Remembering The Love You Already Are

If Love is your true nature, why does it so often feel out of reach?

In this talk, we explore how the experience of separation begins and how survival becomes woven into our identity. Over time, we start searching outside ourselves for what has always lived within us.

You'll discover a different way of seeing your life story. Every relationship, trigger, and experience can become an invitation to remember who you truly are. As you reconnect with your original Blueprint and your connection with Source, your nervous system begins to recognize a deeper sense of safety.

This talk is part of the (new, upcoming) course Self-Love #2 – From Separation to Wholeness: Bringing Every Part of Yourself Home. The course includes guided meditations, reflective exercises, and a carefully structured journey of integration. You're warmly welcome to continue there.

With gratitude to Frits Evelein for the music.

Transcript

Take a deep breath in. Deep, Deep breaths. Into your now. And exhale through your mouth. And just relax. How does this earthly reality? Translate itself into our human experience. And why is it so hard to experience love in this earthly life? Or maybe better said. . . Why do we believe and perceive it to be so hard? Because if we are love. If love is our natural state. Then why do we spend our lives searching for it? And that is where we have to understand something about this reality. Our human mind. Is deeply, Deeply programmed into survival. Into fear, Into separation. Separation is indeed an actual frequency here on this planet. So from there. From that frequency and that experience, Our human mind is constantly scanning the outside world for safety, Approval, Validation and connection. We are so used to vibrating in fear, In survival, In separation. That we now have to relearn. How to integrate. The love vibration again. Love is also a frequency. And it cannot be both anymore. It's a frequency of separation or it's a frequency of love? And we really have to get used to it again. Get used to asking for it again. Allowing it again. We really have to let our system become familiar with it. We have to train our brain to shift from this negatively programmed state of being. Mostly connected to the brainstem and the survival regions in the brain. Into another state of being. Into the state of being where the love is. Over and over and over again we are invited. To shift. From fear to love. And in a way that is very strange. Because we are created with his energy. We are created. With unconditional love. It's a divine principle, As well as goodness, Truth, Beauty. Omniscience, Omnipresence. And omnipotence. Those are the Divine Principles and you are created with those Principles because your Creator is those Principles. It is part of the very fabric of Creator and of creation. It is part of the essence through which all of life throughout the universe is created. And because creation never creates outside of itself. You are made from that same fabric. You are made with this essence. This is your blueprint. This is your lineage. And you carry that blueprint within you. Your true essence is made with a divine DNA. And that's beyond your physical DNA. This is a deeper energetic blueprint. And one of the core frequencies woven into that blueprint is love. You are indeed made with it. Inside your cells already lives the frequency you are searching for. It is all within. And yet here we are, In our human form, Asking for love. Searching for love, Trying to receive love, Trying to become worthy of love. We are trying to find love from our human parents. And subconsciously we are projecting that longing. On everyone we meet. Can you be my mom? Can you be my dad? Can you give me the love that I so longed for when I was this little boy? What is a little girl? But even your parents, Your human parents. Were reflections, Holograms of something bigger than that. We are trying. To find the love of our Creator. Of our own higher self. So that is what we are searching for, Trying to receive love, Become worthy of love. While it makes no sense. What happened? How did we forget so deeply? That we are love itself. We are so taught that love is outside of us. From the get-go. That was what we learned. That we need to earn it, Find it, Receive it, Hold on to it. And then love becomes an idea, A concept. Something outside of ourselves that we need to attain. Well, Actually, Love is a frequency, A vibration, A fabric. A living substance within creation itself. Every cell in your body contains this love frequency. And yet, This reality continuously manipulates us into believing and experiencing the opposite. This entire reality. Keeps pulling us into fear. Into survival. Into believing that we are separate. That we are unsafe and that we constantly need something outside of ourselves. And that is by design. This whole reality. Is a trap. To keep you trapped. In the lower frequencies of fear. And to forget that you are love. This whole reality is designed to make you experience that. It already starts when you come in. It starts the moment we are born and even before when you are in the womb. And when you are a baby, You cannot survive alone. So here you are, As a huge, Fast, Divine being. Trapped inside a tiny baby body. Completely dependent on others. Dependent on a mother and later on a father or other caregivers. But your parents carry their own trauma. Their own survival mechanisms. Their own disconnection and longing for love. So even when love seems to be there in the relationship with your parents. It's not fully present. It's not fully safe, Not fully aligned, Not fully attuned. How could it be? This whole reality is designed to keep us away from it. It's also designed to keep your parents away from it, And you. So it's already there where the huge experience of separation in this human form begins. Because even if you are a baby, And maybe especially when you are a baby, You feel deeply. You know deeply. But the outside experience looks completely different. There, Already there, You start to disconnect from yourself. You already start to create your own survival mechanisms, Masks, Ego identities. There, Already, There, We start to embody the frequency of survival and fear. And those survival mechanisms merge so deeply with your identity, That you eventually no longer know what is what. Is there anywhere a healthy? Loving part to be found? What is fear? What is protection? What is survival? And what is actually love. How on earth? Would we know? We are in this soup. How can we discern that there is something else out there when all you've ever known is within this soup. Your original software, Your divine blueprint, Your love frequency becomes completely entangled with the human programming of separation. Layer after layer after layer gets added on top of that. Your divine blueprint is also there in everything in your life. Is continuously trying to guide you back. Back to who you really are. Every relationship, Every experience, Every trigger, Every mirror. Everything in your outside world is trying to bring you back to yourself. Back to the love that you are. Because all the parts within you that became fragmented through confusion, Fear and survival all those scattered pieces. Are waiting to be included in love again. Waiting. To be remembered. As love. So that slowly, Slowly, Piece by piece by piece. You remember yourself. As the love itself. The love you were made with. Because you are in love. Love is your nature. It is who you really are. And with every piece you bring back home to you. This remembrance awakens more and more. That's the journey. That's the whole human journey. And it truly begins with reconnecting to that frequency. To the frequency of your original blueprint. If there is one thing you can do to support your human, It is this. Reconnect to that frequency again and again and again. And train yourselves with it. Allow your body to become familiar with another state of being. Because all the trauma, All the lower frequencies, All the states where you got hijacked. Where you feel disconnected, Where relationships don't flow, Or where you simply do not feel happy. All of that. Ultimately comes from separation. So your connection is the most important thing. Because in that connection to your Source, To your Higher Self, You allow your cells, Your nervous system, Your subconscious mind. To feel that it is safe to relax. Save to let go of the lower frequencies. Safe. To heal. Healing. There's nothing to fix. You don't have to add something new to you. It's also not about becoming something or someone else. Healing is simply letting go of what you are not. Letting go of the distorted, Manipulated human programming. So your Divine Blueprint can come forward again. And you can start to begin leading your life on a completely new level. So let's begin there. Tool number one for deeper self-love. Your source connection. Your connection with your higher consciousness. Because ultimately it's all the same thing. And by the way, This source connection carries a frequency from around 1000 Hz. Consciousness hurt. It's a frequency. A specific frequency. And you allow, By doing that connection every day, Yourselves to become familiar with that state. Above the 734 Hz to 1000 Hz. You move beyond the level of this matrix reality. You move beyond this reality of fear and separation and you reconnect with your Higher Self, Your Universal Consciousness. And with your connection with Source itself. And that is what truly makes the difference. Much more deeply than any exercise done only within this planetary level. As beautiful and supportive as those exercises can absolutely be. But wow, When we combine those. When we combine those practical exercises to support our human. With this source, Connection and this specific frequency. Everything becomes even more beautiful. More powerful and more effective. Because this is the energy. Of your Divine Blueprint. Waiting to open up. In this earthly reality. Within your body. Within your life.