You know,
Our first bonding experience becomes.
The baseline of our lives.
Until we look at it.
For example,
There's a little Buddha baby being born into this world and maybe mama is really happy to have the child and has all the support she needs and she's in a good place.
She really wants to be a mom.
She supported on all levels to be with the child and so that child has an absolute blessed experience.
With their first encounter with Earth.
They bond well,
They bond well to their mama or to anybody in the family and they bond well to their own family.
Heart,
Their own self.
It's like being the kind of the one percent emotionally.
Maybe more of us than just 1% get this.
Many of us had another experience,
Which is we bonded.
With a mama who is stressed or working or unhappy some way,
Not enough material support,
Maybe not enough emotional support,
Partner there or not.
And then our bonding.
Has more stress in it.
More attention,
More like,
Hey,
The world's not such a great place.
As our baseline experience.
Point of this work.
Is to help.
Reminds you.
That no matter what happened to you,
With the little one in this first bonding.
Is healable and the universe supports us.
In our desire to heal.
But we have to be sincere about it,
Right?
So there's several ways for healing to happen.
You know,
If we had a rough start,
I mean,
First seeing that this first bonding has affected everything in our lives,
Like basically how friendly we feel life is or even how much we love and value ourselves.
Okay,
So.
.
.
Once we've looked at it,
You know,
One way to heal is,
I think it's the best,
Is find a spiritual teacher and study with them.
Because if they're really awake.
.
.
They can kind of re-parent you.
You get experience,
You get proof.
They kind of prove to you that it's possible for a human being to heal.
And to become marvelously expanded beyond our ideas of normal.
So that's the best,
But you know,
A really good therapist,
Like a really,
Really,
Really good one who is awake.
To their own hearts.
Can help us.
We can experience unconditional love through them.
As far as they've gone.
And help with repatterning our experience of the world.
Another way is just through any kind of creativity.
Creativity will reduce.
Your sense of separation.
Face it with your creativity and use the creativity,
Your creative expression.
To get closer to the truth of you,
Get closer to the truth of the Creator.
Who made this world.
You know,
And another way is if we.
.
.
Happen to be in relationship with other people who wish to heal too.
Sometimes we can all sort of help heal each other.
Through helping each other heal,
We get the experience that a human being can love us deeply.
And that's very,
Very healing.
You know,
We're never helpless victims.
A person who dares to love deeply.
Receives the gift of courage and the person who dares to be loved deeply.
Receives the gift of strength.
And when we bring.
These qualities into our lives.
We live more in keeping with our true nature and it's hard,
We're harder for others to control because we're listening to our hearts,
We're marching to a different drum.
And maybe that's how our technological mechanical society can change as if we all start.
Healing our initial bonding.
And we've become.
Courageous and strong enough to live the life we were born to live.
May my prayers be with you.
Bless your hearts.
