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Men And Women? Getting Along Together?

by Premasudha Janet Hobbs

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Self-understanding is such a need right now. For both Men and Women. We have all become so out of touch with ourselves, and all of Life. Just look at the state of the Planet!!! If men could humbly admit how separate, alienated and lost they feel underneath, maybe women could also disarm and acknowledge they have turned against their true compassionate, nurturing natures to fit into this crazy technological society. Fitting in is never much fun. It is like shaving off the best parts of yourself. Its signature is emptiness, no matter how many material objects, wealth or luxuries you own. May this video catalyze glimmerings of understanding and truth within. We really can live out our soul dream within this very human life of ours. Premasudha speaks from having chosen this and shows us how. May we all come into our True Natures and live in harmony with all of Life and Mother Nature. Immense Blessings

Self UnderstandingGender RelationsAlienationCompassionHarmonyFeminineEmotional ConnectionInner PeaceMaternal BondingCompassion And WisdomGender HealingFeminine Beauty

Transcript

You know,

The kind of battle of the sexes that is going on,

One of the things that I think operates in the guys unconsciously is they're feeling shut out from the deepest relationship that is possible on the planet,

Which is between the mother and child.

Now,

All of us had a mom.

She may be alive or maybe passed on.

Maybe we got along with her well,

Maybe not.

But the bond with the mother and child is primal,

Elemental.

It will,

You know,

There are these stories that I read growing up,

But I read another one recently of a mom who lifted a car off her child.

In this case,

It was her grown-up son,

And she lifted this 3,

000 car off.

It's just,

Sure,

It's adrenaline,

But not everyone with adrenaline can lift a car off.

It's,

There's things that,

You know,

The primal relationship of the mother and child that bring out a power in the woman.

This bond brings out a power.

It's like with my son with leukemia,

I've told you to,

You blew in the face,

But it's,

My child had a miraculous healing of leukemia because really I said no inside about him dying,

And I,

There,

It was an experience of tapping into the Creator with this.

It was like tapping into the Creator's energy,

And as a result of that,

My son had this miracle healing.

So,

My point is,

We need a lot of self-understanding.

I feel we all need to just step back and start understanding ourselves a little better.

Because if the guys admitted how separate and alienated and lost they feel underneath,

They could heal,

They could heal,

And maybe there'd be a healing between the sexes rather than what's going on now,

And,

You know,

The women,

For this to happen,

The women would have to disarm,

Because I'll tell you,

Women with this era,

The technological,

Mechanistic era,

Women have turned against their deeper natures,

Their true,

Compassionate,

Nurturing nature to fit in,

Because I'll tell you,

You can't really,

It's very difficult to live in this society and keep your true nature.

In fact,

I lived on the edges of society for decades,

Because I was just interested in being true to my own nature.

So,

I mean,

It's sort of like,

If we just stay defended,

What's to stop,

Then,

The wars on earth just getting to the point of no return?

Whereas if we,

You know,

If the guys admitted how out of touch with themselves,

Out of touch with life,

Alienated,

Out of touch with their emotions,

How unhappy they are,

Then maybe we could stop this insanity of where the earth is going.

It's not on the men,

Because we women,

We need to just calm down and stop defending ourselves so hard,

You know.

It's like for outer peace to occur,

We need this kind of inner peace inside,

And certainly some kind of peace with this battle of the sexes.

But if women just understood that men behave badly,

Actually as part of their feeling so alienated,

And alone,

And lost,

You know,

Maybe we could meet their broken hearts with more compassionate intelligence,

With more innate,

Feminine,

Intelligent compassion.

But,

You know,

Really,

I think the men are going to have to wake up,

Yeah,

And really admit the beauty of the feminine,

And if they can admit the beauty of the feminine,

They will be able to see the beauty of the masculine.

Because if they admit the beauty of the feminine,

This will bring them out of their alienation,

And it will help them connect up.

And I hate to say it,

But I'm going to have to say it.

I don't mean physical beauty.

I'm talking about the inner quality,

The inner beauty of the feminine.

If a man can see that,

Then he can access his heart.

Okay.

Bless all of your hearts.

Meet your Teacher

Premasudha Janet HobbsNorth Vancouver, BC, Canada

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Odalys

September 6, 2024

Lovely as usual Your meditations are filled with love and kindness. Ty💕

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