Worksheet
Practicing Rejection Without Fear: Reframing “No” and Building Rejection Resilience
This worksheet helps you reframe rejection so it no longer activates old fears of unworthiness or not belonging. By writing down the rejection you fear, speaking it aloud, and exploring new meanings for “no,” you build emotional resilience and confidence. Over time, this practice helps you see rejection as redirection—not a reflection of your value.
How to Use This Worksheet
Start by writing a rejection you fear hearing. Then read it out loud several times, allowing the sting to soften with repetition. Reflect on what “no” could actually mean—protection, clarity, or alignment. Finally, anchor the new meaning with an empowering phrase. Return to this exercise whenever fear of rejection holds you back from taking action or expressing yourself.
Who It’s For
This worksheet is ideal for individuals who fear judgment, avoid risks, or struggle with self-worth after hearing “no.” It supports anyone working on confidence, assertiveness, dating anxiety, boundary-setting, job seeking, creative expression, or emotional resilience.
Expected Outcomes
• Reduced fear around hearing “no”
• Increased confidence in self-expression and decision-making
• Healthier perspective on rejection and redirection
• Greater emotional resilience and self-worth
• Ability to pursue opportunities despite uncertainty
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References
Kumar, Vasavi (2023). Say It Out Loud: Using the Power of Your Voice to Listen to Your Deepest Thoughts and Courageously Pursue Your Dreams. New World Library.
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Beck, J. S. (2011). Cognitive Behavior Therapy: Basics and Beyond (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.
Neff, K. (2011). Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself. William Morrow.
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