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What It Means To Live Like A King Or Queen

by Anthony De Mello Legacy

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I’ll tell you what it means to live like a king or queen. It means to know no anxiety at all. To have no inner conflict at all. No tensions, no pressures, no upset, no heartache. What are you left with? Happiness, undiluted. People ask me, “What do I do to be happy?” You  don’t  do anything to be happy. You know why? Because you have it already, but you're blocking it. Remove the blocks. 

AnxietyConflict ResolutionHappinessTensionPressureDetachmentHeartTruthJoyInternal Conflict ResolutionTension ReleaseHeart HealingTruth SeekingJoy And LoveHappiness DefinitionsHappiness PerspectivesObstruction Removals

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What does it mean to live like a king?

You know what they think it means?

It means moving around in limousines,

Having everybody curtsy to them and salute them and all that sort of rubbish,

Have their names in the headlines,

Power over people.

They think that's what it means to live like a king.

I tell you what I think it means.

They're not living like kings,

They're slaves.

They're terrified.

Look at their faces on television.

Those kings and queens and presidents and the rest of them.

Look at them on television,

You'd recognize it at once.

He's scared.

You know why he's scared?

Because he wants power,

That's why.

He wants prestige,

He wants a reputation,

That's why.

He's not living like a king.

I'll tell you what it means to live like a king.

To know no anxiety at all.

No inner conflict at all.

No tension,

No pressures,

No upset,

No heartache.

So then what are you left with?

Happiness undiluted.

People sometimes say,

What do I do?

You don't do anything to be happy.

You can't acquire happiness.

You know why?

Because you have it.

You got it right now.

But you're the whole time blocking it in your stupidity.

You're blocking it.

Stop blocking it,

You'll have it.

If I could show you how to get rid of your conflicts,

Your anxieties,

Your tensions,

Your pressures,

Your emptiness,

Your loneliness,

Your despair,

Your depression,

Your heartache,

You get rid of all of that,

What are you left with?

Sheer undiluted happiness,

That's what you have.

The Chinese put it beautiful.

When the eye is unobstructed,

They say,

The result is sight.

You don't do anything to get sight.

When the eye is unobstructed,

The result is sight.

When the ear is unobstructed,

The result is hearing.

When the mouth is unobstructed,

The result is taste.

When the mind is unobstructed,

The result is truth.

And when the heart is unobstructed,

The result is joy and love.

You've got it all,

But it's obstructed,

Drop it.

But you don't want to get out of it.

You don't want to get out of it.

You want comfort.

You want your little possessions.

You want the little things that society has taught you are essential for happiness,

Falsely.

You want that.

You don't want to get out of the mess.

Those are the things that are creating the mess.

Has it ever occurred to you that what you call your happiness is really your chain?

What do you call your happiness?

You're calling somebody your happiness?

You are my joy.

Your marriage,

Your business,

Your degree,

Whatever.

Where do you find your happiness?

In whom do you find your happiness?

Your prison.

Oh,

This is hard language and who can listen to these words?

But reflect on it.

Cut,

Scrape,

Melt.

Cut,

Scrape,

Melt.

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Anthony De Mello LegacySan Francisco, CA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Lisa

April 30, 2023

When the eye is unobstructed.. you have sight .. when the mind is unobstructed,truth … ear ~ you have sound and heart and soul is unobstructed you have joy ..love .. peace. Wonderful talk … he was a wise teacher!💜💫💫💫💫💫

Michelle

April 9, 2023

Powerful words. Thank you 🙏

Hope

January 7, 2023

Fantastic!!

Monica

November 24, 2022

Magnificent

Leigh

November 4, 2022

Bold- love this!

Daniel

October 7, 2022

Hard truths revealed! Keeping my being unobstructed

Linda

August 12, 2022

Interesting perspective 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 Thank you 🙏 for sharing 😃

Cora

July 13, 2022

Always beautiful ❤️🙏

Ahimsa

June 8, 2022

Stirring and inspiring! www.gratefulness.org, ahimsa

d•i•

April 25, 2022

Tough talk from one of the most lucid mystics of modernity. “When the eye is unobstructed, the result is sight.” Brilliant.

Pete

April 17, 2022

😂I love his teachings. This one cracked me up. He doesn’t sound remotely happy here. No disrespect intended- just so funny.

Celia

April 16, 2022

Don't try to find love, peace, joy, etc. Just be. They are already here. Yes!! Thank you 💖

Alice

April 14, 2022

Thank you for keeping Anthony’s teachings alive here. I learn so much from him 🙏

Michelle

April 14, 2022

Very insightful, clear and plain truth, love it

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