Dr. Femke E. Bakker

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Dr. Femke E. Bakker is a selfgentleness teacher, TEDx speaker, author and political psychologist. Before this, she was a professional actor and screenwriter. Femke explores what it means to be selfgentle: radically accepting yourself as the most important person to consistently deserve your own gentleness. Especially in those moments when old patterns creep back in and caring for your own wellbeing suddenly feels off. Femke blends insights from psychology, meditation, and lived experience into clear, gentle practices that help you stop treating yourself as a project. She also teaches and researches at Leiden University, where she focuses on leadership, beliefs, stress release in crisis decision making, and the impact of meditation on social and political processes. For those who have done years of inner searching and still keep getting pulled back out of it, Femke created The Home of Selfgentleness. It is a safe and encouraging space where you don't have to find your way to selfgentleness on your own. Because life happens, and you will fall back. That's normal, and that's okay. And every time you do, Femke walks with you back to gentleness, until it becomes the way you treat yourself. On Insight Timer, Femke offers meditations and courses that bring selfgentleness into your personal and professional life. Every second Friday of the month she hosts The Selfgentleness Hour LIVE, where you can experience her guidance in real time.

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Reviews

Sarah

Jul 6, 2026

So helpful for my friend recovering from bypass surgery. Thank you!

Alexis Kosierb

Jun 27, 2026

This is wonderful! Thank you! Feeling so much calmer and more grounded! 🙏🏼

Carrie

Jun 16, 2026

Focusing on my breath, yes... Thank you so much. 🙏❤🙏

Jude Smith

May 25, 2026

I was looking for a quick breathing reset and this was perfect. Many thanks for giving me a keeper.🌿

Minnie

May 3, 2026

Beautiful way to begin my day! Thanks. With “gentleness”, your voice saying that was very calming.

Do Van Lommel

May 3, 2026

Dankjewel voor deze rustgevende meditatie. Het gaf me een moment van diepe ontspanning. Je hebt een fijne warme stem en geeft duidelijke geruststellende instructies. 🙏

Yuri

Apr 6, 2026

It actually helped me realise that I can focus on something else that is not my worries. Thanks!

Juliet D

Mar 29, 2026

So beautiful. A gorgeous voice I can listen too. Great awareness and insight. Thanks 🙏🏻

Grant

Mar 11, 2026

That was a great reminder to be grateful for even the smallest things. Your voice is very soothing. Thank you for helping me sleep!

Nozi D.

Mar 8, 2026

Definitely doing this for 30 days straight! This one’s the one for me, honestly. 🌸🙏

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Speaks English and Nederlands

Joined Insight Timer in March 2019


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