Worksheet
Developed with licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Piper Grant, PsyD, it provides an objective perspective on maternal mental health. By normalizing an overactive nervous system, it allows parents to safely identify hidden emotions like grief or vulnerability.


Introduce this exercise during perinatal sessions or as part of a postpartum self-care plan. Guide clients through common physical and mental anxiety indicators, like racing thoughts or constant checking. Instruct them to write their specific fear or "what-if" spiral in the first column. Finally, help them gently pair each anxious thought with a realistic, grounding reframe.
This guide is for new mothers, birthing parents, and postpartum individuals experiencing hypervigilance or difficulty resting. It serves as a gentle tracking manual for parents, as well as a structured cognitive-behavioral tool for perinatal specialists, counselors, sex therapists, social workers, and doulas.
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References
Beck, A. T. (1976). Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders. International Universities Press. (Applied to the identification and structural cognitive reframing of anxious thoughts and "what-if" spirals).
Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company. (Applied to the biological framing of postpartum hypervigilance, environmental scanning, and nervous system safety mechanisms).”
Beck, C. T., & Gable, R. K. (2000). Postpartum Depression Screening Scale. Western Psychological Services. (Clinical context supporting the tracking of maternal anxiety indicators, constant checking, and sleep disruptions).
Beck, A. T. (1979). Cognitive Therapy of Depression. Guilford Press. (Applied to the Fear/Thought → Grounding Truth/Reframe exercise, which draws on cognitive restructuring techniques from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.)
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