When we stop trying to fix ourselves or improve ourselves from the outside in or try to be something we're not or force anything and just relax into ourselves just as we are.
No matter what state you're in,
You know,
If you're getting a divorce,
If you've lost your job,
If you've gained five pounds,
It doesn't matter.
Just relax,
Relax into yourself or maybe things are going really well but just relax into yourself.
Relax.
So often I've worked with people and they're breathing so shallowly like a child,
Like a scared child.
You know,
Many of us haven't even got over how scared we were as a child.
We've just tried harder as adults.
We've tried to fix ourselves.
We've tried to manage our lives all from the scared child perspective as if this scared child's running our lives.
She's still,
She or he is still in there telling us,
Oh everything's really dangerous and you're not okay the way you are but you are.
You're okay just the way you are.
You know,
As soon as you relax into yourself,
What will happen is you'll just become more attractive to other people.
It doesn't matter,
You know,
What your facial figures are.
They'll just feel your energy and because there's such a deficit right now of self-love or love for anything really,
It's like when you when you have it,
People really notice.
They respond and they feel their own deficit that way and they come and they try to warm their hands by your fire.
It's sort of like,
What have you got?
What have you got?
We want this.
But all maybe you've done is just relax into yourself and begun to acknowledge the truth of yourself to yourself.
You know,
You don't have to be the best at anything.
It's not safer to be the best at something.
You know,
It might be fun to be really skilled,
To have a talent that you enjoy,
But just forcing yourself to be the best at whatever you're doing through will and managing yourself,
That's not particularly safe,
Actually.
Yeah.
You know,
I think sometimes some of the people who really go for wealth,
They're trying to feel safe.
But the thing is,
You know,
It actually makes you feel less safe the more you have.
I remember this woman,
The client was telling me about,
This client worked at a hedge fund place and she said there was a woman who came in every day who was worried about losing her money and this woman had three million dollars like 20 years ago or 15 years ago,
You know,
So who knows,
It'd be 10 million now.
And she came in every day worried about money.
Yeah.
You know,
All the spiritual masters say it in different ways,
Just relax into yourself.
Relax into the person you were born to be.
Relax into this very clear awareness that's underneath in your current point of view.
There is part of you that,
Part of you is God looking out through your eyes.
God is looking out through your eyes,
An aspect of God.
It's like we're like snowflakes.
Every snowflake is a little bit different.
We all have a unique perspective of the creator and that's what we're here to allow and give from.
So when you relax into yourself,
You come home to that.
Yeah,
And I'll tell you it's a great relief.
And you know,
I've been telling several clients,
You know,
There's no firing squad if you just are yourself.
You really,
People,
There's such a taboo on being ourselves that people energetically can feel like there's a firing squad if they state their preference or state how they deeply feel.
Yeah,
I remember feeling that.
Yeah,
It's just fear.
There's no firing squad.
You can just be yourself,
You know.
I mean,
Yeah,
Come home to your heart.
Yeah.
Okay,
Bless your dear hearts.
I hope this helped.
Yeah,
You're worth it.