Azadi from your own mind.
Every year on August 15th,
We celebrate freedom.
Thank you.
We take great pride and we should that freedom cost everything to so many people.
When we have never actually met.
And a lot of them we've never even heard about.
But today I want to ask you something different,
Something quieter.
Are you free?
Not your country,
Not your passport.
No,
No,
No.
You.
Because here's what I've seen,
In 25 years of working with people across this country,
The most common prison has no bars.
It has no locks.
It has no walls you can point to.
It lives right here.
In the mind.
The fear of what people will think.
The story that says you are not ready.
The indecisive mind that says,
You know,
I don't know.
What if it does not work out?
What if the amount that I invested will get wasted?
I don't know if it will work out.
The label someone gave you years ago.
That you're still wearing today.
Like somebody said,
You're too sensitive.
You're not smart enough.
You are too dumb.
People like you don't get that far.
Now my question to you is.
.
.
Who told you that?
And most importantly,
Why are you still listening to those?
Past remarks.
Now my friend,
I came across the work of Margie Worrell,
Leadership advisor,
Speaker,
Author of the book,
Stop Playing It Safe,
And I was reading a blog on Forbes,
And what she said in her research really resonated with me and I thought I'd like to share this with you.
She says in the blog that she asked highly successful people.
The ones we look at and call lucky.
She asked them,
Where did you get your biggest break from?
And you know what is interesting?
Every single one traced it back to a moment of emotional risk.
A moment where fear was loud.
But that leader,
That person moved anyway.
She shared how Maria Ethel,
CEO of the Nike Foundation,
Put it very simply.
He says.
She never let her fear of losing her job get in the way of saying what needed to be said.
She felt the fear.
She just never let go.
It make her decisions.
And Margie's research made this very clear.
When fear runs more rampant,
It is those who can hold steady and take decisive action in its presence.
They are the people who find the greatest opportunity.
Not after the fear disappears,
But in its presence itself.
My friend,
That's the Azadi nobody talks about on Independence Day.
The freedom to act.
Even when you're afraid.
Even when you're confused,
Even when you're not 100% sure.
So right now,
Wherever you are,
Close your eyes for a moment.
Take one slow breath in.
And ask yourself honestly.
What is one move I've been avoiding because it feels too risky.
A conversation you haven't had.
A decision you keep postponing.
Something you know is right?
But fear has been louder than your instinct.
Just name it,
My friend.
Don't judge it.
Don't explain it.
Just see clearly.
Because the moment you see the story,
It loses its grip on you.
And my friend,
That's where real freedom begins in your mind.
This August 15.
And forward.
I want you to do one thing.
Write it down.
That thing you've been avoiding.
And say this word out loud.
This fear does not get to decide.
Say that with me again.
Softly in your own heart.
This fear.
Does not get to decide.
Say that one more time a little louder.
Does not get to decide.
Say that one more time,
A little louder this time.
This fear.
Does not get to decide.
Because your biggest break my friend,
Your luckiest moment.
Is most likely sitting right behind that thing you are most afraid to do.
That's what the research shows.
That's what I have witnessed as an author of Fallen to Rise,
As somebody who inspires thousands of people,
Professionally,
Almost every month.
And that's what I've witnessed on stages,
Meeting thousands of people across the country.
And that's what I know from my own life.
Freedom is not the absence of fear.
I know you've heard it before,
But let me repeat it for you.
Freedom is not the absence of fear.
Azadi is not the absence of fear.
It never was.
Freedom is the decision,
Despite the fear,
To take one step forward,
One conversation,
One honest choice.
That is your Azadi.
And it's been waiting for you.
The moment you decide to claim it.
I hope you found that helpful.
Thank you for being here with me today.
I really value that.
Thank you for slowing down for yourself or your family.
And for all that you do.
It takes courage just to sit with yourself and be honest.
And that courage.
.
.
That's exactly where your freedom to Azadi lives.
I'm Bobby de Sousa,
Signing off.
Daring to rise beyond.
Take care.