Nonviolent Communication Part 1: Meet The Consciousness Of NVC - by Hans van Veen

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Nonviolent Communication Part 1: Meet The Consciousness Of NVC

With Hans van Veen

Nonviolent Communication is the intention of seeing humanity in each other. Immerse yourself in the techniques and consciousness of connecting deeper within, and to others, with the mindful communication approach called ‘Nonviolent Communication’ (NVC). This, course 1, will get you acquainted with the worldview, assumptions and core characteristics of NVC. I call NVC 'mindful communication', because this approach offers a conscious and helpful way of relating to our thoughts, feelings and needs in a way that creates both meta-awareness and Metta--as in loving kindness, for yourself and for others. NVC, at the surface, is a range of conversational techniques that are an expression of its deeper being: a compassionate nondual quality of awareness. In these courses, you will get to taste this awareness and see it in action in several domains such as listening, dealing with anger, enemy images, judgment-free relating, and much more. You'll get to practice the clarity that discerns strategies from needs, thoughts from feelings, demands from requests and observations from interpretations. And you'll see how this clarity can untangle and help dissolve our habitual split-second reactivities. Some notes: > This course is part of a series of 6 courses on NVC, that can either be taken separately or in conjunction, although of course taking all 6 courses will give you a more complete picture of the material. > The ‘totality’ of NVC is a rich and living bouquet of ever-evolving practices, topics and insights, and these courses are not meant to convey that totality (nor could they); rather, I share here my deepest insights, coolest learnings and most useful practical tips. I dearly hope you find benefit in it and enjoy the course(s)! image: Getty


Meet your Teacher

Hans van Veen is a parent, Aletheia Method Transformational Coach, and communication trainer, as well as a certification candidate with the Center for Nonviolent Communication. His work is rooted in Nonviolent Communication and enriched by Nondual Tantra, Zen, Vipassana, and other contemplative practices. He supports parents, groups, couples, and individuals in cultivating empathy, self-acceptance, and authentic connection.

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3 Days

1.3k students

4.9 stars

15 min / day

Compassion

English


Lesson 1

Introduction: Beyond Right And Wrong, There Is A Field

This first lesson gives an overview of the mindful communication worlview of NVC using 5 core characteristics including NVC as vessel to connection, the needs based approach and the 4-step model. Also, a practice suggestion is offered to work compassionately and effectively with triggers, using NVC clarity.

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Lesson 2

The Art Of Empathic Listening, And Empathy Blockers

In this session, we dive deeper in the subtle art of listening. How do we actually listen in a way that makes the other feel heard? And what are ways in which we block empathy, if we're not mindful? It all starts with the 3 positions to be in conversations....

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Lesson 3

Reward, Punishment And Domination, And The Paradigm Shift Of NVC

In this session, we take a look at the dynamics of domination--using blame, shame, guilt, and reward & punishment--the effects of such a motivational frame, NVC's answer to the domination culture in the form of cooperative empathy, and we ask the question: what could the world look like, if we don't only ask what we want people to do for us, but also what we would want their reasons to be for helping us.

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Ask your teacher

This course includes 16 community questions and 7 audio replies from Hans van Veen. The community classroom and teacher audio replies are only available via the app.

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Recent Reviews

Catherine

Catherine

January 31, 2026

Thank you for this course. Great explanation of NVC with examples. I look forward to the next series to continue.

Alex

December 8, 2025

Fantastic course! Highly recommended to anyone interested in learning more about NVC and how truly transformative of a practice it can be. Many thanks, Hans!! 🙏

Danielle

Danielle

October 2, 2025

Thanks for a really enjoyable and easily digestible introduction to NVC. I'm looking forward to continuing! 🙏🏼😊

Ditte

Ditte

July 31, 2025

I really enjoy this course. Your work is much appreciated 🙏

Sherrie

Sherrie

July 13, 2025

Perfect introduction. Thank you. I'm hooked on learning more!!

Jane

Jane

July 9, 2025

Excellent explanation of the core principles of Non Violent Communication ... or mindful communication. Looking forward to the other courses. 🙏🏼

Melody

May 22, 2025

I would highly recommend your course to others. You’ve broken down NVC into bite-size pieces that are more easily digested by the reader. I look forward to listening to your other courses on NVC. I will be saving your course and sharing it with friends and family. Namaste 💕

JayneAnn

JayneAnn

May 15, 2025

Wow! I will dive back in again. Thank you 💞🙏🏻

Juany

Juany

March 17, 2025

interesting and super useful subject looking forward for the chapter... thank you 🩵🙏🩵

LA

LA

March 10, 2025

I really enjoyed this overview of NVC. The first day offered a “practical action” exercise, which I really appreciated - both because it helped me work through a specific situation, but also Because it offered immediate insight as to how & why NVC can be a powerful tool. Overall, the course seems like a good primer to NVC and I feel better equipped and excited to engage with the follow-up courses!

Virginia

Virginia

February 21, 2025

Learning that NVC exists as a way to interact with people opens a deep wound in my heart. I want to learn more.

Isaac

February 14, 2025

A really concise and bite size series of talks on NVC. This is new to me and it’s easy to understand and apply so far. I’m looking forward to working through all of the sessions.

Britton

Britton

January 20, 2025

One of the best courses I have taken here.

Stacey

Stacey

January 6, 2025

The Teacher is a great speaker, has superb knowledge of NVC. I felt safe listening & looked forward to his examples. Not my first NVC course. Narrative seemed to wander a bit. The main points did not stick

Cheryl

December 14, 2024

A wondeeful course, so much new learning eloquently presented. Thank you

Alice

Alice

December 3, 2024

this was a great beginning on nvc- i look forward to part two 🤍🕊️🐞🤍🕊️🐞🤍🕊️🐞🤍🕊️🐞🤍

Ellen

Ellen

September 24, 2024

Good overview of NVC

🐒Christine

🐒Christine

July 30, 2024

Hans has a beautiful way of explaining this nuanced topic with understandable examples. I appreciate this and am anticipating opening my awareness with more courses to come.

Nicholas

July 1, 2024

Wonderful, brought tears to my eyes. Happy to have found your work.

Sandhya

Sandhya

May 15, 2024

Fantastic loved this

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