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Relational Trauma Repair (RTR), Explained: How Experiential Methods Work With Attachment Wounds, Adaptations, and the Nervous System
Insight alone can't always reach relational trauma: it lives in the nervous system, not just memory. This guide, developed with Dr. Tian Dayton, PhD, Psychodramatist and Relational Trauma Expert, introduces Relational Trauma Repair (RTR): a structured, experiential approach using Floor Checks, timelines, sculpting, and role reversal to make implicit attachment wounds visible and workable within the co-regulating safety of a group.
How to Use This Worksheet
Introduce this guide to clients or groups ready to move beyond talk-based insight into experiential processing. Walk through the four core tools in sequence - Floor Checks, Timelines, Social Atoms, and Role Reversal - pacing the work to the nervous system rather than emotional intensity. Use the closing reflection questions to help clients name their adaptations and connect past survival strategies to present-day choice.
Who This Worksheet Is For
This guide is designed for psychodramatists, group therapists, and trauma clinicians using experiential or somatic methods with attachment-wounded clients. It also suits individuals, trauma survivors, and therapy clients navigating developmental trauma, relational wounds, anxious attachment, or compulsive survival adaptations.
Expected Outcomes
- Greater insight into the link between past survival strategies and present reactions
- Improved capacity to separate historical threat from current relationships
- Reduction in automatic fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses
- Stronger integration of understanding and embodied experience
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References
Dayton, T. (2015). Neuropsychodrama in the Treatment of Relational Trauma. Health Communications.
Dayton, T. (2007). Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance. Health Communications.
van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.
Moreno, J. L. (1946). Psychodrama, Volume 1. Beacon House.
Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton.
Kellermann, P. F. (2000). Psychodrama With Trauma Survivors: Acting Out Your Pain. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
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