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When You Are Having Trouble With Other Human Beings...

by Premasudha Janet Hobbs

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Premasudha's gift is that she speaks from enormous depth and breadth of knowledge, but puts it all so simply and in such a lighthearted way, that a big understanding gets communicated in just a few words. This makes weighty spiritual principles easily to digest and implement in our lives. What's not to love?

RelationshipsInterpersonal ConflictSpiritual PrinciplesUnderstandingSelf CompassionHonorNon ViolenceInner PeaceEmotional ResilienceNature ConnectionLightheartedness

Transcript

It becomes,

Our experience becomes more loving as we feel the love in our hearts and express it to all of life.

You know,

So even if maybe you're having trouble with the people around you,

You can still commune with nature or,

You know,

Hug a tree and,

You know,

Bond with your pets and just take time to grow in wisdom until it's easier to deal with humanity.

Really,

Whatever works,

You know,

The important thing is to take care of your own heart,

Take care of your own soul and,

You know,

Do no harm to others and be as loving and compassionate with them as possible without causing yourself hardship.

You see,

In the higher levels of the journey,

What happens is you bond so much to your own true nature that if people are rude or mean or something,

It just doesn't have an effect.

You just,

If anything,

You just feel compassion.

So there's a level of inner non-engagement with the drama,

Inner non-engagement with the going back and forth,

And that tends to stop it.

You know,

Without,

You know,

If somebody punches you,

You don't punch back.

It can often then,

The whole thing loses the energy,

Loses the energy,

And the person gets faced with their own brutality and hopefully gags on it.

You know,

This is the principle behind non-violence and why Gamby promoted this in India was,

You know,

By mostly not responding to the British aggression.

The Brits were faced with their own brutality.

You know,

They were faced with the fact that they slaughtered,

You know,

Many Indians who were not fighting back,

And as they gagged on their own brutality,

They lost the will to keep the sovereignty over India.

So it's the same thing,

You know.

It's like sometimes just not reacting to bullies,

Then they give up if they're not getting their hit of,

You know,

Upset that they're wanting to cause,

But then sometimes we just need to absent ourselves from the situation and not put our dear hearts there.

The most important thing is loving to honor yourself.

You're a divine being in human form.

It's very brave to be here,

And all we can do is our best.

Bless your hearts.

Meet your Teacher

Premasudha Janet HobbsNorth Vancouver, BC, Canada

4.8 (26)

Recent Reviews

Gaynor

August 29, 2025

I really needed to hear that it is ok to step away and care for my heart . In this way I can come back with more capacity for loving understanding πŸ™

Odalys

April 17, 2024

You are so wise and loving. I love all your meditations. Bless your heart. πŸ™πŸ‘‘πŸ‘ΌπŸΌπŸ’–πŸ§˜πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

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