Worksheet
The Mirror Practice: Building Self-Acceptance Through Daily Reflection
This worksheet introduces mirror work, a powerful practice that helps you build a more compassionate and grounded relationship with yourself. By making eye contact, speaking affirming phrases, and observing your emotional responses, you gently interrupt patterns of self-avoidance and strengthen self-acceptance. Over time, this practice helps you feel more at home in your body and more connected to your inner world.
How to Use This Worksheet
Stand in front of a mirror and arrive with three slow breaths. Begin by noticing how you feel as you look at yourself. Say the guided affirmations out loud—“I see you,” “I hear you,” and “I love you”—while maintaining eye contact. Write down your experience, noting which phrase felt easiest or hardest. Imagine what your reflection might say back. Close the practice with an intentional phrase that feels true for you.
Who It’s For
This worksheet is ideal for individuals who struggle with self-criticism, self-avoidance, or negative self-image. It supports anyone wanting to cultivate gentle self-connection, build inner safety, or strengthen self-compassion practices.
Expected Outcomes
• Greater comfort making eye contact with yourself
• Increased self-acceptance and emotional openness
• A more compassionate internal dialogue
• Reduced self-avoidance and shame-based thinking
• Stronger sense of inner safety and connection
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References
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Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.
Siegel, D. J. (2007). The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being. W. W. Norton & Company.
Satir, Virginia (1988). The New Peoplemaking. Science and Behavior Books.
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