Welcome to the third episode of the Stars Are Us,
Your podcast about spirituality,
Astrology,
Awareness and inspiration.
So,
What to say about today?
After this powerful Full Moon in Libra where we received some important insights and sometimes the receiving of insights doesn't happen like on a very conscious level of like I'm meditating and suddenly I have this information which is amazing and if you did,
Amazing that's super supportive and will always guide you in your way but many times this I received some insights or receiving important insights happens in our daily lives because most of these insights or most of this information is provided to us during our daily lives,
During our daily routines,
When talking to people,
When engaging in our relationships.
So this is when life is fully giving you the signs,
This is when life is fully giving you the feedback and this is where it's important for us to pay attention.
Pay attention not like controlling every detail of our interactions but by being aware of what is happening in these interactions,
What is happening in these connections,
What are we bringing into our relationships,
What is being shown to us and sometimes it's as simple as you saying something and then the other doesn't understand you or the other mirrors something back to you or suddenly you are going after something and that's running away from you or even the opposite like you are doing nothing and something comes your way,
Like all these possibilities because it's infinite the possibilities but this is a little bit how life is mirroring us something,
Is how life is giving us the feedback.
So usually full moons are powerful portals of culmination like the completion of a cycle.
It's interesting when we think about it on a long-term perspective for instance we talk about this full moon in Libra we have to talk about the new moon in Libra that happening during Libra season last year because this is the culmination of that cycle that started back there.
So yes of course we can look into the beginning of this let's say Aries season in astrological terms in the beginning of this new year because in this season this was the full moon of this month but this full moon is not isolated so this full moon is something that was planted many months ago in October.
So the invitation is always to go back to that time and what was happening in your life back then,
What were the seeds you were planting back then because now you probably were harvesting it.
So don't just stay in the isolation of what's happening in this precise moment because this is not nothing is just an isolated thing you know everything is interconnected.
There is this beautiful interesting theory called the butterfly effect you probably heard it that says that the spread of the wings of a butterfly in Japan will have an effect in South America.
So everything is connected and when we pull a string in one point something is being opened in another completely different point so nothing that we do stays invisible somehow even if we are not seeing it with our eyes our physical eyes in our physical realities.
So also the seeds planted back there were now harvested so interesting to observe what was happening in your life in these days maybe nothing was happening maybe a lot was happening this is not a judgmental place but it's just to bring you some awareness.
So the first part will be to observe what was the feedback that life has been giving you and specifically now and when we talk about Libra we talk about of course partnerships we talk about balance in our lives we talk about harmony it's it's a funny thing that of course people that have the Sun in Libra are usually not balanced at all because that's exactly what they came here to work on and okay I don't want to say everyone huh but a lot of Libra energy can have a lot of imbalance because the the pathway the spiraling up is through the balance and that's exactly what we came to learn here I have a Sun in Libra so yeah but that's it so we came to learn about balance and when we talk about Libra in general what Libra means is harmony and balance so learning how to be balanced within the other how to balance within our relationships because it's not just me the one alone as in the representation of Aries where all begins when life begins as I'm the first no when I am in Libra there is other people involved there is a sharing there is duality there there is two so how am I going to work when there is two they say two is where the separation begins but it's also where the union begins so but the union cannot come without this harmony without this balance because then if we are talking about a relationship between two people if one doesn't know its own value doesn't feel its own worth then there will be no balance because it will over give and then the other will feel overwhelmed and then the other will go away like all these dynamics so of course this was not where I was meant to come but also talking about relationships and this thing of the anxious attachment and the violent attachment it is somehow due to this because one of the parts or even both of the parts are not aware of their own value so by a bit not being aware of their own value if you have low self-worth you can have a tendency to over give and then you give so much you put so much into the other and that's already too much for the other to handle so it's like suddenly here I am with all my luggage and then I give it all to you and then you don't know how to act with that so this is mostly the avoidant part which okay what the fuck am I gonna do with this okay I run away I run away because I'm overwhelmed and I also don't know how to deal with it so it's very interesting this this dynamics of the avoidant and anxious and somehow both are tied to low self-worth so this is not yeah this is not big science but it is what it is because when we relate from a place of knowing our worth of being yeah in a mode of self-love like I love myself I know what I bring to the table I know what I yeah where my false is I know what my fears are I know where my wounds are and I also communicate that to you so somehow you already know who you are handling with and from that moment you are also having the free will of deciding to stay or not deciding to stay but if I come to you and I'm not able of sharing all of that with you and I just come to you and then I love bomb you and then I just want you around and I'm always after you because I don't want to be alone and then of course you will be scared somehow because that is a lot to you and maybe you haven't never received that type of attention or maybe you already have an history of receiving too much of that attention and that's your pattern and you also have a lack of boundaries because you also cannot set your own boundary so then you have these other people that come with a lot and put it all on your shoulders because you have no boundaries so in the end this is all related to this matter of of course being aware who we are being aware of our faults being aware of our wounds and being able to communicate that to the other so yeah communication plays a huge role in this in this topic I would say like one of the biggest roles will be the role of communication and communication is such a vast thing I remember when I used to think that communication was just words well how innocent huh and it's not just words it's so much more than words it's actions as well so what happens many times and I remember I received I had an oracle deck and I was always receiving this card of like it was somehow something like aligning how was it aligning your thoughts with your words or your words with your actions and yeah I wonder like why like I'm expressing everything but I wasn't I wasn't because communication goes into such a deeper level as if I am saying something to you and I consciously want to believe in something but deep down I don't believe in that deep down I feel something different but I am not even aware that I have that feeling and so somehow I am lying but I'm not aware that I am lying because I'm not doing it like on a purpose of I want to lie to you but deep down I am not in harmony with myself I am not being true to myself and I am not expressing myself I'm not communicating but because at the root level I am lacking communication with within myself my heart is blocked by my thoughts so I'm there is a the line of communication within myself and God whatever we call it is somehow having interference so then of course I can think that I on a conscious level that I am communicating honestly and that I am communicating centered in alignment but I am not because deep down something I am not communicating so yeah this can go very very deep and that's why it's so important to also have a strong communication within oneself so that then we can also have a strong and clear communication with the outside so yeah I notice a lot of these of course even within myself and also within clients and people like I have contact with or in the spiritual communities because when we go in our healing journey we want to get rid of all our wounds we want to be ready for the thing we want to be our best versions and all of that and amazing and I am already and yeah on a conscious level yes I am but then somehow things are not really flowing and somehow there is some blockage and I'm like what the fuck where is the blockage and many of these times the blockage is on this exact place of deep down within me there are things that haven't been revealed or listened yet and I am trying to put other things on top and to do things on a different level on a different way so there is a misalignment there is a miscommunication and of course that then my actions and my thoughts are not the match because my thoughts on a conscious level might be but the root behind those thoughts the beliefs behind those thoughts are not so it's very important when something is not flowing in your life to also go into this topic or when somehow something is feeling off and you don't know what it is or you feel some anxiety or some yeah some discomfort and you don't know why maybe go and ask yourself deeper what are you not listening because maybe there is a lack of communication that is happening from a very deep place like something very deep within you is not being heard so if it's not being heard then it's not having communication it's not being expressed so then of course you can be saying all these things and communicating all these things but then something is a mismatch another level of this and a little more superficial because I would say this is a very deep this is the deep level so on a more superficial will be like I'm saying something but really like I am doing something different that also happens to all of us and on our healing journeys for sure like whoever doesn't throw the first rock as it's said so this one will be like I want to have this amazing health I want to yeah I say a lot of words about my health and about my life and about my this and I do this and I do that and I am this and I am that but then I don't even get up to work out so I don't even work out every time I have a workout or an opportunity to work out something comes and I just don't do it or it's because it's raining or it's because I'm lazy or it's because someone called me or it's because I have this or it's because I have that so let's say a month passes and I went to the mat once so of course that I can be saying all these things that yeah I'm I'm putting a lot of energy into my workout I'm doing a lot of workout but then I am really not doing it so this is again a miscommunication because I am saying something with my words but then my actions are not a match with my words so yeah why having all these words if you are not even doing it you know and it happens like when our conscious mind already wants to be in China but our unconscious mind our subconscious the deepest part of us it's still in Portugal so yeah somehow part of you is already in China but you are not even starting the journey yet you are not even going to China yet so you are trying with your ego to be there but you are not so this is another way that this miscommunication happens and that our ego plays tricks on us because yeah we believe we are already doing it like I am already having the best life ever or I am already doing the best for myself and yeah but then I am still like getting drunk every weekend and doing drugs every week like yeah so definitely your actions are not matching your words so it's very sensitive and this is a sensitive topic and this is not a judgmental place so this is just to bring us awareness and to bring us awareness into why certain things are not happening when we want them to be happening because of course maybe it's not the time maybe the fruit isn't ripe yet and maybe we haven't prepared the soil totally so yeah one of the ways it's this deeper deeper level of like my my deeper beliefs or subconscious and my conscious are doing different things are playing different games and then the other is when I am on this place of doing one thing and saying another and then of course on the superficial of the superficial level is just like yeah telling lies on purpose but that's that's something that as we evolve we realize that it doesn't make any sense you know because in the end that is also tied to the idea of playing a role playing having a mask and playing role so that the other likes you but then when you realize like I don't need to be liked you know why why am I trying to play this role or impress or whatever no there is no need to impress like I am here to be who I am and who I am maybe yeah it's someone that is lazy or this someone that is this that is someone that is that and if I am telling you all these beautiful things for you to like me one day the masks will fall and then it will not be pretty or it will be as it as it needs to be but the question is and we all go through this somehow not all but yeah we go through this and this is also something in the shadow of the Libra energy which is the people pleaser so I want everyone to like me I want to be good with everyone I don't want to have to be the one saying the ugly things and then people will be mad at me and then we go into stories and movies and suddenly you are all tied up in a movie that you didn't know you created so when you realize that you are not here to please anyone and that you don't have to explain yourself over explain yourself some of us carry this from our parents like we need to over-explain why I did that because da da da da da da in the end it's just stories and in the end that doesn't even matter because yeah why why I don't I don't need you to come to me and to say that oh you didn't come because da da da da da not big story no okay you didn't felt like it it's okay it's okay I accept it I prefer you to come and meet me at your own nature at yeah your own way that you're with your own truth then to be painting a beautiful picture that then is not real it's just for the museum and yeah the museums are for people who pay to go in and then we have nature which is the best museum it's free it's open to everyone and it's alive so I don't know if you got the analogy but yeah I like analogies somehow so yeah so this is about this topic of relationships and communication and relationships and all these dynamics that also this full moon reveals to us and to show to us so yeah ask yourself what was the feedback you received through this portal go back to October and to what were you planting back then in your life what type of seeds and how much you were harvesting that now yeah observe what's happening right now and also question yourself about this topic of communication of if something feels off in your life or if something is not flowing ask yourself ask yourself why ask yourself if there is this communication alignment if I am my words are matching my actions and also deep down if this is really an alignment if I really want that or if all the parts of me are wanting that because if I have a part that wants it in another part that doesn't then yeah then it will not happen so that's it for today see you next week bye bye
