Message From Spirit: How To Handle Arguments With A Partner

In this collective reading, we examine your recent argument with a partner. Is this a stay-or-go type of situation? What advice does spirit have for us as we listen to this message? Join this tarot reading!

Transcript

Hello and welcome to this collective reading with the guidance of the tarot cards.

My name is Simone and today we will be discussing unrest in romantic relationships when you disagree,

Argue,

Or fight and we'll see what the tarot card has to offer in way of advice for us today.

My name is Simone and I will be your guide for this course.

So sit back,

Relax,

And let's hear what spirit has to say to us today.

The very first card that jumps out to us today for our reading is the 10 of cups which is in its reversed position.

In its normal position this card talks to us about family and celebration and joy.

This card in its normal position talks to us about joy and family,

Yes,

But in its reversed position it talks to about unrest and the family.

A sense that the togetherness is declining and there's been some shaking up and that things are less peaceful at the moment.

There's less celebration inside the family area.

It talks about the peace being in an unrestful situation and how happiness is also fading.

However,

The rest of the cards definitely don't advise you to leave a situation whenever there's a conflict.

So it talks to the importance of balancing and to that effect the next card that came through is the two of cups which I like to call the soulmate card.

Now this very well mean that the person you're in partnership with is somebody who is a soulmate and although I don't believe there's only one soulmate for each of us on this planet I do encourage my students and my clients to think of love as something that you could have with many different people but there are certain people who will understand you at a soul level and the person that this is coming through today with is somebody who is a soulmate.

So whether that is romantic or friendship it could depend on the situation.

This is the healing of a severed truce as well like the healing of connection,

The healing of attraction.

This is a person who although you may have slight bumps in the road with this is not a person who long term is unviable and it's exactly the complete opposite in fact.

This is a person whose soul aligns with you on a soul level and therefore is not something that you need to give up on completely for some bumps in the road and the death card comes through as well.

Now the death card talks about change,

It talks about the dying of some things and the rebirth of others as a result.

This may mean for some of you as this is a collective reading meaning that spirit can work through this message and to several different people so I'll give you some of the different meanings that this could mean and then you will just take the one that makes the most sense to you in your situation.

So the death card calls into question is this a person worth staying with.

Now the other cards indicate that yes it is a person however it could indicate that you have somebody else on the horizon so this is really something that you would need to think about your own individual case.

If it is a case of I want to stay with this person and I'm sure that I do then the death card for us would signify things like we need to leave some things in the past,

There's some old habits between the two people in question that need to be eliminated and need to be left alone.

It could also talk about the fact that you as a couple are going through a sort of a transition maybe there's some changing roles and there's a little bit of doubt about who should be taking on each of the roles but it also talks to us about putting the past behind us so instead of getting angrier and angrier about these situations it says to us to allow these things to be moving into the past.

However if this is a person that you really aren't sure that you want to be with this card may signify that there should be an ending to the relationship.

Get back to the essentials of the relationship if you want to stay in it,

Get back to basics but if you're not sure then you may be experiencing a little bit of doubt in the terms of whether you should continue or not because of this death card.

It talks to us about sort of these forces that we can't control and if there are forces that you can't control that feel beyond your reach and beyond your ability to take care of them then you may well want to consider the closing of the relationship or at least the closing of parts of the relationship.

At any rate the death card signifies transition and change.

As one door closes another one opens so if you're wanting to stay with this person long term and you do feel confident in that decision then we may take some of the old habits and the old ways of being and put them in the coffin so to speak with the death card and if not if this is someone you're not sure about then this card may definitely be pointing you in the direction of maybe closing that door.

In which case the two cups would signify that you may very well be soulmates on some level but could be more of a twin flame situation in which you may need to learn some lessons from this person.

What comes through is the justice card.

The next card that comes in is the justice card and the justice card talks about the balance that we need to create within our family.

The justice card is very closely connected to Libra which of course is the sign of partnership but it's also the sign of balance and understanding so the card reminds us that even though we think we're right we are partially about 50 actually and the other 50 we can give to our partner as well because they are right for having their own subjective experience of the conflict.

In fact we can see this in the two of cups as well and the 10 of cups in reverse.

This is very much a card when connected with the others that talks about balance and talks about there being equal parts in the relationship and equal understanding of each other's subjective experiences.

Neither is completely right nor completely wrong and even though that may be hard to accept sometimes we might do ourselves a favor and our partners a favor by at least owning the 50% that we hold in this disagreement.

We are 50% right but we are also 50% wrong.

The next card that comes through is the magician and the magician is a very beautiful card to remind us of the spark that we had at the beginning of the relationship.

It also talks to us about paying attention,

Being really conscious of what we're doing,

Taking action yes but concentrating on the importance of the things that we learn with this person and the fact that we have the power with this person to make the changes that we want.

In fact this is a person who we have a lot to carry with but we have so much equipment that the magician has all of his tools readily available to him and that's sort of the marker of this the strength of this relationship.

However if you're in a position where the conflict has gotten way too far as this is a collective reading so it could be this as well and you are considering you know is this conflict enough to sort of break make or break the relationship if you will then the magician in this case would be urging you forward in the sense of you have the ability to be on your own.

In fact it is the one card.

Okay the final card that comes in for this reading today is the six of swords and this is likely a card that indicates to us that we should we should stay.

The card in this normal position is the moving on card however there are different interpretations of this card that I'll share with you.

So for the first interpretation of this reading if you're with a person that despite this conflict you really love and truly believe is your soulmate then this card tells you there's no reason to move on from this.

It's okay to stay home and it's okay to be here because the journey of the transition is almost completed.

So it's it's very near in the horizon that the transition is going to be sort of ending and things are going to be back to balance as we notice with the justice card and it talks about the fact that you know sort of the difficulty of the conflict and of the transition are going to be coming to an end for basically our first interpretation of these cards.

If you're listening to this and of course you're considering whether the conflict is big enough in order to make a move outward this card yes does signify staying home but it can also be understood as a card that teaches us to stay at home within our own hearts.

A journey of self-discovery and this journey is probably ending because you are arriving at a point in which you're saying I'm kind of ready to move on and I'm kind of ready to you know um to to I've learned a lot on my inner journey now I'm kind of ready for the transition into the new a new period in my life in which case there's a sadness around the card but also a sense of freedom and joy in your decision to sort of take this conflict and understand it in the larger understanding of the relationship in the sense of yes this is a relationship that I would like to move away from.

Oftentimes my tarot clients come to me with the answer or the question should or should I should I do something or should I not do something and my answer to them is that you have the power the magician card reminds us of this you have the power to make this decision you have the power to move forward with a relationship with everything in you or you have the power to move forward on your own with everything in you so the conflict itself so that you know is very clearly marked as ending the conflict exists but it's being transitioned through some changes in the family system some changes in the relationship system now whether you can handle those changes and want to continue with this person is totally up to you but the cards do speak to us on a certain level so if you resonated with the first interpretation of the cards stick with that if you resonated with the second interpretation of the cards stick with that one you won't go wrong guiding yourself the cards simply talk about the current energies this has been a collective reading about conflict in relationship my name is Simone and I hope that you enjoyed this reading and that you check out my profile here on insight timer as there are many more readings that help with all aspects of life thank you so much and I will see you in the next one

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