Tarot: Stop Seeking External Validation

It’s time to stop looking outside yourself for approval and start recognizing your own worth. The real power lies within you. The more you trust your inner voice, the more confident and at peace you'll feel. You don’t need anyone else to validate your choices or who you are. Stand tall in your truth, and watch how the world shifts to match your energy. Your worth has never depended on anyone else’s opinion=it’s always been inside of you.

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Hello beautiful souls,

My name is Taz and welcome to another daily reading.

So let's see together what messages you need to hear today or what are the energies around you today.

I have Devil,

I have seven of wands,

And then reversed ten of wands.

So a lot of things are happening currently in your physical reality.

When I'm looking at the spread,

I also want to give you the messages separately.

So I'm going to explain you each card and then maybe give you some more messages like together from the spread.

So the first card is this seven of wands and when I'm looking at the card,

It is basically giving you the message or your spirit guides or the universe is giving you the message that no matter what,

You still need to share your ideas to the world.

No matter if other people are going to disagree or no matter if other people maybe are not going to be resonating with you,

Share your ideas is the message that is coming through.

Share your ideas,

Don't be afraid to ask for help,

Don't be afraid to also work on your self-limiting beliefs because definitely you are someone who has a lot of ideas and maybe there is also a competition around you or maybe also other people around you want what you have even though if you cannot see that or also the message behind this card is basically that you shouldn't accept other people's opinions about you.

Maybe people around you,

When I'm also looking at the devil and the ten of wands,

Are having a lot of opinions about you,

They are trying to navigate your life or they are trying to give you their opinions about how you should live your life but don't listen to them because you actually know how you want to live your life,

You know who you are,

What you want and that is what is truly the only thing that matters and you need to also remember truly who you are,

What are your values,

What you want.

When I'm also looking at the card,

You need to see all of your accomplishments,

Be grateful for everything you accomplish and also be grateful and don't listen to them because you had some accomplishments,

Maybe it has been when I'm looking at the like the wands,

It could be that you move away from your home country or you started the project,

You started the business,

You've done something very meaningful and you shouldn't listen to other people's opinion,

You have some self-limiting negative beliefs,

What I'm also seeing with the devil card and you cannot basically handle everything on your own and handle those opinions so don't listen to external opinions,

Don't seek external validation,

You need to validate yourself and also your basically all of the things you do are going to validate your world in your own eyes,

That's the only thing you need to focus on,

Don't focus on external validation from the people who are trying to basically put their opinions in your mind,

Seek your own validation,

Be your own validation person,

You know what I mean and also this card is basically talking about when I'm looking at the spread to protect yourself,

Protect yourself from.

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It was a ghost,

So protect yourself from also all of the things that could make you feel less,

Protect yourself from from other people if they don't want to give you their support hand,

Protect yourself from basically everything that is negative and it is kind of like holding back or it is like slowing your progress because you have some goals you want to achieve so go after them and don't listen to other people opinions,

Stand up for what you believe,

Have a courage because there are definitely going to be some obstacles or you are maybe currently experiencing or are going to experience some obstacles,

Maybe some attacks on your personality or basically on your journey,

So don't be like struggling to maintain your current position because you don't need to explain yourself to anyone,

You don't need to seek external validation,

All you need to do is really focus on what you believe in,

Focus on your values,

Focus on what you truly want and don't listen to those opinions,

Work on yourself,

Limiting beliefs or something like that,

So do some kind of therapy,

Meditation and really try some mantras or affirmations to help you to gain the courage you need to in order to stop listening to them and also what I'm getting,

The kind of like message behind this card is also that you need to work on your self-confidence if you are also struggling with self-confidence,

Which you definitely are because we also have the devil card so you are definitely struggling with self-confidence and also I have like a book where I have some quotes regarding the tarot cards,

So let's see,

Okay the quote for the seven of wands so you can maybe journal about this quote or you can just I'm deserving of this success and I will bravely bravely bravely shine my light into the world and second quote or second affirmation be the hardest worker in the room,

So yeah guys let's move into ten of wands because very this is very interesting card when I'm also looking at the spread,

Ten of wands when it's in reverse,

I'm also going to read you the quote don't prioritize what is on your schedule but schedule your priorities,

I release my burdens into the ether knowing that the universe will help me to tend to the essentials so ten of wands when it's in the reverse position it is suggesting that you need to kind of delegate your tasks,

You need to stop feeling helpless and help yourself and also if you need help just ask for it because you may also have this divided attention on many different areas maybe the people are attacking you maybe they are projecting their self-limiting beliefs on you and you are a little bit you are like thinking that those limiting beliefs are coming from within you but it's not true these limiting beliefs that other people are just projecting projecting on you they are coming from their within within themselves they are not self-confident and that's why they are also projecting onto you so don't listen to it you need to know that it doesn't matter if you're going to be confident if you are going to believe in yourself believe in your abilities and also see all of your accomplishments then also those negative talks on the negative things cannot really touch you because you will know that it's not true and that's their projecting of themselves so don't listen to them and it can also be that you are a little bit disappointed when people kind of don't meet your expectation is also the message behind this car which is completely okay but don't think that people need to kind of like show you something or they need to also don't expect that other people need to seek validation from you can be also a little bit message or don't expect that people are going to also explain themselves to you so don't do the same thing don't explain yourself to other people is the message and also um you are being asked by this ten of ones to kind of maybe clean yourself from the toxic activities toxic environment toxic people and everything that is toxic and that is holding you back because also the devil car is talking all about toxicity and toxic things so see the joy and see the inspiration within and also do the activities that are bringing you the joy and that are bringing you the inspiration to to move into the better version of yourself but i also want to see the devil card but i'm going to maybe also read to you um the devil like um the quotes or affirmations or whatever you want to call it um devil in the darkness i am free to heal everything history repeated itself until we learn our lessons and change the course so when i'm looking at the whole spread and also on the on this card basically devil is talking all about like unhealthy attachments it is also about some need for like liberation from external validation or the need to kind of be free and be living the life for yourself and also the devil car is basically asking you that you need to dive deep into your shadow self and into your limiting beliefs because definitely you have some limiting beliefs but it is coming mostly for the external environment is the message what i'm seeing and also maybe it can be that you are like a little bit obsessed not obsessed but a little bit maybe obsessed with like superficial things so external validation maybe money maybe branded clothes or maybe something that is that you try to be perceived by someone else as someone who maybe you aren't even inside you so stop doing this this devil has a very beautiful message and very beautiful also lessons that uh you need to think about the patterns that are repeating themselves in your life because like also this quote what i was uh telling to you history repeated itself the things that you are trying to escape from they're going to be under repeating your life until you are going to be able to actually work with them and heal them and all of these journeys start within you so heal your inner self heal your confidence be confident be living for yourself and until you are going to be able to do that you know you are going to be able to do that and then you are going to be extremely free so this is the message behind the devil card to basically break the chains seek the help if you need and also what else go let go of the attachments dive deep into what you believe in and what you truly want and who you truly are um but i have the feeling that that was the message that wanted to come to the light and also the messages that i just wanted to share with you but i also want to give you a message from my rose oracle deck okay so the sun joy enjoyment life for success vitality play so again focus on the positive things in you don't focus on the negativity always be grateful for what you have who you are for your accomplishments and then if you're going to be grateful the more and the next accomplishment are going to come into your life because this is how it basically works so don't seek external validation stand for yourself dig deeper um and explore more what you believe in this is the whole message but i have the feeling that that was it what the universe or your spirit guides when they do to know and as always please remember this is a whole general and collective reading and apply what is resonating with you and forget the rest you are you have a frivol you're a creator of your own destiny nothing is set in stone so thank you so much for listening to the daily message and see you tomorrow or next time see you