Is It Ok To Talk About My Wish? Part 1

Most, if not all of us have at some point asked ourselves: Should I talk about my wish to others? There is no one size fits all answer. In this first part of a previous live session, I talk in detail about the considerations to be pondered about, and what I chose to do. The second part is a guided meditation to let go of attachments, and put ourselves in the hands of God / The Universe, and in doing so, realize our dreams.

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The title of today's teaching again is,

Is it okay to talk about my wish?

Let me tell you about this topic,

And I want to say up front,

This is no yes or no answer.

This is not a simple answer.

That's why I chose this to be a topic,

And it will depend on many things,

Which you're about to find out.

I have two questions for,

Well,

Whoever wants to answer,

And this,

I will give you my answers through this teaching,

But I'm interested to know what you think about this.

The first question is,

If you think that you need to utter your wish or say your wish out loud in order to have God or the universe or the law of attraction react to it.

That's question number one.

Question number two,

Do you believe it's possible for someone to jinx your wish or sabotage your wish if you share it?

Those are the questions I am asking you.

Let's see what you have to share.

Many of us kind of think of the law of attraction as Aladdin and the magic lamp or the genie in a way,

And probably part of this analogy comes from the movie,

The Secret.

Some people believe that we need to somehow say our wish,

Say,

Okay,

So I want a car and I need to say,

This is what I want.

I need to use my words or I need to be very specific.

The good news is that we don't need to specify our wish following a ritual or a pattern,

And let me explain why.

Let's say that you are outside your house.

You are walking or I don't know,

You went downtown,

You forgot your wallet,

But you have,

I don't know,

Maybe a $20 bill in your pocket and you're hungry.

So you see a restaurant that you haven't ever been into and decide to go in and get something to eat.

You look at the menu and you're not familiar with anything on the menu.

So you take a chance and order a dish.

Now this is important.

You only have budget for one dish and well,

Here's your food.

You taste it and you don't like it.

In that moment,

You are wishing for something tastier,

More to your liking,

And you did not need to say a single word.

You just did not feel good.

And the fact that you did not feel good made you wish for something without realizing it.

Now let's think about a different example.

One of your friends buys a new car and picks you up because your friend wants to,

You know,

Take you for a ride.

And that friend even lets you drive the car and it's a beautiful vehicle.

You are so happy.

The seats are so comfortable.

It's a fast car,

But also very comfy and that experience makes you wish to have a similar car.

In that experience,

You also asked for that wish without saying the magic words like,

Okay,

I'm going to rub the lamp and say,

Jeannie,

I would like to have a car like my friend's.

Or you did not need to say,

Jeannie,

I would like to have a tasty dish to eat.

What I'm trying to say is that this is energy work.

And whenever you find something that is going to change your reality,

That is going to be new,

Different,

In that way,

You are expanding your being,

Your vibrational being,

Your higher self.

And you're asking for more.

So that's my first answer.

You don't need to say a specific set of words in order to ask for a wish.

And you can identify what you want either by having a,

Let's say,

A bad experience or a good experience.

Hopefully,

It will be because you have a good experience.

But I'm telling you about the bad experiences because it's nice to know that even though we will have some unpleasant times,

The outcome of those times can be good because you have learned a little bit more about your preferences.

If we all go back,

Let's say,

To when we had our first love,

I mean,

I'm sure it was amazing for most of us.

But of course,

The relationship did not last forever.

Let's put it that way.

And as time went by and you had more boyfriends or girlfriends,

Whatever the case may be,

You became more selective because you identified through your experience what you like and what you don't like.

And that knowledge,

That experience,

Helped you to hopefully choose more appropriate partners for you.

So all those sour experiences taught you something.

And that's exactly what happens with low vibration when you leave something that you don't like.

You identify immediately what you do like,

What you do want.

Okay,

Just remember,

The universe or God or source energy doesn't necessarily use our words to react.

It's about how we feel.

All right,

Cool.

The other thing I want to say is that it depends on what type of person you are in order to choose if you want to share or not your wish with other people.

So if some of you are introverts,

I guess it's pretty much cut and dry.

I don't think you are sharing your wishes with anyone.

And if that's the case,

I wonder why did you choose to be here?

And I'm just being playful because I'm going to share information that is going to be interesting to you too.

And I'm going to try to convince you maybe to leave your comfort zone.

You'll see why in a moment.

Now,

If you are an extrovert,

Then maybe you have kind of the need to share your wishes.

You feel compelled to talk about them with other people.

Let's talk about this for a moment.

As you know,

Some people love you and support you at the same time.

And maybe you have a friend or a relative that is also very positive.

Well,

If that's the case,

Amazing,

Because you can talk about those wishes with them.

But there are also other people and sometimes these persons are very close to you.

Maybe your parents,

Siblings,

A cousin,

Etc.

And since they have a lot of experience with you and how you behave,

What have you accomplished and how many times you have said,

Yes,

I'm going to get X,

Y or Z and maybe you failed for some reason.

They may not have that much faith in you.

And maybe because they want to protect you,

They will try to dissuade you from pursuing your wish.

And like I said,

Maybe that's out of love.

But if you have people that will behave in that way,

I would consider not sharing their wish with them.

And of course,

There are other people that are maybe jealous or just don't like you at all.

And now that I guess all of us are adults,

But I remember when I was a kid,

I used to talk about my dreams to pretty much everyone.

And of course,

Time showed me that that was not very wise.

But if you really want to share your wishes,

You should pick with which people you're going to do that.

Now I usually don't talk about my wishes,

But although I think that's wise,

Because some people can influence how you feel,

It's not necessarily the best option.

And this is why.

If you have a wish that you are not,

Let's say,

Aligned with,

That means that maybe you have been waiting for it to manifest for some time.

And that weight is not always pleasant.

So you may feel discouraged.

You may be about to give up or just think that you're not worthy or whatever it is that you may believe.

Well,

Having someone that wants to see you happy,

That trusts you,

That knows that God loves you,

That wants to help you,

That support is priceless.

And like I said,

I usually don't share my wishes.

But there are some,

Well,

I don't want to say people because I really don't know if they're people,

But I share my dreams or my wishes with my spiritual guides.

And this has been paramount for me because like everyone else,

I do have some,

I would say,

Bad days,

Which,

Well,

Every day has something good for you,

But you know what I mean,

Right?

Sometimes you feel under the weather.

Sometimes you're not that positive.

Maybe you experienced something that was not that pleasant.

And having someone to support you,

It's really,

Really important.

And I have been blessed with my guides,

Which by the way,

We all have spiritual guides,

Because they always know how to cheer me up and they will never have something negative to say.

They will never tell me,

This is not for you.

Quite the opposite.

They will always encourage me to pursue my dreams.

Now,

If some of you think that sharing your wishes can sabotage their manifestation,

There's something I want to share with you.

Five years ago,

In May 2017,

I was in Lima,

Peru,

Just like I'm currently.

And I decided that I wanted to relocate here.

I was born here in Peru,

But I was raised in Mexico.

So I was so sure of my wish that I told all my family,

I'm going to return.

And whenever they asked me when,

I said,

I believe in August.

And well,

To cut to the chase,

I was offered a job that allowed me to relocate to Lima.

And I was here on the 25th of August,

2017.

As you can see,

I was maybe,

I don't want to say cocky,

Because that was not the attitude,

But I was unafraid of sharing my wish because I knew that's what I wanted.

And I got it.

So if you don't give your power away,

If you don't allow what other people have to say to influence how you feel or to make you hesitate about your wish,

Then they cannot stop you.

And it's always us giving our power away.

I know it's not easy to be firm and strong as a rock,

To never give up or feel like you are not going to be able to achieve something.

It's not easy.

I know that.

And you may be afraid of people making fun of you if you don't make it.

I get that.

But if sharing your wish can potentially jinx it,

It's because you believe that's the case and not because other people have power over you.

That's my second answer to the question that I asked at the beginning.

If you think that you need to talk about your wish,

Because somehow if you don't do it,

The universe is going to forget about it,

Don't worry.

There are several things that I have manifested.

Let's say that I at some point I said,

This is what I want.

And then I forgot about them for whatever reason.

They showed up when they were ready.

So you don't need to be focusing on your wish every single day or at every single moment.

As long as you're sure about what you want and you're not contradicting your wish,

Then you're golden.

It will be in front of you in the fastest way possible.

Again,

If you're not contradicting your wish.

And I want to be very clear about this.

When you ask for a wish,

If your wish is not here yet,

That means that you are not completely aligned with your wish.

Now that sounds tempting in the sense of the,

Oh,

I need to do something about it.

No,

You don't need to do anything about it.

You just need to surrender.

You just need to trust and allow it to happen when it's ready.

That's it.

And the less time you spend worrying about your wish and thinking,

What am I doing wrong?

Why is it not here,

Et cetera?

Well,

The better.

So just chill.

And to be honest,

Think about your life in its current state.

If you consider that your wish is so important that you cannot enjoy your present moment,

Then I'm afraid you may have a problem in your hands because there is nothing more important than the gift that we have already been given,

Which is life itself and the present moment.

And as all of us know,

The past is gone.

It doesn't exist anymore.

So the only thing you have control of is how you feel right now.

Not five minutes ago,

Not when I started this sentence that I have already finished.

No,

Your power is now,

Here,

The present moment.

Now I don't want to be kind of negative saying that you don't know if you're going to wake up tomorrow,

But you know that it's true.

None of us have any guarantees of how much time we're going to be here on Earth.

But what I do know,

And this is not because God descended on Earth and paid me a visit,

But because of all the experiences that I have had through my spiritual guides and some,

I would say,

Things that you cannot explain with logic,

I have a firm belief that this life is not everything that there is to our existence.

I believe we are eternal.

So with that knowledge,

This is a rhetorical question for everyone,

Including me.

Why is that wish so important that you can all afford to enjoy today,

That you cannot give yourself a break and have a good time?

Wishes can be categorized in three different areas,

Love,

Health,

And resources,

Right?

In my experience,

I have had the need to heal,

To find love,

And also to have something,

Money,

A house,

What have you.

And all I can say is that whenever I achieved any of those dreams,

The urge and the intensity of my wish plummeted immensely after a few days or weeks.

I can remember when I bought an apartment in Mexico when I was living there.

I was so excited about the whole process and I was so eager to move in to my new apartment.

I remember that I bought it and hired someone to remodel it because I wanted it to be 100% to my liking.

And the process took some time.

And while I was waiting,

It was really often that I lost sleep about it.

I was very impatient.

It was kind of foolish of me,

But at the end of the day,

It was also exciting,

So it's okay.

But what I'm trying to say is that by the second week of living in the apartment,

I was not excited at all.

I mean,

I was happy for the fact of having my own place,

But that was it.

That was the flavor of the month,

If you will.

And then my thoughts were,

So what's next?

Because I already checked that box in my life.

I already achieved that.

And if you take that into perspective,

Having all that energy wasted in longing for that apartment that was going to be mine anyways,

Well,

It was not worth it because maybe I deprived myself from enjoying my present moment in many occasions.

And when I had my wish,

It was not that important after all.

I mean,

It had value.

It gave me many things,

But that was not the reason for my life.

There are hundreds of thousands or millions,

I would say,

Of houses and apartments throughout the world.

There are hundreds of millions of people that you could be in contact with that you can find and meet and fall in love with.

And there are endless ways to heal.

I believe that our bodies were designed to heal.

So why lose your mind over the past or the future when you can have everything that you want?

That should not be a reason for you to put on a pedestal any of your wishes that have not been fulfilled yet.

And when you give them their proper place,

You let go of the attachment,

Let go of the need to control the circumstances and allow them to flow effortlessly towards you.

When you find sometimes the courage to let go and to accept that things flow in their own time and that you should not be trying to manipulate how your life is going to play out.

I mean,

Of course,

If you have the power to do that,

If you have the means,

Then again,

Like I said before,

Go ahead.

But if you don't have any influence on your wish,

If you cannot make it happen,

You have no choice but to just let it flow.

Release the attachment.

Release the neediness.

Put it down of that pedestal that you gave it and that will be the best way to open the doors to that wish to arrive to you.

All right,

To wrap things up.

You can choose to whether share your wish or not with other people and be at ease because there are no words from anyone that can make it fail.

As long as you're not giving them that power,

As long as you don't believe they have power over you.

But if you want to play it safe,

I would say choose wisely the people with whom you're going to share this with.

And if you're a little bit like me,

At least leverage God or your spiritual guides and feel free to talk to them about your wishes and your fears and why you may feel down because that wish is not here yet.

And that's one thing that we're going to do in today's meditation.

I want to give you some time to open your heart and express all your emotions and maybe all the things that you will tell God or the universe or source energy are going to help you to finally let go and allow it to manifest in your life.

I don't know why,

But I just remember that I had a video call with someone.

She was telling me about all her problems and her struggles.

And this was very nice.

And I'm not sharing this because I think I'm a good teacher,

But because I saw something that was really great.

Ten minutes after we end that video call,

She sent me a message,

You're not going to believe this,

But someone just reached out to me,

Offered me a job.

So once you let go,

Once you relax,

Once you truly,

Not just from the mouth outside,

But you actually feel like you can let go,

Trusting that it will arrive in the right moment,

You will see miracles.

And I'm sure of that because I have seen many of them happen.

Reviews

I remember this live, I liked it very much. Just felt sorry that you were not able to enjoy your fulfilled wishes at least for a long time, if not forever, after they were granted, like it happens to me. I do not think life is wishing, granting and then passing to another. For me, life is gratitude for my fulfilled wishes and until today I cherish and enjoy very deeply, the memory of most of the wishes that were granted to me, and I am very grateful to G-d for granting them to me.🤲🏻❤️

Dear Maporoco, past is gone, yes, but I can’t forget the past, is part of me, the good, the bad and the ugly. Past is a teacher, past brings happiness too. You choose what to remember and to whom to remember. I live today, I do not live in the past, but I use it as a “school”. In talking about sharing a dream, I have two ways, one I share with a very confident person, like a friend, or do not share it. With my spiritual guides and G-d, I share everything although I know they know what I want. I do not have special forms to speak, but usually do it in the peaceful time of the night, and I have a special place also: The synagogue, I found out that it is an incredible place and there I can hear them talking to me. Other thing, they do not only embrace my and encourage me to fulfill my dreams and goals, they show me what not to do, what not to pursue, and also why to pursue things I do not want to anymore. They tell me what is written and what is free, and many other things. For me it is not a “pursue all your dreams little baby”. That is not my only reason to be here, I am here to learn.

And one thing is the most important, I am so grateful all the time, even with the bad things, maybe because I found out that there is a package: repentance, forgiveness, redemption and gratitude. I practice all of them. I am very loyal to my feelings, I ask wishes for my family and friends, for their health, to fulfill their wishes, most of the time I sacrifice my asking time (yes I have a time and is very sacred) to ask for my friends wishes and I do it with devotion and love.

Amazing 🌈

Great concepts. Really hits home