Worksheet
The Safe Space Audit: A Reflective Check-In on Boundaries, Trust, and Expectations in Therapy
This clinical resource helps therapy clients evaluate the health of their therapeutic alliance and explore unconscious relational patterns. Created in collaboration with Kim Abrahams, Licensed Social Worker (LSW) & Wellness Specialist, this worksheet operationalizes psychodynamic transference, attachment dynamics, and client-led boundary maintenance. By encouraging clients to notice emotional reactions before and after sessions, the guide supports deeper trust, honest communication, and relational safety within therapy.
How to Use This Worksheet
Clients can complete this solo, between sessions, or bring it directly into session as a discussion starter. Practitioners may assign it as homework after a rupture, a boundary question, or a plateau in progress. Each section builds toward one shareable insight, making it easy to open dialogue without needing every question fully answered first
Who This Worksheet Is For
This guide is designed for individuals in counseling or psychotherapy who want to better understand their relationship with their therapist, address feelings of needing to perform, or work through emotional guards. It serves as a gentle, client-led manual to prepare for deeper in-session processing. It also offers a valuable psychodynamic tool for licensed social workers, psychotherapists, counselors, and mental health specialists navigating alliance ruptures, transference, and boundary dynamics.
Expected Outcomes
- Stronger understanding of therapeutic boundaries
- Increased readiness to voice difficult truths in session
- Greater trust and safety within the therapeutic alliance
Related Topics
References
Rogers, C. R. (1957). The necessary and sufficient conditions of therapeutic personality change. Journal of Consulting Psychology, 21(2), 95–103.
Gelso, C. J., & Bhatia, A. (2012). Crossing theoretical lines: The role and effect of transference in nonanalytic psychotherapies. Psychotherapy, 49(3), 384–390.
Safran, J. D., & Muran, J. C. (2000). Negotiating the Therapeutic Alliance: A Relational Treatment Guide. Guilford Press.
Abrahams, K. (2026). The Safe Space Audit: A Worksheet for Clients. Developed from 20 years of practice in human behaviour and psychodynamic therapy, operationalizing clinical transference, attachment patterns, and client-led boundary maintenance.
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