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The Decision That Can Change Everything

by Salona Carlisle

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You’re allowed to be happy even without the long list of conditions you’ve placed in front of what you desire to be feeling instead of what you are feeling. You’re the only one who determines your experience of life It just depends what you’re willing to let go of on your way to opening towards the more that you have been missing and seeking. It depends on what you’re willing to believe It depends on what you’re willing to allow yourself to experience right here and right now without needing anything to change On what you’re willing to choose in place of what you have been choosing up until now… Even though it may not feel as though it’s been a choice, it always is.

HappinessSelf EmpowermentLetting GoSelf AcceptanceFreedomInner PeaceInner SatisfactionDesire ManagementInner State CultivationFreedom From Conditions

Transcript

Welcome to Saturated,

Short and sweet infusions of elixir for your body,

Heart,

Mind and soul to support you in becoming more deliciously filled with the nectar of your own essence for more everyday bliss.

Because feeling more fully alive and deeply satiated is not a circumstance,

It's a choice.

I'm Solona Carlisle and I'm so delighted you're here and that I get to show you how to find this new way of being in your body and your life.

I want to offer you the permission to make a decision that has the potential to change everything if you let it.

And it's this,

The willingness,

The permission to decide that you're allowed to be happy,

To feel full and filled and deeply satisfied in the way you're desiring but waiting for.

You're allowed to feel all of those things even without having the long list of conditions that you've placed in front of what you desire to be feeling instead of what you are feeling in their seeming absence.

You are the only one who determines your experience of life.

It just depends what you're willing to let go of on your way to opening towards the more that you have been missing and seeking and probably chasing after for a good part of your days,

Your weeks,

Your months and even years.

It depends on what you're willing to believe and that is what determines your experience of life because it depends on what you're willing to let go of,

To believe and to allow yourself to experience right here and right now without needing anything to change.

It depends on what you're willing to choose in place of what you have been choosing up until now.

Even though it may not feel as though it's been a choice,

Your power returns to you when you remember that it always is.

And so I want to offer you some practical,

A little more practical ways to let's call it win with your desires no matter what.

As in receiving your desires now before they even arrive.

Number one,

Start wanting what life wants for you a little more than what your egoic personal agenda wants and believes you need in order to be enough,

To be happy,

To be successful,

To be worthy,

To fulfill your highest life's purpose,

To feel satisfied and deliciously filled,

Whatever that essential feeling is that you crave most deeply,

Fill in the blank with that one.

This is the shift from feeling like a victim to what's not happening that you think should be happening and needs to happen before you can feel that into becoming a vessel to receive from what is already here and a vessel for how life wants to move and create through you from exactly where you are.

Number two,

Practice letting go.

At least be in the practice of being willing to let go of the version of you who believes you need the fulfillment of this particular desire in this specific way in order to be complete and to feel the way you want to feel.

Begin unwinding from the part of you who believes this desire is the only answer to your prayers and the solution to your discontent and dissatisfaction.

Yes,

It's true that getting exactly what you want,

When you want it,

How you want it,

May bring relief and comfort to that dissatisfaction for a moment or a day,

Maybe a week or longer.

But no circumstance can fill the hole that you are waiting for it to fill because you cannot consume or acquire enough of what will never truly satisfy.

No circumstance or external condition can give you something that you have not yet learned how to connect with and embody here already without anything outside of you needing to change.

And finally,

Number three,

Rather than chase the desire that your believing holds all this magical power to deliver you a feeling that you're not already feeling,

Redirect your energy and intention to chasing the feeling that you're after.

Make that your number one ambition.

The only reason any of us are ever in a rush to get something or somewhere else faster is because we haven't been in consistent devotion to cultivating our very own inner state.

An inner state that we can own,

That is independent of circumstances,

And one that is completely within your power to create in every single moment in the face of whatever may be happening or not in your life.

Just knowing it is available is the first step.

Knowing it is available,

Always,

Even when getting what we desire isn't guaranteed,

When where we are isn't where we want to be,

When your life,

Your relationship,

Your relationship status,

Whether you have one or not,

When your business or where you live or you fill in the blank with whatever that condition or circumstance may be that feels absent,

Out of reach,

Like an impossibility,

That it's the good stuff is always out in the future.

Whatever it feels,

That one thing that you want more than anything that you don't feel you have.

When it's nothing like what you have been desiring for so long.

When any of this is occurring inside your job,

Wherever you're tempted to see your life or yourself as not enough,

As not what you want right now.

Your job is to remind yourself that you are the source and to find the expansion and fulfillment that you're hungry for,

Starting exactly where you are.

And this is the work that women hire me to do so that they can actually embody the truest freedom of knowing they no longer need to wait for anyone or any circumstance to change in order to feel the way they want to feel and to have the experience of life they've been craving for so,

So long.

The bottom line I want to leave you with is that you don't have to wait a moment longer.

You are the one who gets to determine your experience of life and you're allowed to feel that delicious,

Luscious feeling that you crave before and without the long list of conditions that you have attached to it.

Meet your Teacher

Salona CarlisleConnecticut, USA

4.5 (34)

Recent Reviews

Anne

April 16, 2025

Thank you very much. Super soothing and uplifting.

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