Family Dynamics

A very good starting point is to feel into what was allowed & what wasn't in your family and how that has impacted you. Then we gradually realize that the rules have changed. We begin to trust what works by being true to our eternal Selves and seeing clearly the distrust, then patiently learning how to leave it behind at the highest good pace.

Transcript

So, You know, In our families, Families, You know, Have certain rules and beliefs. And so, You know, In my family, Love got ridiculed a lot. So, Guess who got ridiculed a lot? And it took me a long time to take myself seriously, In a way. So, It is kind of feels like, Can feel like a sad and lonely and desperate place when we actually get down to what our little child felt like in our families. And, You know, We're scared to go there because the kid was really, The kid we were was really scared it was going to be like that for his or her whole life. So, The child numbed out to it. And our egos do not want us to feel that again. But if we feel it again, It's like it's really important to know, Okay, Really, Please understand that no matter how sad or desperate you get, You are just clearing the complex. It's not permanent. It is impermanent. And you can climb higher on the mountain. You keep asking for grace, Keep asking for grace. Whatever you can to comfort yourself and support yourself to come out of it.

Reviews

Needed this reminder, my family has become my a challenging obstacle currently on so many levels. I wil always be the youngest and the only girl. Sadly, over the last 6 years… I’ve also become the black sheep, the judged, the scapegoat, the ridiculed and the estranged “sick one”. My inner child wounds are screaming inside to be heard and felt. 🙏🏼💕