Why Your Relationship Patterns Continue To Play Out

Now,

Why do we attract that,

Those painful dynamics?

Why do we keep calling that in again and again and again?

Why can't it just stop?

Why can't it go away?

Well,

The thing is that our lives are actually driven by our souls.

People like to think that there is someone else running all the show,

But the fact is that it is our soul that knows exactly what we need,

Knows how to heal what needs to heal.

So when we are still in spirit form,

We think about what we're coming here for,

And we make a plan for our lives.

It's not a concrete plan all the time.

Not much is concrete,

But there's all of these potentials and possibilities that we place in our path.

And if you take this possibility,

Then your life will go that way.

If you take that possibility,

Your life will go that way.

So there are points of where you can choose and have a different path,

But it's not that there's only one path.

In some things,

If something for you has been going on life after life after life,

And you just say,

That's it,

This time is it,

Then that will be a must,

A concrete,

But other than that,

There are choices.

So what happens is we decide what we need to learn,

What we need to let go of,

What we need to heal,

And then we can sometimes create soul contracts with others.

So when we have these people that come into our lives and we just play out all of this anger and hatred,

Et cetera,

Understand that what is happening there is they are triggers.

That is to help you to let go.

It's to heal it,

To experience it,

To see how much you don't want it,

And then to decide to let it go.

So whatever it is,

It is a healing opportunity.

And that's what I wanted to address in this video,

Is that so much of life are healing opportunities,

Is healing opportunity,

And that we draw in the right people to trigger us because we wanna heal those issues.

So I just wanted to say to you that everyone that has come into your life,

Triggered massive issues,

Is not necessarily a villain,

And certainly not people who hate you.

They can be the people who love you the most,

The souls who love you the most,

And you can be the souls that love them the most.

And from that love,

You agree to help each other heal,

Knowing that while you're here,

You're probably gonna end up being hated by each other.

Now that's love.

That's really love.

The other thing is that you'll find that they go on and on and on.

This happens again and again and again with a different partner,

As we said,

Different partner,

Same music.

That is because you are committed to trying to heal this.

So if you have a pattern pretending that it doesn't exist,

Pushing it aside,

Finding a new partner,

It doesn't work.

It is going to just keep repeating.

So the only way to really get past it is to actually work on it and heal it.

I'll make other videos on how to heal it,

But for now,

You need to know there is no point to just trying to pretend it doesn't exist or to say that's not me,

You know,

To blame it on other people.

It's pointless because it's just gonna keep happening until you eventually own it,

And then you move past it.

The good thing though,

The reward for all of this hard work,

For this honesty with self,

For this self-reflection,

Self-awareness,

Which then becomes self-love,

And now self-love can translate into a relationship of conscious love.

And that is the greatest reward of all because they are so beautiful,

So warm and loving and giving and equal.

And with a partner that's present,

Not someone whose attention you're constantly trying to get,

But someone who's actually in that relationship with you,

In that partnership.

So just keep going.

You're on a road of growth or you wouldn't be at this channel.

So just keep going.

Have faith,

Have hope in yourself and believe that you can grow,

You can change,

And that life can become something that you really love to live.

Take care and I'll see you in the next video.