You know,
It's a funny thing with,
You know,
Non-dual work,
The thing in a way to get over is our personality.
But in order to do that,
It really helps when we're loved personally.
It's one of those paradoxical things.
It's just like in a class,
If you have 40 kids,
They won't do as well as,
Say,
20 kids who are getting more personal input from the teacher.
You know,
When it's 40 kids,
There'll be a level that some kids will just give up due to hopelessness.
They'll just go,
It's not possible.
I'm just a cog in a wheel.
We can do this spiritually,
Too.
I'm going to come back to this,
You guys receiving personal permission to receive love on a deeply personal level.
This is what Amma does with her hugs,
Asking her to bring even more of her grace to help you with this.
You see,
It's like a well-loved child.
A well-loved child will just go into life more easily than a child who doesn't feel validated,
Who had a lot of criticism.
So it doesn't matter really what happened to us when we were little,
Because you can receive it.
One way is to receive the healing this way.
Right,
Good,
Good.
It doesn't matter when you get it.
I mean,
It's easier if you get it when you're a little kid,
But whatever age you get it,
It will go through,
The love will come through and start filling up the holes and misunderstandings in your personality,
Do you understand?
It starts washing away the darkness.
It doesn't matter when it comes.
The important thing is that it comes.