Dr. Femke E. Bakker

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Dr. Femke E. Bakker is a selfgentleness teacher, behavioral scientist, and TEDx speaker. She explores what it means to be selfgentle: radically accepting yourself as the most important person to consistently deserve your own gentleness. Especially in those moments when old patterns creep in and caring for your own wellbeing suddenly feels off. Femke's work blends behavioral science, meditation, and lived experience into clear, selfgentle practices that help you remember: you don’t need to fix yourself anymore. She is also a professor at Leiden University, where she studies leadership, beliefs, stress release during crisis decision making and the impact of meditation on social and political processes. For those who’ve done the inner work and are now ready to stop working and start living with more ease and joy, Femke created the Selfgentleness Academy. It’s a safe and encouraging space—self-paced or shared with likeminded others—where you can get steady in the art of selfgentleness, no matter what life throws at you. On Insight Timer, Femke offers courses to help you bring selfgentleness into your personal and professional life. Every second Friday of the month, she hosts The Selfgentleness Hour LIVE (3:30pm EST), where you can experience her guidance in real time.

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Reviews

Jude Smith

May 25, 2026

I was looking for a quick breathing reset and this was perfect. Many thanks for giving me a keeper.🌿

Minnie

May 3, 2026

Beautiful way to begin my day! Thanks. With “gentleness”, your voice saying that was very calming.

Do Van Lommel

May 3, 2026

Dankjewel voor deze rustgevende meditatie. Het gaf me een moment van diepe ontspanning. Je hebt een fijne warme stem en geeft duidelijke geruststellende instructies. 🙏

Yuri

Apr 6, 2026

It actually helped me realise that I can focus on something else that is not my worries. Thanks!

Juliet D

Mar 29, 2026

So beautiful. A gorgeous voice I can listen too. Great awareness and insight. Thanks 🙏🏻

Grant

Mar 11, 2026

That was a great reminder to be grateful for even the smallest things. Your voice is very soothing. Thank you for helping me sleep!

Nozi D.

Mar 8, 2026

Definitely doing this for 30 days straight! This one’s the one for me, honestly. 🌸🙏

Cathy

Mar 7, 2026

A wonderful peaceful mantra and meditation. I will use this often Namaste

Leon Van De Graaff

Mar 5, 2026

Good simple guided mantra, without long winded introduction or unnecessary musical/vocal elaborations. Great calm voice and high quality recording. Exactly what I was looking for.

Michael Miller

Mar 2, 2026

Really enjoyed this. First time back to meditating in a long time.

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Speaks English and Nederlands

Joined Insight Timer in March 2019


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