one reading and experience with one mom who was my client.

And that mom said to me that since she was a little girl,

She knew she will have two girls as her daughters.

And she said that she even used to play with dolls.

She had two dolls and she was pretending that they were her two little girls.

And at the moment of connection when I was doing connection with her spirit babies,

And I wanted just to add at that moment when we met,

She already had one daughter with her on earth.

And she was trying to have a second baby and she really wanted to check whether there is any spirit baby across the veil.

And she did have a spirit baby girl across the veil and she was the first one in line to be conceived.

But she also had one more figure of a boy and he was a little bit more behind and more transparent.

Whenever I see such figures,

I already know that this is a possibility for the future.

Sometimes it can indicate a possibility that can materialize when you make certain life decisions,

Life choices.

But it can also indicate that this soul may try but may not want to be born.

Today that mom is still trying to conceive and that conception is a little bit more challenging.

And she's going currently through IVF phase.

So I wanted to say,

Even though your pre-birth planned babies are around you,

Even though you may notice them that those energies are around you,

It does not necessarily mean that it is actually straightforward,

That it will go smoothly and they will be with you.

There still is a path for each soul,

Including your soul to go through to eventually have your all life lessons that your soul and their soul might have wanted to experience in this lifetime.

I will also refer to the spirit baby guide phrase because even though there are many spirit babies that are around you because they want to be conceived and born,

There will be some souls who truly don't want to be born.

And this has been discussed with you before your soul incarnated into planet Earth.

And they stay around you within your energetic field and they act as not gatekeepers,

But someone who is guiding their siblings to come forward and join you on this Earth plane.

I've noticed that this is quite common,

That there is always another soul of a baby that is guiding or helping them energetically to incarnate.

And often,

Whenever I connect with spirit babies,

I will hear certain souls speaking more.

And later on,

I realized that those who are speaking are not necessarily those that are about to be born or incarnated,

But those that are the guides who know a little bit more and they are more knowledgeable about who is there.

And usually those spirit babies that form the role of a guide,

They will be those that already know you,

Talked with you,

Discussed with you,

Anything on the soul level before you even incarnated into this lifetime.

I would say that this is the most common group for spirit baby guides.

If you sense an energy of a baby around you,

You sense that there is a strong presence of a boy,

Sometimes that energy is just there to guide you.

They are not the ones that want to incarnate on planet Earth.

And quite often,

Many of us have that feeling that there is a soul around us,

But we're questioning why isn't that soul coming through,

What's going on?

So I want you to know,

Sometimes their role is there just to guide you on your soul path,

But also to be a kind of a connector between their siblings and you.

So they've got a very robust role to play.

So now my question goes to you.

Have you ever had this moment in your lifetime that you thought that you will have this amount of children in this lifetime or that you will have a boy or a girl,

So the specific gender as well?

And I'm not talking about something that you make up as you go along and your ego wishes.

I'm talking about the knowing,

Something that just resonates and feels as true.

You don't know where it comes from,

But it just feels right.

And as you think about it,

You can pause your recording here and just search a little bit.

What is it that comes up for you?

And when you're ready with the answer,

Let's move on to the second group.

The second group are souls that choose you later on in your lifetime.

They choose either you,

Their dad,

Or the family unit.

And they notice you somewhere along your life path.

Such souls basically feel the frequency of you and then they decide simply,

Yes,

This is the experience I need right now.

So it's as simple as that.

And here I would even divide this group into two more subcategories.

Sometimes souls will choose just one parent for their specific energy frequencies.

And sometimes they will choose a couple,

A family unit.

So the blend of different energies that in total provide them with the exact conditions or possibilities that they need for this lifetime.

And some of the souls of those babies will still follow you personally if their relationship changes.

So similarly as in any pre-birth planning,

But to a lesser degree.

But other souls may just feel drawn to the family unit that you're creating with your partner.

So if that family unit is no longer existing,

Majority of souls from this group would probably move to another family unit.

And another one that resembles the one that you've had with that partner,

Providing them with similar possibilities for this lifetime,

But also energy frequencies and those components of energies that each of you was bringing into this relationship.

Usually when I ask spirits if they know the soul of a mom or dad,

They often say that they do,

But that they do not have that very close interaction with any of you from any past lives.

It would be more distant.

So if anyone uses the phrases of soul family,

They wouldn't be necessary from your soul family group.

They would be from the outside soul family and they will be having this fresh experience with your energy,

With your soul essence in this lifetime.

We can look at them as incredibly brave souls because they are really expanding.

They're coming into interaction with completely new energies from the day one of their conception,

Birth and childhood.

So that is something incredibly brave and usually comes with a lot of lessons.

I will give you an example.

One soul from this group said to me that she knew her mom from previous lifetimes on planet Earth,

But she said that it was from a distance.

She showed me a boat which looked like one from about 200 years ago and she said that my mom was on that boat,

But we weren't a family.

So this may refer to what I have already mentioned that this wasn't the soul family group for that soul of a baby and the soul of the mom,

But that soul of a baby found the energy frequency of that mom or the couple as simply perfect for whatever they wanted to experience on their life path.

So how can you recognize that there is such a soul around you?

Usually,

When you form a relationship,

That's the moment you start getting those signs or sensations that there is a new energy around you.

It's simple as that.

But if they choose you as a mom,

As an individual and not as a couple,

You will have that knowing before or in between any relationships that you might enter in your lifetime.

But it will feel somewhat surprising to you,

Not something that you've ever imagined or thought about when you were a child or even later in your life.

So now I have a question to you.

Have you ever had a moment in life that out of the blue you either dreamt of a baby or maybe a baby came to you in a meditation or you started getting some other signs that were completely new,

Something that you haven't really felt before or seen before?

Just to add,

I would say it's usually later in life that we get those signs and impressions,

But I would say 20s and beyond,

But I would not really give it any clear border here.

It can happen any time after you were born.

But if it's for a couple,

I would say,

Well,

This is around the moment when you enter the new relationship.

And yes,

Sometimes it might be the soul of a baby that has chosen their dad before dad has incarnated on planet Earth and it is them that are showing up within your energetic field.

It can be that.

But beyond that,

There are other souls that will also show up.

So take a few moments to think about it,

Just to get any idea if you had any of those signs and symbols and dreams later in life or just before the relationship started.

I also wanted to mention the aspect of relationships here,

But I will talk about them in more depth in another episode.

So this is just a very quick information.

As I've mentioned earlier,

The souls that chose you a little bit later in life,

In your lifetime,

They might still be following you if the relationship breaks,

But there will be souls that are clearly focused and drawn to the bigger picture of the family unit.

And why I'm saying this is because soul of a baby,

Of your future baby,

Incarnates into this lifetime with a spectrum of specific energy frequencies.

They've got their signature energy frequency and they also have a need for creating and experiencing something specific in this lifetime.

And they will need different spectrum of energies around them to activate those possibilities and opportunities for their growth.

So I wouldn't say that only the best couples,

The most happy family home will be chosen by that soul because that is not true.

There are babies who are choosing specific environments,

Even those that we simply consider as not ideal,

Not safe or even worse for various different reasons.

And yet the souls of babies do not judge.

They look at it with neutrality and they only see the opportunity for growth,

For that specific moment of their soul expansion.

So that leads me towards the other aspect,

Which is the stress and the focus that is being placed on moms within spiritual circles,

Namely that you must increase your energy frequencies to be able to attract a spirit baby or bring a baby home.

This may not be necessarily resonant for every spirit baby out there because each soul truly has a spectrum of energies and the signature energy that they incarnate with and they have different needs for growth in this lifetime.

And I just wanted to make that clear for every mom because your energy frequency,

Your separate ones,

The one of yours and of your partner,

And also as a couple will be very unique and may not necessarily be the block like it might be portrayed and then stigmatized that you need to be in an absolute perfect energetic and physical condition to be able to conceive and bring that soul to the planet Earth.

No,

Because those souls have also needs for experiencing something that you can uniquely offer with that partner within those specific environmental conditions,

Those personalities,

Those opportunities.

So I would say that souls from this group,

They more often choose a truly specific family unit.

It's less about the individual,

The parent,

But more about the broader environment that those two parents or one parent co-create.

Saying this,

I wanted to stress that energy frequency will have an impact on the well-being of that mom.

If that mom is not feeling safe within that environment,

The conception may not happen because her nervous system is on overdrive because everything else is just shutting down and it's not allowing for receiving and creating a new life.

So there are two different factors to pay attention to.

But I know so many moms who are caught up in the situation that they would like to have a second baby or the first baby and they are in this relationship that may not feel really aligned and they don't feel particularly safe in that relationship.

So what I'm saying here is look at your soul path and your soul growth because what quite often happens is that this is your path that you need to go through and understand and graduate your life lesson.

But please remember,

These are just simplifications to highlight what comes up the most often in my spirit baby connections.

Every soul's path is unique and there are always variations.

And especially when we talk about relationships and your safety and emotional well-being,

This always comes first because if you are not feeling well,

Then you are not open to creating a new life.

You are focusing on survival.

So in those conditions,

It is highly unlikely that there will be a successful pregnancy and a take-home baby.

So I want you to also remember that whenever I say that a soul may have chosen less ideal conditions for arrival,

Still you need to go through your path and you still need to manage your mind,

Your body and your environment to truly really feel well for welcoming that baby into your life.

So please remember,

Whenever I say that there are babies who choose certain environments,

This is to say to you that yes,

There are still opportunities for those souls to come through,

But remember about your own soul and human path in this lifetime.

You first before the baby arrives.

Because this might be your life lesson that you're going currently through and that life lesson needs to be responded to.

That is in the first instance.

And I've had quite a few spirit babies from the first category.

So just to provide you the simplification,

Those who were planned before mom has incarnated on planet Earth,

Who have already told me in many readings that mom is not with the right partner,

Mom is not in the right relationship.

And those spirit babies,

They said that they are waiting for her mom decision to do something about that life situation.

So there are also indications from spirits that they see where you are on your life path and they are happy to join you once you graduate from this life lesson.

And to just provide you with some percentages for that group,

I would say it's about 30 to 40% of all my readings that those souls have chosen mom after she was born or chosen a family unit when that mom or dad got together and that baby felt that this is the right combination for them incarnating into this lifetime.

Let's move to the third group and this group is called manifested souls.

That's how I like to call them because those souls,

They respond,

They truly respond to a loving invitation of a mom or of a couple.

And this one is more about the conscious conception where parents truly desire a baby and they call a new soul in into their energetic field.

So we can simply set an intention and ask the soul of those babies to come forward to connect with us.

So when do I notice this most often?

It is usually women who have already had their first children,

Whether they were born and they are currently living as children on earth or whether they were just here for a short moment.

So the pregnancy has ended or perhaps they decided to return to the spirit dimension.

Some of those souls might have been already from the first group.

So the pre-birth planned group,

The souls who decided with that mom or dad that they will come for the lifetime or they will come just for a little while.

And that plan has already been panned out.

So once that plan has been panned out in different ways,

There usually is a space within the energetic field of that mom or a couple because anyone who's already been birthed and they were meant to come,

There is no one else waiting.

And in that case,

That mom has a greater possibility to welcome or to call in a new soul to join her in this lifetime.

And when I say a new soul,

I don't mean a freshly made new soul.

What I only mean is the soul that hasn't been around the energetic field of that mom yet.

And this is when you can actually manifest from inside out.

What I mean by this,

We don't use our ego mind to manifest.

We use our energetic field and our heart.

We use the energy of love to call the new soul in and the new baby towards you.

And it is bound that there will be a response when you follow those steps.

Energy first and then follow with positive thoughts and actions about it.

One advice.

Do not start with checklist of thoughts like I want to have a baby with blue eyes,

Brown hair.

Just remember,

Those things are the least important.

And I know that every mom says that it's the most important thing that my child is healthy.

Yes,

This is something that we all want and that is something that we can send in our intention because there is a soul out there that would love to be born in a healthy body.

So for those of you who already know how to connect with spirit babies or sense energies quite well,

What you might sense when you start calling a new soul in,

You might sense that there is a new energy arriving around you and you might also start having dreams about a new baby.

So that is the moment when you know that the connection is functioning,

Has been established and there is a new soul around you.

I would say that the consistency here matters.

The more you do it,

The more consistent you are I would say the more effective the practice is and you will sense that energy.

And just please remember that sometimes when the answer is no it can link to some greater life choices on your side.

So for example this could be wanting conception only in a certain way,

Wishing for only genetics that are from your side or maybe that the relationship dynamics are not exactly right for you.

Not necessarily for that spirit baby because they can tune into the frequencies that they wish to arrive into into that family but it is also about you.

Your soul desire to have a different relationship where you can actually step into different energies.

So sometimes even though you call a new soul in but the relationship doesn't match the result may not show up in a physical world until you move on to another relationship or a life situation where you feel at peace and energetically safe and thriving,

Ready,

Open.

It is that important.

And sometimes it may simply be that you didn't plan to have more children in this lifetime and that happens as well and then it might be somewhat more difficult to override this initial wish of the soul for that specific desire to have that many children in this lifetime but it is not impossible but perhaps your soul wanted to experience just one child in this lifetime because maybe you've had 12 in the previous ones and you just wanted to have that peace of mind in this lifetime and wanted to focus a little bit on yourself instead on many children around you.

I will give you my personal experience maybe that will illustrate the soul planning and the actual number of children in this lifetime a little bit better for you.

When I was 20 years old I met a psychic medium and she said to me that I will have only one child in this lifetime.

I didn't mind that at that time.

Quite honestly having children was the last thing on my mind but later in my life when I had my first son after all those rounds of IVF and after one miscarriage and I still remembered her words but I thought to myself well I don't want to have one child I truly don't and I said to myself no I will do everything to have my second child and I did.

I did additional five IVF egg retrievals multiple transfers and then finally I was told that only donor eggs for my case and then I moved from there to holistic and spiritual path and with that I conceived a baby but it wasn't a take-home baby and with that I peacefully closed my fertility chapter.

So based on that personal experience and experiences actually of many of my clients I do question the subject of pre-birth planning and the idea how much you can actually change on your life path with just your free will once you are here on planet earth and just for myself so when I connect with spirits when I ask the question what did my soul plan in this lifetime I know the answer and it isn't the answer I was able to accept only four years ago no my ego mind was still against it and I was trying to change it at all cost I wanted to go in another direction but I've not completed some of my life lessons that my soul really wanted to experience first and I do believe that that was the moment the universe has simply closed the door on me and forced me to align with what was truly essential on my path then and there and it wasn't welcoming a second child into my life it was something else so I will leave you with a question when was the last time you actually checked with your soul what it is that it truly deeply wants to experience to create in this lifetime not the ego mind that tends to be conditioned by the culture religion upbringing everything that's human made but the soul the very essence of who you are sometimes it's really worth checking in because you may be surprised by the messages that come out of nowhere and yet they resonate with you as truth thank you for joining me for this episode of spirit baby guide podcast today we explored incarnation soul planning and three most common ways spirit babies choose their parents in this lifetime just remember these categories are just a map they are useful for orientation but they are not the full landscape if this episode resonated please share it with someone who needs it or just leave a review so those teachings can reach those who need them most until next time honor your path trust your soul and remember you're never walking it alone