Close down your eyes and allow yourself to relax completely as you call yourself back to this present moment,
Right here,
Right now.
If there is anything on your mind that is distracting you from being present,
Just imagine yourself gently and lovingly unhooking or unclipping yourself from such thoughts one by one.
Knowing that there is nothing more important than this fleeting moment.
Now take a few deep breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth as you ground yourself into the here and now,
Allowing any fears and insecurities to just melt away.
Take another breath in,
Reclaiming your life force and vitality,
And another breath out,
Letting go of anything that no longer serves you.
As you do this,
Allow yourself to sink even deeper into the now.
And with your next breath,
Use this as an opportunity to tune into your heart,
Feel it beating in your chest in constant devotion,
Beating day after day after day,
Unconditionally.
Feel it so full of desire,
So full of worth,
So full of love,
As it quietly guides you through life.
Feel its own trust in the process,
How the heart never stops to question or to doubt,
Can I do this?
Will I really be able to keep this body alive?
Am I enough?
Instead,
It just beats to the best of its ability,
Allowing the miracle that is you to survive and to thrive.
Feel the comfort in the is-ness as you appreciate the beat of your heart,
The pulse that keeps your lifeblood moving,
The blessing of the heart that knows that love is trust,
And trust is love.
Continue breathing mindfully at your own pace as you open yourself up to receive the following affirmations.
As I share these affirmations,
I invite you to claim each one for yourself.
You may also choose to place your hands on your heart or another part of your body as you gently give yourself affection,
Supporting yourself to receive each blessing fully.
In this moment,
I let go of all the stories that no longer serve me.
I release all the thoughts of unworthiness or lack of deservingness.
I release all shame or guilt as I detangle myself from any stories of being too much or not enough.
In this moment,
I meet myself with love and with kindness as I embrace the perfection of my wholeness.
I remind myself that I am safe,
That this is a safe space for me to explore my inner world and to soften,
That it is safe to open my heart and to acknowledge my deepest desires.
In fact,
I recognise now how my desires are the map to my own becoming,
That it is safe to want more because the wanting is a pathway to my own self-realisation.
I appreciate this moment of yearning,
Of recognising that I am not there yet,
And I allow that to be okay,
Because I know that it adds value to what is to come,
A reminder of how precious true love really is,
And I trust that I will get there in the end,
One way or another.
I open my heart in devotion to my future life partner,
I open my body in devotion to love.
I am ready to receive all the good things life has to offer.
Let this be a demonstration of my readiness,
As I share my intention with the universe,
I am open to receive,
I am open to receive,
I am open to receive.
I recognise that everything I desire,
Life desires for me too,
It wants to experience these things through me,
The fact that I want them is proof of this,
And so I am making my deepest desires matter.
Every day,
I take a step forward towards love of my life,
And living a life that I absolutely love.
The path may not be clear yet,
But I trust that as I take another small step in this direction,
The next step will become clear.
I celebrate the little synchronicities along the way,
And take this as a sign that I am going in the right direction,
That I am enough,
That how I am showing up right now is enough,
That I am as imperfect as it may sometimes seem.
Even though I want more,
And am working towards experiencing more,
I know that where I am right now is also the perfect place for me to be.
In this way,
I am remembering my divine essence,
The radiant goddess who is waiting to be expressed in my body,
Through my words,
Through my heart,
Through my love,
And so I soften my belly,
And relax my shoulders,
Put down the armor,
As I remind myself that it is safe to unfurl and to be seen.
I sit or stand tall and proud with an open heart,
Knowing that I am safe,
I am safe,
I am safe.
I choose to believe that there is time,
Plenty of time,
To enjoy this moment,
To stop and smell the flowers,
To be gentle with myself,
And to play.
I make time for this because I know that my pleasure is a form of receiving,
And the more pleasure I allow myself to experience,
The more pleasure I attract into my reality.
And it feels so good to receive.
I recognize that to receive is as much a gift for the receiver as it is a pleasure for the one who gives.
In fact,
The more I allow myself to receive,
The more I attract,
And so I invite myself to feel more pleasure,
More eros,
More magic with every step that I take.
In this moment,
I am remembering how loved I am,
And how much love I have to give.
In this moment,
I am remembering how to love myself and how to let go of resistance as I allow love to flow through me.
I allow this love to spread from my heart to my fingertips and toes,
And radiate outwards through my eyes,
Healing the world with my gaze.
I release any fears that are holding me back from moving forward and stepping towards the love of my life.
I recognize that every time I leave the house is an opportunity to meet my match,
And I am open to my love story unfolding in any one of a billion different ways.
I choose to trust that there are great single men out there of all ages and stages who are seeking and working on themselves just as I am.
I choose to trust that the relationship I want is possible,
Because life will initiate me one way or another so that I may become the person I need to be in order to receive it fully.
I choose to trust that my future partner is out there somewhere seeking me too,
That they too share my desires for connection and intimacy,
To have a true life partner to share the next chapters of their life with.
I know that when my heart is open,
I attract only the best men,
So I choose to open my heart to salute the divine masculine of men always remembering that I am in control of what happens on a date,
I can leave a situation whenever I feel like it,
I can say no or stop and he will respect my boundaries,
For I am a queen,
I know my worth and I will accept no less.
I see the goodness in men,
I meet their eyes with love,
I have compassion for their weary warrior hearts,
I see the courage it takes for a man to be a man,
I see their loyalty and devotion,
Their willingness to fight till death if necessary for those he loves,
I see his generous spirit too,
The way he seeks to provide and to protect,
Not always hitting the mark,
But showing up in the way he knows best,
Bravely willing to make mistakes as he too learns how to love better.
I lovingly notice the tendencies that get in the way of my own radiance and allow myself to unfurl in the knowing that it is safe to be seen,
I know in my heart that if he runs he is not worth it,
That in life and dating,
It's either this or something better,
And that rejection is just redirection,
A lesson preparing me for the man who is going to be an even better match for me.
I trust that the more a good man gets to know me,
The deeper he will fall in love with me,
And in the meantime,
Any man who is not worthy will naturally shrink and fade away,
Leaving only the best men in my arena.
I recognize that the more I stay true to myself,
The easier it is to attract my man,
A man who has a lion vision of values,
A man who cherishes and appreciates my deep feeling heart,
A man who loves and accepts me,
Quirks and all,
He is drawn to my warmth and mystery like a moth to a flame,
And knowing this,
I feel relaxed,
Comfortable and confident around men,
The more I open my heart,
The higher quality men I attract.
I know that the right man will allow me to set the pace of a relationship,
He is in it for the whole package,
My queen,
My maiden,
My siren,
My mother,
And the wild wise woman who resides deep within.
While my sex turns him on,
It's my heart and my mind that makes him want to build a life with me.
With this deep knowing,
I choose to open my heart,
And to trust in the process of my own becoming.
I allow myself to step into my feminine magnetism,
To know myself as a powerful creator,
To trust to transcend scarcity and align myself with the limitless,
Despite the darkest fears in my rational mind.
I allow myself to trust the wisdom of my inner being,
And to know that I am always safe and supported wherever I go.
I choose to trust that life is guiding me towards what I want through every single experience,
I recognize that there is perfection in every moment,
Even if I don't understand it right away,
And that the more curious I am to glean the lesson,
The gentler each initiation becomes.
I rest in the magnetic knowing that all I have ever wanted is already on its way to me,
And in the meantime,
I recognize that I am exactly where I need to be.
