Rejection Is Protection

Rejection is protection from a timeline you are not meant to be on. And as a starseed or lightworker who carries the truth frequency? You’re only ever rejected by people who don’t want to do the work. As an activator for the new earth, you carry a very real frequency that is confronting to those who don’t want to self-reflect. Your truth frequency illuminates their truth they are not willing to see. If you feel rejected, ignored, and shunned by them? Actually, it is their own growth they reject.

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Well,

Hello.

Today is about rejection is protection.

For a very heavy subject,

It's actually going to be a light conversation between you and me because the reason that a lot of us are rejected is not quite what you think.

So rejection is protection from a timeline that you're not meant to be on.

You're not meant to be on a timeline out of alignment with source or out of alignment with where you're meant to be.

So us starseeds,

Right?

Starseeds light workers,

We are literally in transition.

This is what I'm seeing amongst our community.

We are in transition from releasing the old.

So a lot of us are releasing any old wounds,

Still attached to being rejected by society,

Right?

By maybe our industry,

By our family,

Our friends,

Our neighbours,

Our core group of people that we used to be with no longer.

And we're moving from going,

Oh,

Wait a minute,

Rejection is protection.

We're moving into then our power and into creation.

So I see this transition.

So if you are not fully able to be in creation,

I'm going to assert that you're still releasing yourself from anywhere where you've been rejected in your life.

And we've been rejected a lot,

Right?

Starseeds and light workers only occupy 1% of the population.

Did you know that?

So if we only occupy 1% of the population,

It stands to reason that most people are not going to be like you.

So when we grew up,

We thought we kind of felt like we felt different,

Right?

But we also felt that maybe everybody was like us.

So when we got rejected,

We felt like we were being rejected by one of us,

Like it's one of our clan,

Right?

Very few of us understood that there was actually quite a subtle difference.

Now that subtle difference,

You and me,

We're seeing this right now,

Began profoundly in 2019 with the two worlds split,

Where we really saw who were the smaller bunch of light workers and starseeds and who were not.

And we were seeing this right now,

Began profoundly in 2019 with the two worlds split,

Where we really saw who were the smaller bunch of light workers and starseeds and who were not.

Now that doesn't mean that the knots are not full of light.

They're full of a huge amount of light,

A blooming amount of light.

But there's a smaller percentage of people on this planet that are here to genuinely give a haven't woken up yet to who they actually are.

And they will be performing beautiful acts all the time,

Unaware,

Cool in the gang,

Right?

Doesn't really matter.

But on this planet,

If you think about it,

We're all moving to 5D and you and I,

You know,

We're going to spend part of our day,

Aren't we deliciously in five,

Four,

Three,

Two,

One,

Also 12,

Right?

Because it goes all the way up to 12D and probably beyond,

I'm sure,

Right?

But if you think about it,

When we were little,

That split wasn't so apparent.

We just thought everyone was like us.

We didn't get it.

So the rejections that we've been having along the way have actually been to protect us,

To protect you and me from staying on that 3D timeline that was not in alignment with our soul.

So let me give you something that happened.

I may have said this to you actually in yesterday,

In last week's podcast.

So,

But it feels very relevant still.

So just when the government announced,

I'm in England,

The government announced another stay at home order.

And usually for the first couple of days,

Everyone goes a bit flat.

I walked out for a walk.

I kind of go for a walk most days and I just,

I don't know,

I just felt like I should be in service somehow.

And I smiled at everybody,

Like huge with teeth,

Smile,

Like massive grin,

And also saying hi.

And not foolishly,

Just kind of just felt energetically,

Completely right.

And I say hello and smile to most people anyway,

But particularly,

I felt like it was really needed.

And I already felt like I was exuding that joy,

I felt great.

And then when I went to the organic shop,

I was speaking to a guy behind the counter.

And usually I would chat to him,

But I really just wanted to make sure he was okay.

And I really just was kind of making sure and then by the end of the conversation,

He felt he felt great.

I was fine.

So walking home,

And it occurred to me that not one person smiled back,

Which is unusual,

Right?

I do normally get smiles back,

But this particular day,

Not one person smiled back and the guy behind the counter couldn't give back to me.

And I was thinking,

Do you know,

It would be really nice just to get one person giving me a huge big wattage smile.

That would have been wonderful to get.

And I realised,

Marina,

If it's only one percent that are the lightworkers,

What are the chances of you walking past another lightworker today?

Pretty slim,

Right?

So of course,

I wasn't going to get a full wattage smile back.

I was going to get a lot of people walking past where that's not their life's purpose to,

You know,

Inspire somebody else or lift somebody else up or kind of see a need and just kind of give them that full wattage smile.

I'm not putting anybody down here.

I'm just talking about frequencies now,

Vibration.

So it would stand to reason,

Makes sense,

Means I don't take things as personally.

I go,

OK,

I get it.

I get it.

I can't expect something from you that you can't give me because you're not that starseed,

You're not that lightworker.

And that's cool.

You're more earthbound.

That's cool in the gang.

Right.

So rejection is protection.

If you and I were growing up as lightworkers and starseeds,

I knew you said lightseeds,

I quite like that,

Lightseeds,

And we were being this full wattage self,

Bright light,

Wouldn't it be the case that most people around us were in 3D?

We were on a 3D timeline,

Perhaps 5D,

But let's face it,

Most of us were on a 3D timeline,

Right,

At that particular point in time.

But most people around us belonged on that 3D timeline.

We were just on it because we were in those families or those friends or we were at the school or we just thought maybe that we were like everybody else.

We didn't realise we were different.

And so we were just on it because we were in those families or those friends or those friends or those friends or those friends or those friends.

Right.

These people were always in 3D.

We just didn't want to recognise it.

So when they rejected us,

We took it personally because we thought that they were like us.

Actually,

They're not and we aren't.

So if you are a beautiful lightworker,

And really,

When I say to myself,

Gain,

Right.

To earn money is fine,

But not to sort of become famous and,

You know,

Do all of that literally,

Because you care.

Then,

If you've been surrounded by a lot of friends,

Family,

People in your industry,

Your neighbours,

All of those people,

Chances are,

Most of them are not star seeds.

Most of them are not here for the same reason that you're here.

You're here in the new world,

You're showing the new world to everybody all the time.

I was doing it on my walk,

Smiling,

You know,

Look,

We can still have a good time.

Right?

Those people I was walking past didn't show that back to me.

So instead of me getting disappointed or disillusioned or whatever,

I go,

Wait a minute,

There's only 1% of us.

I don't know how many people that is.

I do know,

However,

Though,

That it's growing every single day,

Which is pretty fucking cool.

Right?

So welcome.

It's a good place to be.

So Source knows where you and I are meant to be always.

Right?

And we're meant to rise up and leave an old timeline behind where we either learn the lesson or real reciprocal love just doesn't exist.

It's conditional.

It's not unconditional.

It's conditional on you being a certain way.

So if we think about it,

Right,

I'm going to move this forward to Korea.

Right?

So most star seeds I know are working for themselves.

Right?

They're in their own business or they have their own organization.

Or if they're working in a company,

If you're working in a company,

You're probably doing two jobs.

Right?

You're doing your job and you're doing the other job,

Which is whatever your particular speciality is,

Being really kind to people.

Right.

Or inspiring people.

Or maybe you have your transformer.

You help people transform.

Right.

So whatever your particular thing is,

You're doing that as well as,

You know,

Being a secretary or being a recruitment consultant or being a hairdresser or being whatever.

Right.

You're doing all the other stuff.

Right.

Doing the lightworker stuff.

For a lot of us,

Right,

We've been rejected a lot.

I don't know anybody that hasn't,

Right,

On any scale,

Right,

Whether you're a lightworker or not.

But particularly lightworkers and star seeds have been rejected a lot.

Misunderstood,

Not seen,

Not heard.

Think about it like this.

If you have a particular vibration,

That's a star seedy vibration,

And you're talking to somebody that's more in 3D or they're more of an earthling vibration,

They're not going to be able to see all of you.

They're just going to see the practical aspects of you,

What you could do for them,

For example,

Or what you can do.

They're not going to be able to see and appreciate your mastery,

Your higher level skills,

Because they haven't seen it in themselves yet.

They haven't risen to that yet.

So chances are they're not going to appreciate all of you.

They're going to appreciate some of you,

Which is why so many of you have struggled with being seen for who you are in your industry,

For being seen as that master that you are.

And perhaps you've struggled too in seeing yourself as the master that you are.

Every single star seed,

Every single lightworker is a master in a human body to usher this world into its next phase,

Into the age of Aquarius,

Which we're moving into technically from the 21st of March.

Right.

But we've been doing it for a while because we kind of,

As you know,

Energies ease in,

Don't they?

Like the full moon.

We don't just have the full moon energy on the full moon.

It starts the day before and it finishes the day after.

Right.

So the age of Aquarius,

Man,

We're already in it and it's feeling kind of groovy.

So if you have felt rejected up until now,

Right in your industry by people,

Family,

Friends,

Whatever,

Want you to understand that a lot of people that have rejected you,

Right in business or in your personal life because they haven't recognized you,

Haven't recognized how beautiful you are,

How talented you are,

How incredible you are.

One of the reasons is cognitive dissonance that's been perpetuated and grown by television,

By films,

By popular media out there,

By social media.

That shows you that the popular people,

The ones to follow,

The ones to revere,

The ones to buy from,

Their frequency is service to self.

They've gotten there through being in service to themselves.

So the reason that you haven't gotten to where you wanted to get to,

Why you're not further along in your journey,

Is that you haven't carried that frequency.

The frequency you carry is actually service to the world.

And people don't quite still recognize that.

They're going to begin this year,

Which is going to be really exciting,

But they don't quite value it still as much as idol worship.

So,

For example,

If on this podcast I was interviewing somebody famous,

Chances are more people would listen to it.

Right?

Why?

Because they'd be more trained by television and film and popular media to exalt those properties,

To really see that as more valuable than somebody that's lesser known.

Notice it within yourself when you are,

If you're on social media,

I know a lot of us have come off,

Right?

But if you're on social media,

Have a look.

Are you more likely to follow somebody if they're getting a lot of likes and follows?

You go,

Oh yeah,

I'm going to do it.

Then say you follow somebody and they've only got a few hundred.

Are you less likely to?

So what are you responding to?

Are you responding to their content or are you responding to how popular they are?

Notice that within yourself and clear the programming,

Because that same programming that's stopping you from seeing them for who they are is going to stop you from seeing you for who you are.

If you don't have a big following,

You're going to attach your level of value to how big or popular you are.

So clear that because that's not who you are,

Right?

You're not these people.

A lot of these people,

They're not lightworkers,

They're not starseats.

Sure,

Some of them are 100 percent.

And that brings me on to the next bunch of people that I've seen who are starseats,

Who are lightworkers,

Who are further along than you are in these friendship groups,

In your extended family,

In your career,

Right?

In your industry,

They are being recognized,

They're being seen,

Okay?

They are carrying a portion of them that is in service to self.

So they are in service to the world,

But they've understood how to harness that energy of service to self and to use it to be seen.

So it's very clever,

Right?

And they're brilliant.

They're brilliant.

I haven't been able to do that and I'm suspecting that a lot of you haven't either,

Right?

That's okay.

The energy of 2021 is thus,

It is in service to the world.

That's it.

So anybody that is purely in service for themselves,

That is,

They do things purely for personal gain.

They don't care about you.

They'll make it out.

They care about you,

But they don't care about you,

Right?

They're going to find the energy of this year,

Particularly confronting and frustrating because it's not going to acquiesce to their energy because they're out of alignment with source.

Now,

They always have been,

But this world has kind of carried everybody.

It's gone,

You know what?

Freedom of choice.

You're going to get it.

You'll be fine.

But this new energy that's literally pouring in is not going to tolerate it.

So what they're going to find is a lot of things that they used to do that were successful fall flat.

Those in the middle that have been in service to others and,

You know,

Will make sure they're in service to themselves can now release that service to,

They don't need to do it so much,

Right?

They can literally relax and be who they always have been,

Which is a beautiful light worker that's in service to the world because now,

Right,

The outside world is going to start recognising them.

They don't need to work as hard to be in service to self because others now are going to see them.

Then we come to the last group of light workers and starseeds who are in service to the world.

You are going to be recognised now this year.

Now,

You may have heard this from others.

I haven't heard it so much.

I'm feeling it.

I'm a feeler.

This is what I feel.

People are now going to see you.

Why?

Because they are recognising that idol worship,

Right,

Is completely out of alignment.

They are no longer willing to give their energy to those who are in service to themselves because they're recognising it.

So their cognitive dissonance is releasing.

It's going.

It's being smashed.

As more disclosure happens this year,

More and more souls are going to wake up from that reverie they've been in,

Where they've been just serving service to self individuals,

And they're going to start serving service to the world individuals.

They're going to really see you.

So instead of just being able to see half of you,

Oh,

God,

Not only is he or she brilliant at what they do,

They're also really loving and they're really non-judgmental and they're really kind.

And they actually take a lot of time with me and they actually really care.

I'm going to give you my attention.

What was I thinking?

What was I doing?

Right.

We're breaking that old paradigm,

That old timeline.

So when you've been rejected,

I want to ask you,

Who have you been rejected by?

Have a look.

When you look at who you've been rejected by,

I'm going to assert it's people that haven't been able to see you.

They've seen part of you.

They've seen the part of you that they don't want to see in themselves.

Right.

So they've seen your shadow,

For example,

And because they haven't wanted to do the work and heal it within themselves,

Right,

They're going to reject you.

They're going to project it onto you and go,

You're that,

Right?

No,

Thanks.

So for example,

If I've got a high level of self-love,

Somebody with a low level of self-love that's stuck in 3D,

It's going to see me as high maintenance.

They're not going to see me as having a high level of self-love.

They're going to go,

Oh,

La-di-da,

Look at her.

No,

Thanks,

Because I'm too much for them.

Because what would be being around me with a higher level of self-love than you is confronting.

It's going to make you think,

It's going to make you look at you.

And if you don't want to do the work,

You're just going to reject me.

Now,

If I think that you're like me,

I'm going to take it personally.

But if I understand that I occupy 1% of the population,

Then chances are the other 99% are not going to be able to give me that big wattage smile.

They're not going to be able to infuse me with light.

They're not going to want to add to me in the way that I want to add to people.

They're not.

They're just not.

And that's very cool.

But it's important to get it,

Because all of us,

Whether you're a light worker or not,

We are all meant to be here.

We all have gifts to give.

We're all incredible.

But the energy is different.

A light worker,

In my experience,

Light workers don't reject very often.

The reason that we reject is really if you're not able to be in a reciprocal relationship with us.

So if I'm in a relationship with you and you are unable to see things,

For example,

From the higher truths,

And you're just going to talk about fear,

You're just going to talk about worry,

And you're going to sort of stay stuck there.

I'm not talking about,

You know,

We all go through things,

But you're stuck there.

Now,

I'm going to have good boundaries,

Right?

I don't need to be in any relationships where it's not reciprocal.

So I'm going to have good boundaries.

You might take that as rejection.

It's just good boundaries,

Right?

Are you on my timeline?

No,

You're not.

You're beautiful,

But you're not.

Am I on somebody more advanced than me with energy on their timeline?

No,

I'm not.

And I would hope that they would reject me gently and go,

No,

No,

Because I don't want to hurt anybody without realizing it.

I don't want to do anything if I don't see it or realize it.

If I don't see all of them,

How can I properly be with them?

I can't.

So I need to do the work,

Right?

And the truth is,

Do we really need to do the work?

All we're doing with doing the work is peeling off what is on us to reveal our true selves.

We're already healed and perfect and whole.

Right,

Back to rejection.

So,

Star C is just a little recap,

Right?

We're going from rejection is protection to stepping in our power to being in creation.

If we're not fully in creation,

Where have we taken past rejection personally?

Where have we taken it to mean we're not good enough?

We are unlovable.

We're invisible.

We are unlikable.

We're a bit ugly,

A bit repellent,

Not very good at what we do.

You know,

All of that.

Where,

What are you making it to mean about you?

So what if,

So have a look,

Have a look at where you've been making it to mean something about you,

Right?

That they just didn't like you.

If you're really honest,

Did you ever look forward to seeing these people or this person?

Like at the point when they rejected you,

Did you really look forward to seeing them?

You didn't,

Did you?

Right,

You might have done in the past,

Right,

When you first met,

But you didn't.

So really,

Who's rejecting who?

Is it really a rejection or is it both of you deciding that you don't belong together anymore?

That you want different things,

You have different needs,

You're in a different timeline?

All rejection is,

Is both of you hearing from your higher self that it's no longer a vibrational match,

But one of you acts before the other person.

One of you is acting on the knowledge from their higher self before the other person.

They just acted on it,

But if you're really honest,

You're feeling it too,

Right?

Because it wasn't right.

And even if you felt like all you've been is lovely and wonderful and gorgeous,

But they haven't,

It's still too much for them and I'll talk to you about why,

Right,

Before I talk to you about why.

So when I kind of drive this home,

Starseeds and lightworkers have been rejected by everybody from the word dot,

Right from where you were little,

Right?

We came onto this planet to change it.

Of course,

We were going to be rejected.

We're too much for people,

Right?

We throw too many of their shadows up.

Rejection often is that I can't deal with what you're showing me about me.

It's too much.

It's not what you think.

You will reject people for other reasons,

But often other people are rejecting you because it's too confronting for them to be around you.

So what if that one percent of starseeds and lightworkers dropped onto the planet in order to change it and shift it,

But this planet wasn't ready for it.

It didn't want it.

It just wanted to stay in its own patterns.

You would be feeling misunderstood,

Rejected,

Left,

Right and center,

Forgotten,

Not seen,

Invisible in your industry,

In your family,

In your friendship groups,

Because most of the planet didn't want the change that you wanted.

The 99 percent didn't want it.

Their souls wanted it,

Right,

Which is why they're here.

But outwardly,

Because they were going too slow.

Okay,

So many of us were ready to rock and roll these changes right from zero.

I remember when I was tiny going,

Let's do this,

Being super excited to come down to this planet because I was ready.

I'm 47.

I've had to wait almost half a fucking century for this planet to catch up to what I've always wanted.

So should I really take all that rejection as meaning I wasn't good enough?

Or actually,

Can I understand it from a completely different perspective?

And if I do,

I free myself up.

And if I free myself up,

Can I get right into creation much more quickly?

Hell yeah.

Do I need to be doing it?

Yes,

Because we're in transition,

January to March 2021.

If you listen to last week's podcast,

We're in transition.

And this is our time to withdraw from the outside world,

Build ourselves up,

Release anywhere where anything that could take away from creation so that we can be completely in creation.

So a lot of these 99 percent,

They were always in 3D.

We just didn't want to recognize it.

We are recognizing it now.

So can you see that you were always rejected by the people that were in 3D?

They just want to go slower.

That's fine.

Now,

If we look at those people that are already ahead of us,

I was speaking to a friend of mine and she said to me,

I get what you're saying.

I get what you're saying that the people ahead of us are more in service to self.

But she said,

You know,

This person in my industry who's in service to herself and she promised to to sort of run a workshop with me and then she's turned around and she's like,

No,

I'm doing my own thing.

I feel like maybe I'm not on her level.

Maybe she's seen that I I'm not so good at marketing.

I'm not so good at this at me other.

And she said,

You know,

But she isn't service to the world.

And I go,

Yeah,

But how is she with her clients?

Is she as kind as you are with her clients?

Does she spend as much time thinking about her clients as you do?

Is she looking at her clients as potential buyers or is she looking at her clients as souls who can rise as souls who don't want to say her name who want to say their own names?

Is she looking at those souls as incredible beings?

But what can they do for her?

How can she make another 50k,

100k,

Whatever it is?

How do you look at your clients?

How do you and she's like,

Yeah,

No,

I see the difference.

So do you see we're all on different timelines,

But this particular timeline that we're on where it's in service to the world,

We are going to be recognized this year and supported because the frequency of the age of Aquarius is this.

So we no longer need to adapt ourselves.

And at the same time,

May I say that it's actually okay for us to be in service to ourselves a little bit more,

Right?

Because that's what's needed.

This planet isn't going to be fully into the age of Aquarius,

Fully,

Fully,

Fully,

Maybe in our lifetime.

So we need to support ourselves.

So it's like I'm going to be in service to the world and I'm going to support myself at the same time.

Can I support me whilst I support you?

Right?

Because service isn't sacrifice.

Hands up if you still think it is.

It isn't.

Pull your hand right down.

Pretended you didn't even put it up,

Right?

Pretending service is not sacrifice,

Not anymore.

That timeline,

That's going to put you back down to 3D.

And who is that going to attract?

3D is,

Nah,

I don't think so.

Okay,

So with rejection,

Rejection is reveal,

Right?

Rejection is people revealing themselves to not be on your timeline anymore.

They're showing you,

Hey,

I need to be in 3D for longer.

It's okay.

I'm just a slower learner.

I'm a new soul or I don't want to do the work or I can't do the work.

That's cool.

That's cool,

Right?

Or they're revealing themselves to not be on your timeline because they're on a higher timeline.

That's cool too.

Can you accept it and not take it to mean anything?

Okay,

Let's talk about why you've been rejected.

Okay.

So first of all,

Yes,

We have been programmed by films to think of rejection as a very bad thing,

Right?

But actually it's not.

It doesn't mean that you are not cool or unlovable or unacceptable in any way,

Shape or form,

Right?

It just means that we are being guided to where real love is.

And if we refuse to see here our higher selves,

They're going to hear their higher selves first and they're going to reject us for us,

Right?

For us.

They're doing it for us.

They love us that much.

Even though it doesn't show outwardly,

Their higher self loves us so much that they're going to reject us because they know that we need to be ejected from that timeline with them.

We're not meant to be with them.

Not right now.

They may catch up.

You may catch up.

It doesn't matter.

But right now it ain't right.

So it means that we're free to move to a timeline that fits our new vibration.

So rejection is your protection,

Right?

They just heard their higher self first.

You are the slow one.

I was the slow one,

Right?

Often because I don't want to hurt anybody.

But then I go,

Hang on a minute.

You just did it to me.

You are free enough to do it for me.

You're free enough to be in alignment,

To hear that alignment and to act on that alignment.

What if I just allowed myself to do it first somehow and first sometimes?

Why not?

Right?

Why not?

And I trust that if it's not right for you,

Then it's not right for me.

And if it's not right for me,

It's not going to be right for you.

I used to edit myself to avoid being rejected.

I used to hold myself back because I'd be like,

You're just going to reject me,

Right?

Now I just do me.

I don't edit me.

Don't edit yourself.

You stop yourself from growing into your next timeline.

You stop yourself from literally being rejected,

Ejected into your next timeline.

Right?

So don't take rejection as rejection.

Take it as protection.

It really is protection from those souls who are not right for you that you keep going back to.

Right?

They miss who you are.

Remember,

They can't see your four,

Five beyond D.

They can't see it.

Right?

They can't see it.

So the next time you fear rejection,

Right?

Or are rejected,

I've got a little visual for you.

Can you see it as,

Oh,

They've just wrapped a golden rejection blanket around me,

Shielding me from that energy of unconditional love and propelling me up to my new timeline,

To a new vibration.

Right?

And it's doing it for them too.

Right?

We really need to be with people that make them comfortable,

That are on their level.

I don't mean level as a derogatory thing.

Not at all.

But we all need to be in that normal vibration.

Not normal vibration.

We need to be in our own vibration.

Right?

And I'm not talking about in a comfort zone,

Right?

As a bad thing,

I'm talking about we need to be in our own vibration.

And it's like being protected from an old timeline that you're being asked to no longer participate on.

It's actually a celebration because you're rising up quickly.

Okay?

And I want to talk about something that I've witnessed a lot with Starseeds and Lightworkers.

A lot of us carry an energy,

A frequency,

If you will,

That activates other people into healing,

Into action,

Into seeing things that were unseen before.

It's like a truth frequency.

And if you'll know if you'll carry it,

You'll know if you carry it,

If you carry it,

I will say this to you.

You've probably been rejected more than anybody else you know.

Even the rejection is subtle.

You just won't be invited out or you won't be remembered or you won't be asked to join or you'll just be missed quite a lot of the times,

Right?

If you're carrying a program that says you're invisible,

You're also going to get that.

But if you're an activator,

You carry this very real frequency,

Right?

Which means you're going to only ever really be rejected by people who don't want to do the work or who can't do the work.

So as an activator,

This very real frequency that you carry is very confronting to those who don't want to self-reflect,

Don't want to do the work,

Right?

Your truth frequency illuminates their truth that they're not willing to see.

They don't want to see it.

So if you feel rejected,

Ignored and shunned by them,

Right?

Actually it's their own growth that they reject.

They've rejected the gift that you are,

The gift that you've brought them to be able to see themselves,

Right?

And so as an activator of that growth,

They will naturally shun you,

Right?

So let me give you an example of that.

We used to live next door to some beautiful people and they would always come over to our house,

Like always.

And then they would sometimes go,

I have just any excuse to be here.

And we would have the best conversations.

But they never invited us to their house and I would always see them having dinner parties.

So I asked my girlfriend and I said,

Do they not like me?

Like this is before I realized,

Right?

What was going on?

And she said,

No,

They really like you,

But you're too confronting for them.

I said,

But I don't bring anything up.

I don't bring anything up.

They went,

She went,

It's your energy,

But they don't have that with Paul.

Paul's very honest and truthful and you know,

People that are really hiding from themselves also find it difficult to be around Paul,

But he doesn't quite have that thing that I have that's very subtle.

So I get feedback where somebody will say,

You know,

You really made me think about this nine months ago when we met.

And I'm like,

Oh,

Did we talk about your marriage though?

I thought we were just talking about your work.

And they'll go,

No,

Yeah,

We didn't talk about the relationship at all,

But I know it was just something you said about work.

It just made me realize anyway,

I realized I'm not meant to be with him and we're now divorced or something like that.

I'm like,

Fuck.

And we've been given this truth frequency.

You can't hide it.

You can't pretend.

I've definitely pretended I haven't had it.

Right.

I've definitely tried to kind of cover it.

You can't.

We're built how we're built.

Each of us has a magical frequency,

Whether you're a light worker or not,

And you rock it.

But this particular frequency,

If you hold it,

Is very confronting to 99% of the population.

Right.

Lightworkers typically self-reflect.

They want to do the work.

They'll go at their own pace,

Some will go quickly,

Some will go a bit slower,

But they won't put it on you.

They won't reject you for it.

They won't,

Unless they're a couple of rungs down in vibration,

But typically they won't shun you because they're willing to do the work.

The rest who have yet to do the work,

Who have yet to really look at themselves,

Yeah,

They're going to shun you.

Right.

Just too intense,

Man.

Just too intense.

And I want to say they're just as special as you are,

But this is this particular frequency that you're carrying.

So it can make a lot of sense.

And if you look at who you're rejected by,

Are they doing the work?

Are they self-reflecting?

Are they coming back to you saying,

I see now,

I get it now.

I'm sorry.

Or thank you.

Are they valuing you,

But are they really adding back to you?

Like,

I'll never forget,

I gave a free session years ago to a neighbor of mine.

And she's like,

You know,

What can I give you?

And I said,

Honestly,

I said,

Don't worry about it.

Just come,

Just come,

Just come.

And she goes,

I'll get you a present.

And she turned up with wooden pegs,

The kind that you would put in your bedroom that were colored and cute.

It probably cost her about,

I know,

Five bucks.

Anyway,

We did the session and she came back to me later on and she just went,

I've quit.

I've quit my job and I'm going to start my own business.

And it basically had,

For the first time,

She'd been thinking about starting this,

I think for 15 years,

And she started the business and the business actually took off.

It did really well because it's her natural thing to do.

But she never really thanked me.

She never really got it.

She kind of,

Um,

Kind of acted as if it just was a tiny thing.

But in the session,

It was huge.

And so I'm used to not,

The old me is used to not being completely acknowledged,

Not being completely seen,

Because that's the 99%.

So if that's you,

You're so not on your own,

Right?

But the worst thing you can do with rejection is reject yourself.

Is to go,

Well,

Maybe I'm not so good.

Maybe I'm not so valuable.

Maybe I'm not really helping people as much as I think I am.

No,

Don't take their response to you as your response to you.

Don't make it that.

Don't make their perception of you,

Your perception of you.

Because what are you doing?

You're taking the 99% perception and making it yours.

You can't because you're a light worker.

You can't.

They're not like workers,

Right?

They're not like workers.

They're not.

You can't do that.

So those that you,

Who else is going to shun you,

Right?

If you naturally repel those who seek to gain from you,

Right?

I'm putting my hand up.

I've definitely had that.

Without reciprocating,

It's actually a relief.

So a lot of us have had relationships that have been one sided.

We've just helped them,

Helped them,

Helped them.

And we haven't really received love back,

Right?

We've received everything else but love back.

It's a relief to finally be rejected.

Even if these people used to be your core people,

Right?

Your core people.

It's literally like rejection is not always rejection,

Right?

More often than not,

It's two vibrations that can no longer see each other,

Right?

So you're being supported more than you know.

You've spent all the way up until 2020 not being seen,

Not being recognised.

This new energy now means that these people previously that didn't see you,

That rejected you,

They've got much more chance of seeing you.

But again,

It's dependent on the work that they do.

They may never do the work.

They may never,

So they may never see you.

Are you going to keep a bit of that frequency running in yours and let it stop you creating?

No,

Because who are you creating for?

Be very careful with this one.

Who are you creating for?

Are you creating for that 99% that can't see you or are you going to create now for those in your timeline?

So if you're a starseed and a lightworker,

You know that starseeds and lightworkers always say thank you.

They always appreciate you,

Right?

They value you.

They don't hurt you.

They're not out to get you.

They're not out to copy you or do any of that.

They've got no time for that bullshit,

Right?

It's reciprocal.

Now within that starseed timeline,

That lightworkers timeline,

There's lots of levels,

Right?

But if you're going to serve people that are on your level,

You will not be rejected by them.

You just won't.

It will feel very,

Very different because they see all of you and you're activating energy,

Your truth frequency.

They're not going to repel you.

They're not going to shun you because they probably have it too.

Imagine that.

So the truth frequency,

You being rejected is really just a frequency disparity,

Right?

Think of rejection as a frequency disparity.

Nobody can reject you.

You're a soul,

Right?

If God thinks that you're good enough to be here,

Then you're good enough to be here.

That's it.

Those that can't see you are going to reject you.

That's it.

But don't take them as your guiding principle.

And if you're creating work,

Don't create for the 99.

Create for the one because that 1% there's thousands and it's growing and growing and growing and growing and growing,

Right?

Rejection is also you haven't been recognized and that cognitive dissonance is leaving people,

Right?

So these people that couldn't see you,

They are.

So if you are in business or you're with family or friendship groups,

Can you forgive yourself for that misunderstanding?

Can you forgive yourself for misunderstanding?

Any rejection that you've received is that you're not quite on your path.

You're not doing it the right way.

You're not quite good enough.

You're not doing it in the right way,

I think is the biggest one.

And see it that maybe you've been focused on the wrong audience.

Maybe you've been trying to be seen by those who really can't see you and who don't want to see you because in order to see you,

They would have to see themselves.

And that's just too much of a commitment to bear.

You're not for everybody,

But you are for the ones who will love and respect you.

You are for the ones that are in 5D who are ready to embrace you and to really appreciate you for not just the job you do,

But they can see the higher aspects of you,

The higher truth,

Which is that you really,

Really,

Really care.

And in my whole career,

I've never had a client complain about me,

Not one.

And I put that down to the fact that I genuinely care.

I genuinely care about them.

So I don't have anybody that feels like I don't care about them.

I don't give a shit.

I'll have boundaries.

Sure.

If you ask me something that's too much,

I'm going to have boundaries.

No problem with that.

But I really love you.

I really love and I really want the people that I serve to.

.

.

I want what they want,

Basically.

I want you to have what you want.

And so that frequency,

I know that you carry that frequency and I know that any grief that you have,

Release yourself from the grief,

From the shame,

From anywhere where you thought it was because you were doing something wrong or because you thought you hadn't learnt the latest marketing tool yet.

No.

There's a reason why a lot of us have been kept in like a little pocket under a little rock,

Right?

It's because the world wasn't ready for us.

It couldn't see us.

It wasn't ready,

Right?

But 2021,

This is the year.

So if you feel ready to just be you in a larger way,

To step out of the shadows and just put your actual energy signature out into the world,

Be glad if you're rejected by the ones that can't see you.

Just know that they're not for you then.

That's all they're saying.

They're not for you and they're not ready for you,

Right?

But the ones that are,

Celebrate that because that number is going to grow and grow and grow.

Please ask anywhere where you are still holding back from creating,

Where you're still going,

I'll wait a bit,

I'll wait a bit.

Remember waiting is a program.

We don't need to wait for the outside world to shift in March.

We don't have to wait for the outside world to do something different even next week.

We don't have to wait for disclosure to come about.

We actually just need to release anywhere where we've been stopping ourselves from being fully in expressing,

From fully being in creation now,

From fully offering our gifts now.

And I'm going to put it to you that it is past rejection.

It's past memories.

That's all it is,

Right?

Release that,

Release that,

Right?

They were always in 3D.

You just didn't recognize it till now.

So now you're not going to serve them anymore.

They will write to reject you,

Right?

Because you're not for them.

They need to learn from others that are going to go as slow as they want to go.

Perfect,

Perfect.

But I'm guessing that you want to go now for people that want to go as fast as you.

So shift.

You're not going to be rejected by people in your timeline.

All you're going to incur is their boundaries.

That's it.

And if you take their boundaries as rejection,

That's your work to do.

That's your old childhood trauma to love and hug and to support and to clear and heal,

Right?

Okay,

So I feel complete.

I feel like I've covered everything.

See it for what it is and ask if you get rejected or you've been rejected,

Ask,

What's the highest truth of this situation?

Show me.

What's the lowest truth?

Lowest truth,

They don't like me anymore.

The highest truth,

We're not meant to be together,

Right?

We're on different timelines.

I'm going to love them and honor them for where they're at.

I'm going to accept that and not take it personally.

And I know that they're going to love me in their capacity to love.

Right?

One isn't better than the other,

But one is in alignment for me much more so than the other.

So I'm not for everybody,

But I am for the ones who will love and respect me and see me and value me and not take my energy in any other way than,

Oh,

That's just her beautiful energy or,

Oh,

That's just his beautiful energy.

Right?

Go for the souls that are on your level.

So remember,

Rejection is protection from a timeline you're not meant to be on.

And hey,

Ever notice that when you stay on it,

Because you don't want to hurt the other person,

What happens?

You get rejected anyway.

Right?

What happens when you try and you keep trying,

You keep trying,

You keep trying,

It doesn't work.

Right?

It doesn't work.

Free yourself up.

Right?

Free yourself.

If you free yourself from trying,

Trying,

Trying with people that are not meant for you,

Then you can come in.

So starseeds and lightworkers,

You are amazing.

Everybody on this planet is amazing,

But please realise who you are.

Understand the highest perspective of all of this.

Take a big step back and actually see it for what it is.

And when you do,

You will be set free.

Enjoy creating.

I'll see you next time.

Thank you for turning yourself on with me.

Please leave me a gorgeous review which helps me to serve you and come find me at marinaj.

Net for support and at marinaj coaching for Instagram,

Facebook and YouTube for glitter bombs of inspiration because you're not on your own.

And if you have you by your side,

You'll never be on your own again.

Give yourself a big hug,

Wrap your arms around yourself and thank yourself for all that you are as you give thanks for all that you are becoming.

Reviews

I love the reframing that rejection is protection, and I will use that mantra. Thank you so much.

So very good, helpful and uplifting!!! Grateful!!!🙏🏻

What an incredibly rich talk! Definitely helped me to put rejection into perspective. Thank you!! 🙏🏻

Wow, absolutely brilliant approach. I kind of guessed something along these lines on my own...but this explanation here is so beautiful and it does actually "match" my personal experience. My question, though is how do you distinguish between somebody who rejected you and somebody who has boundaries ? Silly question ? Maybe.... Anyway, thank you so much.

Interesting and intriguing. New subjects for me. Thank you 😊 🦋💕💫

Thanks Marina it was soo interesting and deep! However I wonder: how do one knows ig he/she is a starseed? Im not that sure I am one. Blessing and thanks! ✨🙏

This was beyond amazing! The wisdom and clarity of the whole episode is just beauty, it was exactly what I needed to hear and learn today. It has changed the way that I see “rejection” forever.

Wow this was exactly what I needed today. Beautiful insight! Thank you!

Wow! This entire meditation/podcast is a mic drop! So much new insight, empathy, and compassion. A true energetic shift. Thank you!💜💜

That was a charming experience. Led to a wonderful reflective moment. Thank you & tatah

I was having a moment and this Talk really shifted me out of it. THANK YOU!

This was definitely what I needed after being rejected for a job/career position.
1 knew something didn't feel right, but I
still wanted it so I had the option… but if it was not aligned with my souls timing, it helps change the perspective of that reiection feeling. I'm so grateful this talk was available. I will continue to listen to it and share it with my people. ❤️

Life saving stuff! Thank you for your knowledge, I feel seen !!

I really needed to hear every single word you had to say about rejection. So blessed for you to be on this journey to help guide the rest of us.

This was so awesome and inspiring. This talk really helped me shift my perspective. Thank you for these lovely insights and reminders.

This meditation has instantly answered so many questions that I have been asking myself for years, and it felt like huge weights were lifting off of me as I listened ✨ Thank you for this GIFT 🙏❤️🌈🪷

Sensational and so timely. Even your walk down the road with a smile dial was parallel to my own day yesterday and it’s may 2022! Thank you for sharing such wisdom

Life changing

Thank you for this Marina, shifted my perspective about rejection. Onwards to immersing myself around like-minded and -hearted people 💕

This is the most amazing confirmation of my starseed energy I have ever heard! I got a job rejection today and this completely shifted my perspective. Thank you so much Marina you are a true gift!!!! ✨✨✨