Excuse me,
Young man.
What was that?
Am I seeing tears?
Is your posture slouching?
Or are you feeling sad?
If you ever want to find love,
You have to be strong.
You have to provide.
You can't show your feelings.
Others will think you're weak.
You have to fight.
Stop complaining.
Don't say a word.
Talking about your feelings?
That's absurd.
Real men don't do that.
Real men are tough.
Real men don't cry and real men don't laugh.
Here,
Lift these.
Does it hurt?
Good.
Try some more.
What's that?
Some struggle?
Lift these too.
Or are you not a strong man?
I thought you cared about women.
If you truly did then you wouldn't make it all about you.
Real men keep their problems to themselves.
You can hold your own hand if it's difficult you have to go through.
A real man is a protector.
He cares about others' well-being more than he does about his own.
And what do I spot over there?
Creating a new trend by talking about your feelings?
Sure,
Go that way.
Just know that by doing so you'll end up alone.
Talking about your feelings is a strategy designed by the weak.
They're too small and soft to be a man and so they had to cheat.
They play with a woman's feelings by acting like her.
Feminine,
Caring and sweet.
But these men are cowards.
They're not good enough and sooner or later the woman will cheat.
She'll find a real man,
Just like you're about to become.
What's that?
Showing no emotions makes a man go numb?
Alright,
Go and try it for yourself.
Go have a blast.
Be the nice guy and we'll see who finishes last.
Excuse me,
Unhealed man.
What was that?
Am I seeing trauma?
Did somebody hurt you?
Are you feeling sad?
If you ever want to find love,
Be a bit more kind.
Shine your light.
You can show your feelings.
Others will think you're strong.
You don't have to fight.
Stop trying harder.
It's okay to try soft.
Talking about your feelings,
That's what women want.
Real men acknowledge their power and use it for good.
Real men make a woman feel safe by showing that if he had to,
He could.
Here,
Remove these.
Does that feel better?
Good.
Let's heal some more.
Huh?
What's that?
Feeling lighter?
Remove these too.
You may stop being a fighter.
I know you care about women.
I can see you're trying so hard.
Women want a man to show self-mastery.
They want you to be strong and they want you to guard.
They want you to open up and reveal your inner world,
To penetrate the surface of life with truth,
Choosing authenticity over fear.
The feminine wants us to provide presence,
Safety,
And a grounded container for her to fully express,
Flow,
And surrender here.
Talking about your feelings is no strategy.
It's called communication,
Designed by the strong.
For they realize that the true way to a woman's heart is through vulnerability.
It's a form of strength to put your guard down.
It shows a woman you're so strong that you don't even need a shield.
It shows her that you trust yourself,
That you trust her,
And that you're a real man because you are healed.
