Are You Surrogating For Others?

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Are You Surrogating For Others?

by Deb Flanagan

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talks

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Meditation

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In this short video, I openly discuss what surrogating is, who you may be surrogating for, and ideas on how you can release it. Once you understand the concept of surrogating and taking on other people's pain, you can change this habit by learning to set clear boundaries.

Self Coaching Practice Empathy Boundaries Muscle Testing Brainwashing

Meet your Teacher

Brisbane QLD, Australia

Meet your Teacher

Brisbane QLD, Australia

Transcript

Hello, Today is Teach Tuesday. So I just want to do a quick little video. I am It's like an empathy score. How much are you actually surrogating? For others and how much of what you're experiencing is your own. So far, Pretty much always clients are surrogating for somebody else, Usually somebody fairly close to them, Right? And often it's unconsciously that they are surrogating. So. . . It's just something to tune in for yourself, Just a reminder that often if you are a sensitive soul or a mum or a healer, You've got to make sure that you're not taking on other people's pain. So, It's just a really important lesson to learn. A lesson that we learn the hard way, But it's really important that You check in, You can check in just really simply. If you know how to muscle test, That's something that you can check in on yourself. How much of this is mine? Am I surrogating for others? Am I surrogating for a person? Is it a person? Is it the collective? Is it Mother Earth? ZIT entities. Either surrogating for the collective as a whole or they're surrogating for people. And if it's people, Test for how many people. And then it's a matter of releasing it, Consciously releasing it. You can sort of tune in and get the answers. You probably already know if it comes up. Yes. Probably no um who it is that you are surrogating for. And then just choose to release that. There's multiple ways, You can just do it by a statement. A conscious statement or if need be you can do a cord cutting exercise. It doesn't mean that you're cutting those people off from your life or out of your life, It just means you're no longer going to surrogate for them directly. Yeah so. . . Taking on people's pain is not something that we need to do, Okay? And often it is very much a brainwashing of and cultures, Particular cultures. As well. So just something to be mindful of if you're feeling drained, Feeling exhausted. That's something that you can check in on yourself. Am I surrogating? How much of what I'm currently experiencing is my own out of 100%? And then. . . You know, If it's not all yours, Release it. If you need help with that, You know where to find me. Bye for now.