I'm Selena Carlisle,
And this is another edition of the Everyday Bliss for the Modern Woman Weekly Transmissions,
Created for the woman who is wildly devoted to choosing herself and living her desired life now,
Instead of waiting until later.
I am so delighted to be dropping in with one of these episodes today,
Especially since it has been a while,
Which is exactly what I'm going to be talking more about,
Because as I'm emerging from a very intentional time out from my business to allow myself the sacred space that I knew I needed in order to receive and to recalibrate,
It has become even more clear to me that sometimes it's only when we completely let go of all the shoulds,
The pressure,
The have-tos,
And maybe even the resistance to a certain experience,
That there's actually enough space for our authentic desire to arise again.
But this time,
It's from a much deeper and more embodied place.
And it's here that you can begin to feel the stirrings of that direct line back to the clarity of inspiration that feels even more delicious,
Even more turned on,
And that this time is so much more compelling to the point that you can't help but move in that direction,
Because you've let go of the reins enough which allowed your body to open just enough to be able to sense the impulse of life moving you rather than you insisting on moving life in a certain direction.
And the challenge for so many modern women is just that.
It's giving themselves the permission to take their foot off the gas and to release the grip on the perpetual forward thrust and motion and action for long enough to allow their breath to deepen and the chronic clench in their body to soften,
And to step back far enough to create the space for their soul's whispers to be heard through the energy of true desire rather than force or urgency or impatience,
And to surrender attachment to what may follow enough to be able to listen for something so much deeper,
So much more enlivening,
More arousing,
And more embodied than you've ever received before.
And it may feel like the most counterintuitive,
Illogical thing to do,
Especially in those moments when you're convinced that more hustle,
More grind,
More action is what is required to get to where and what you desire.
And in those moments when you might feel the fear,
The doubt,
Or the anxiety at their highest,
Because your nervous system is so habituated to being in high gear that it feels too threatening to actually stop,
To allow yourself to receive that deeper breath,
And to not do what you've always done.
But what I will say is that sometimes it's the choice that feels like the hardest one to make that we actually need the most,
And it's that one that's going to propel you much farther than any amount of action or doing ever will and ever could.
It takes such courage though,
And a willingness to trust being in the void for long enough to mine the gold that's been trying to reach you,
But couldn't as long as you were moving so fast,
Chasing what's actually been here all along.
Sometimes it even takes hitting a wall and feeling so exhausted and being so fed up with how you've been doing life that you're willing to risk what you've known in service of finding a way that just feels so much better and so much more sustainable.
And this is the work of creating a different reality,
A different experience that woman hire me to do,
Which is going to ask you to make different choices than you've ever made before.
But they are the choices that are actually going to feel better in your body and feel better in your heart,
Your nervous system and your whole being.
And they are the choices that are going to require that you spend more time down and in your feeling body rather than your thinking mind.
And they are the choices that are going to invite you to be much more embodied in your sensuality and your pleasure rather than perpetuating the struggle and pressure that you've been relying on to survive.
But this is what I'm so on fire about right now and what I so want for you.
This capacity to reclaim more radiance and richness in your current life right away and be able to create your life from more soul and more sensuality.
Because it's in there that you will find that bone deep alignment that arouses that full body aliveness that you've been craving.
