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What Do You Really Want? And Can You Feel It Already?

by Evelien van Ommen

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What do you really want? We often chase things we believe will make us happy. A relationship. More money. A different job. More success. But what if what you are really looking for is not the thing itself? In this talk, we explore the deeper feeling beneath every desire and discover why the love, peace, freedom, connection, and fulfillment we long for may already be available within us. Together, we explore what we are truly seeking beneath our desires, why the mind keeps looking outside itself, how to access the feeling you long for right now, and the connection between self-love, inner peace, and freedom. This session is an invitation to stop searching for yourself in the outside world and begin remembering what has always been present within. If this resonates, continue with the 5-day video journey: 'Remembering The Love You Already Are.' A journey of remembrance, self-love, and returning Home to yourself.

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I beautiful you,

So welcome.

My name is Yves,

Eveline in Dutch,

And I share about many different aspects of our human experience.

Always from a bigger perspective.

From the perspective of your higher consciousness.

And there's a lot to discover there.

So,

Well,

Let's go.

In this video,

I'd love to explore a very simple question.

What is it?

That you really want.

Is take a moment.

What comes up for you?

What is it?

That you really,

Really,

Really long for.

What is it that you want to create?

What is it that you want to experience?

What is it?

That makes your heart sing,

Makes your heart happy.

Maybe a relationship,

More money,

Another job,

A house,

A business.

Holiday.

Is let it come.

What would really make you happy.

Or even a step further.

What would really make you feel complete?

I guess you are starting to feel something already.

Because feeling complete.

Ooh,

Is that ever possible?

We always keep wanting the next thing.

Our human mind does,

At least.

Of course,

There's nothing wrong with wanting those things.

We are here in this human experience to create,

To explore,

To have fun.

To expand.

Experience.

But I have noticed something interesting recently.

When I ask people what they want.

And then I keep asking a little bit more and deeper.

Something starts to show up.

So.

.

.

Let's go a little bit deeper.

And you feel.

What the feeling is that you want underneath what you want.

What is the feeling your heart truly,

Truly longs for?

Might not be the thing.

Not the person,

Not the relationship.

Of the holiday.

It's the feeling.

The energy that the thing or that person seems to give you.

Just feeling today.

What are you really?

Really,

Really longing for.

To receive out of that person,

That experience,

That thing.

What is the feeling that you think you will feel after you have achieved or received that thing?

Or that person.

Or death experience.

Is it long?

Freedom.

Maybe in a peace,

Joy,

Happiness.

Connection.

Inner Peace.

Freedom.

The freedom to be you.

Really,

Really you.

The freedom to express the unique energy that you are.

Just feel it for yourself.

But I truly believe.

That this is.

What we are all really longing for.

Love.

Freedom.

Joy,

Also joy.

Yet,

When we lose the connection with ourselves,

We tend to forget this.

And our mind just keeps moving,

The ego keeps moving into the next thing and the next thing and the next thing.

And the next thing.

Always believing.

I'll be happy when I have that thing.

I'll be happy when.

I will achieve that thing.

I will happy then.

Only then when I will feel what I want to feel.

So let's try something together.

Little experiment.

Think of one thing you really,

Really want right now.

And you think you don't have it.

Something you believe would make a huge difference.

In your life.

Go to your heart.

And ask yourself.

Ow.

Would I feel?

If I had already had it.

I want you free.

Really feeling it.

Maybe it's a sum of money,

Maybe it's a relationship,

A house.

A baby,

Maybe.

Could be anything.

Would you feel love?

Would you feel free?

Stay safe,

Relax.

Or abundance.

Joyful,

Happy.

Take a deep breath in.

And stay with the feeling.

Feeling to them.

Abundant feeling or this peaceful feeling.

Or this relief,

Finally.

How do you feel?

How does it make your body feel?

And I can tell you now.

You already have everything you want.

You think you need or you long for.

Because you can feel it right now,

Right?

It's only about the feeling.

Do you finally feel?

Just for a moment.

Ah,

Feel it just for a moment,

Because something beautiful happens here.

The thing we think we want.

Is not what we really want.

Peter Krohn said it so beautifully and it came to me this week.

We want the feeling.

We believe exists.

On the other side.

Of having this thing that we think we want.

Let that sink in.

It's all about the energy.

All about the frequency and yet notice what just happened.

You were able to feel it.

You were already feeling it right now.

Before the thing arrived,

Before the situation changed.

Before the outside world became different.

Peeling is already available inside of you.

So what you really,

Really long for has really nothing to do with something outside of you.

Really nothing.

It's all about the feeling.

And the feeling is happening.

In you.

Always.

It cannot be something outside of you.

And to me it feels like this is one of the biggest shifts.

Shifts,

Difficult word.

We can make it.

A human being.

Discovery.

That what we are searching for.

Is already here,

Present.

Within us.

We are it.

So that abundant feeling,

That love,

That peace.

Doesn't have to wait.

Until the end of the call.

Freedom.

Does not wait at the end of a process.

The love does not wait for the right relationship.

That fulfillment.

Does not wait for more money,

A different body.

Or even a different future.

Because so often we live as if the outside world needs to give us something.

As if there is an experience waiting somewhere that will finally complete us.

But what if that isn't true?

What if it all is actually a process of remembering?

That it is all in you.

You don't have to gain anything.

It's all about remembering.

Funny thing,

We don't have to add anything either.

It's more about removing things.

Removing the layers.

On which we got to believe.

That we were not these things and that we had to gain them in our outside world.

This reality doesn't work like that.

If you can already be it,

Feel it.

The outside world will change.

In order for you to have that experience.

In your 3D reality.

And of course,

We have to let go layer by layer of the fears,

The beliefs,

The conditioning,

And all our survival mechanisms.

All the stories about who we think we need to be.

And every time one of those layers falls away.

Something beautiful becomes visible again.

More peace.

More freedom.

More trust.

More love.

And it just appeared.

It comes to the surface because you are it.

Deep,

Deep down,

You are all of it.

And when you stop holding it back,

When you stop looking outside.

This beautiful thing opens up.

The real you.

And the love that you are.

The self-love.

That you are.

Self-love.

Ooh,

That word.

Sounds a little bit boring,

Maybe.

But it's all about this.

All about that original frequency that you are.

You were created as a divine being out of love.

The whole universe was loved into creation.

You were loved into creation.

Into the divine being that you are and into that beautiful human that you are.

And our human journey.

All about remembering this.

Remembering that you are all of it.

And that you have.

It's about remembering.

Who you have always been.

And always will be.

The love,

The peace.

The Frieda.

The fulfillment.

So yes.

Dream,

Create,

Follow your heart,

Ask for what you want.

It's all you do.

Remember that you already are the frequency of what you see.

Tune into it,

Feel it,

Embody it,

Stay with it.

Stay in the now.

And just see how life unfolds from there.

If this resonates with you,

You want to go a little bit deeper into this.

I created a short video course.

Remembering the love that you already are.

In that course,

We explore why love can feel difficult to find.

Why we experience separation,

How we reconnect to ourselves.

And what it truly means to embody self-love in every moment of the day.

Because if you can do that,

Wow.

Then you just are it.

You are that energy flowing into the world.

Flowing into your experience.

And that is so.

Amazing.

I welcome you.

I will include the details.

Thank you so much for being here.

All the Love!

And I'd love to see you in the next video.

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