Hey guys,
Bhumshika here.
Today's video is all about passivity and being passive in life.
A lot of the people that I know,
A lot of individuals that I've been speaking to because of the stories that I've been sharing have been telling me that they're waiting for something to happen.
They're waiting for an epiphany moment,
They're waiting for a person to come in and save them,
They're waiting for their job to change so that they would be able to make more money,
They're waiting for something on the outside of them to change or rescue them basically so that they will be able to change their life in that regard.
Whatever it might be,
If there's a relationship they're unhappy with or a job they're unhappy with or the amount of money they're unhappy with.
Whatever it might be,
What is going on here is that they're waiting for their knight in shining armor in whatever form that might take.
It might be a person that they're waiting for,
A husband,
Boyfriend,
It might be a job,
It might be a boss,
It might be whatever,
Lottery ticket.
But as you know and as I know and as all of us know deep down,
Life isn't meant to be passive.
It's not something that happens to us,
It's something that we do.
We're actively pursuing the things that we're supposed to be,
That we want,
That we think that we want,
That we think are going to make us happy.
And instead of waiting,
Waiting for something to happen to you,
Waiting for that person,
Waiting for that job,
Whatever you might be waiting for that might show up,
You might be lucky and it might show up or it might not.
Is it really worth the wait and is it really worth just sitting here passively waiting for something to come to you?
So much of our life is done passively.
I mean I lived a majority of my life,
The first 25 years I would say extremely passively letting everyone else tell me what I should be doing.
They told me you should go to the school so I did.
They told me to take this major in school so I did.
They told me to go to this job so I did.
I mean a lot of the things,
The way I dressed,
The way I spoke,
The books I read,
I did all of it based on other people's recommendation.
And even though these people cared about me,
They're my parents or my teachers or my love months,
It doesn't make a difference.
It doesn't matter how much they care about you.
They don't really know what your talents are,
What your abilities are,
What your dreams are,
What your hopes are,
What you really want to do with your life.
So basically you're just following other people's direction but they are not able to give you the absolute thing that you're supposed to be working on.
Until you realize that fact,
That everyone else's opinions are just opinions and you need to figure out what you're supposed to be doing on your own,
You're going to be living a very passive sort of life.
And just the sound of it right now because I've been starting to take active control of my life sounds boring and it sounds humdrum and it doesn't sound exciting.
It's when you start taking control of your life,
Actively going out and pursuing what you're supposed to be doing,
Finding what you're supposed to be doing with this life,
Finding out what your passion,
Your life purpose,
Your mission is,
As soon as you start working in that regard and actively doing the things you're supposed to be doing,
All of a sudden your life just completely changes and your energy levels change,
You get more stimulated.
Life is absolutely wonderful at that point.
I am a testament to that fact.
As soon as I discovered my mission,
My life purpose,
My life absolutely changed.
I'm living a life full of fulfillment and gratitude and love every single moment.
And that only happened because I decided to go from passivity,
From being passive to becoming extremely active in every choice that I'm making,
Every person I want to hang out with,
Every item that I'm going to do during the day,
Everything that I'm going to be doing with my time is actively chosen by me.
I decide what I'm going to do and all of that activity,
All of that being active,
Getting away from passivity has been absolutely life changing.
And I know a lot of my friends who are actually doing the same kind of thing,
Trying to be more active rather than being passive,
Letting life happen to them and I see the same changes in them.
So I totally,
Totally recommend that if you are being passive in any aspect of your life,
No matter what it might be,
You have to change right now.
You have to start becoming more active.
You're not just letting life happen to you,
You're actually making life happen.
So my name is Bloomshic,
I hope that this video helped you.
Again,
You are free to join my free Facebook group,
The Millionaire Hippie,
If you guys are interested.
If not,
I'll see you guys in the next video.
Ciao for now.
