Snippets of Wisdom Like Yourself More How much do you like yourself?
Do you praise yourself often and give yourself pats on the back for a job well done?
Or do you criticize yourself,
Doubt,
And complain about who you are?
I have a couple more questions for you.
Who is showing up in your life?
People who like you or people who complain and criticize you?
Let me just say,
People will only like you as much as you like you.
This is wonderful news if you really like yourself,
Because you will be surrounded by people who really like you,
Too.
Life will be fun and more enjoyable for the most part.
But what if negative people keep showing up in your world?
Well,
That indicates that you have some work to do on your self-love.
We always attract those who are aligned or those who harmonize with our energy in the moment.
You've probably noticed this.
Sometimes we feel really good and good people just show up for us.
We laugh and have a great time.
Other times,
We just messed up and are belittling ourselves.
And bam!
A complaining,
Critical person shows up and makes us feel worse.
The people we attract are always a match to our energy.
So,
The more we like ourselves,
The more others will like us.
Our good-feeling energy about who we are is beaming out toward others.
And those who are a match come flowing in.
Of course,
The reverse is also true.
The more we don't like ourselves,
The more our energy sucks and attracts all kinds of sucky people to confirm to us that we really don't like ourselves much.
If you want more people to like you,
You must like yourself first.
Show them how wonderful you are by the love you give yourself.
They will be so attracted to your confidence,
Self-love,
Approval,
And acceptance energy.
Even if they can't put their finger on it,
They just like you.
Make it a point to look for all of your positive aspects.
Make lists of things you appreciate about yourself.
Simply like yourself more and others will like you too.
Remember to come back daily to enjoy another meditation,
Prayer,
Or talk in the Snippets of Wisdom series to support your joyous self-love and self-like.
Big hugs,
Marianne.
