Heal Your Relationships

We talk about an important aspect for life in partnership and how to overcome the disagreements that will present themselves on your path. We share with you a tool to transform yourself and naturally transform your partner, with the powerful gift of humility and unconditional love. This sounds very poetic, but we share with you a simple and grounded approach to always find a point of harmony and to defend what is real, the purpose that brought you together and a harmonious & joyful life together.

Transcript

Within the most sacred experience that we have as human beings is to share our life in partnership.

But we have to recognize that we are completely different.

We can be a relationship between men and women.

Or it could be a relationship between two men and a relationship between two women.

However the relationship is,

We are very different.

Because we are different stories.

We can have many things in common.

But we have an influence of our past that is very powerful.

What can we do so that the relationships reach a point of harmony?

So we're going to see how the power of the universe in this creation does it in this Mother Earth.

Let's see two powers that are completely different.

The water and the fire.

The water that experiences itself in the rain.

And the fire that experiences itself in the sun.

They are completely contrary.

And how being so completely different,

They encounter each other in a point of harmony and create a beautiful rainbow.

This is how our life can be.

What is it that we have to do so that the encounter of our relationships brings as a result harmony and beauty?

So first we are going to see what is it that separates us.

And what is it that unites us?

What unites us is love.

Care.

Attraction.

But once we are together,

The differences start to appear.

They begin to distract and to make this love opaque.

Then the distraction can be so much that we can even enter in forgetfulness of love.

We're going to talk about what is it that separates us.

What separates us is our ego.

Even in a relationship,

The differences or the disagreements present themselves.

That is an aspect that belongs to our mind.

Because the world talks to us about being right.

And we have adopted this as though that was the truth of what must be done.

But what we have experienced as a human race following our reason is that we are drained and we waste a lot of energy.

When a discussion in our partnership presents itself,

A disagreement,

Naturally our ego comes to do its part.

Anger and pride appear.

We begin to defend everything from anger.

Well,

He can tell us that from that space that is not the solution.

That is never the path to resolve anything.

Because our ego will always bring more anger,

More sadness,

And more lack of harmony.

Always the disharmony will bring more disharmony.

And each one will separate more,

Telling themselves,

But I am right.

They should come and ask me for forgiveness or tell me that they're sorry.

And that is what the other person is also telling themselves.

You will never come to an agreement from that space.

You will never,

Ever resolve anything out of anger.

Because anger brings more anger.

It is in this point where you can make a movement of a lot of power.

But for that,

You have to transcend your ego.

And what is it that helps me to transcend the ego?

The purpose.

That is beyond reason.

What is the purpose of the partnership?

Let's speak about a natural purpose.

It is called harmony.

What is it that we must defend?

Truly.

What we have to truly defend is harmony.

And for there to be harmony,

For there to be peace,

And for everything to align itself in order and well-being.

We have to leave our ego aside.

We have to go to a powerful tool that is called humility.

The humility that is in the heart.

A friend of ours would say,

It is better to be happy than to be right.

So what is it that we must defend?

We have to defend love.

We have to defend peace and harmony,

And we have to defend the purpose.

The purpose that has us together.

We have to defend the memory of love and well-being.

So we were talking about making a movement of power that is called humility.

And that results or that comes in the precise moment after you feel anger.

And it is to have the power even to say that you're sorry.

Even if you know that you are right.

And to say the truth is that I'm sorry.

If I made a mistake in some way,

Please forgive me.

I will pay more attention.

And next time I'm going to do the best that I can.

And when I do this sincerely,

Naturally a resonance happens in the heart of my partner.

My partner will always reply,

I'm sorry too.

The most important thing is that I love you.

Because that is the truth.

That is the most important thing.

The love that unites you.

The dream that unites you.

And it is in that moment of disagreement where you have to go to what joined you.

And to not try to change the other person.

Our ego tries to change the other person.

And that is impossible.

No one can change anyone.

When I change for the other person.

That is not real.

My ego will always take that part.

And someday that will burst somewhere.

Saying I changed for you.

And you don't do anything for me.

I'm tired.

That happens.

When what is done is not personal.

In a relationship.

What corresponds to me is to look deeply and truthfully with humility.

What is it that affects the relationship?

What is my part?

And to stop thinking that I am right.

That is where alchemy happens.

When I change.

That has so much power that the other person naturally begins to change.

When I become unconditional.

It requires a lot of attention.

Because the ego will always be there playing the contrary.

A week can pass.

And I repeat to myself.

You can think,

But I am changing.

I am already doing what I have to do.

And the other person is not doing what they have to do.

This is not fair.

That is what the ego would say.

But when you go with decision to transform yourself with love.

Meaning unconditionally.

Without conditions.

Towards the other person.

It is that love that can change everything.

The rest you can never change another person.

It is a wonderful challenge.

It is fun.

It is an adventure.

That helps me to grow on my path on this earth.

It is when I choose to walk the path of love.

With firmness.

And that doesn't mean I have to do everything that the other person wants.

And that doesn't mean that I don't manifest when I am not in agreement.

When I am in disagreement with something or I don't like something.

I am in my full right to manifest it.

As soon as possible.

But what it is about is to manifest it with care,

With love.

And for that we have to go to the heart.

And to take humility.

So that my manifestation can be with power.

The power to bring harmony.

And my manifestation of my disagreement comes with anger.

That that does have power.

The power to bring more disharmony.

So it is not helping.

Now we spoke about the purpose.

What is the purpose?

What is it that I truly want?

If what I want is peace and harmony.

If what I want is delight and to have an accomplice and to have a beautiful relationship.

Then I have to go to my heart.

And to wait until I am in a time of peace.

Of tranquility.

Of love.

There is a good moment to say things.

Paying attention so that what I am saying does not move to my mind.

So that it doesn't move to my ego.

This way is how we bring peace and harmony to our relationships.

It's a personal choice.

And that is my part in the relationship.

It's very beautiful to pray in partnership.

It doesn't matter your religion.

It doesn't matter your belief.

Is that you both get together and you make a call to whatever can hear you in this universe.

So that the love of this creation guides you.

For it to guide your actions.

For it to guide your decisions.

It's a beautiful habit.

It's very beautiful when a couple,

Before going to bed every night,

Pray together.

And they turn it into a habit of life.

He can tell us that this is an act of power.

Wishing that the love of this creation may always guide your decisions.

And that whatever you have to resolve,

You always resolve it out of love.

May it not be anger and fear what guides you.

May it be love.

So that there can always be more of that.

Reviews

Beautiful

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Flowed with authenticity of original language well paced with English. Deep truths resonated. Thank you Graçias

Thank you very much

Needed this thank you so much🙏🏼

Much needed, thank you.

INCREDIBLY powerful talk. Beautiful! Thank you! ♥️🙏

Beautiful as usual thank you for your contribution.

Very beautiful 🙏🌹Gracias

These words are so wise, beautiful and insightful. I am not currently in a romantic love relationship, but when I find one, I will take these words into it. Thank you. Many blessings to you both 💜 x

That was beautiful thanks 🙏