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From Drama & Attachment To An Overflow Of Love
With Mattis NorrviddYou are not a good runner if you have tied your feet together. And you are not a relaxed lover to either yourself or others if your love is depending on the circumstances. Then you will always be on some level of alert in the nervous system! If your partner gets cold and shuts down or says something to you that you feel is threatening then you, consciously or unconsciously, interprets that as if your love might be taken away from you. This causes us to go into survival strategies to keep the attachment. And this often causes drama and pain and a feeling of loneliness, relational anxiety, co-dependency, addictions, you name it. In this course, I give you short talks on the subject as well as guided meditations and ceremonies that can support you to curiously experience what sacred love and union is to you and what you need to take steps towards that. We will also look at whats in the way of leveling up your love and relationship to this new state. I recommend the nervous system regulation course as well as level 1 and level 2 before doing this to get the most out of it and support yourself but if you want to dive straight in, that off course fine as well. Enjoy the course!
This might change how you see love, relationships and how you relate to emotions and increase your capacity to meet your life/relationships with a loving open heart.
About this course
You are not a good runner if you have tied your feet together. And you are not a relaxed lover to either yourself or others if your love is depending on the circumstances. Then you will always be on some level of alert in the nervous system! If your partner gets cold and shuts down or says something to you that you feel is threatening then you, consciously or unconsciously, interprets that as if your love might be taken away from you. This causes us to go into survival strategies to keep the attachment. And this often causes drama and pain and a feeling of loneliness, relational anxiety, co-dependency, addictions, you name it. In this course, I give you short talks on the subject as well as guided meditations and ceremonies that can support you to curiously experience what sacred love and union is to you and what you need to take steps towards that. We will also look at whats in the way of leveling up your love and relationship to this new state. I recommend the nervous system regulation course as well as level 1 and level 2 before doing this to get the most out of it and support yourself but if you want to dive straight in, that off course fine as well. Enjoy the course!
Meet your Teacher
Mattis supports you to come to a greater sense of wholeness and an embodied connection to your authentic self. Not by fixing you but from seeing you as complete and whole as they are. This safe and present space supports you to relax into your body and dare to allow yourself to feel and heal the deeper traumas and beliefs that unconsciously often run a fear driven life. As he personally has experienced before. Having been in a long relationship, partly stuck in unhealthy co-dependency and pleasing survival strategies he found himself lacking a solid inner core of safety and with a need to have the surroundings prove his worth. He now wants to share his wisdom from years of working with this and the never ending exploration of deeper love and how to create healthy and intimate relationships to self and others. His meditations and courses are all in this direction, to support you to find your own safety and confidence within, not by pushing things away but from turning towards yourself with open arms, and expanding the capacity and presence to be with all that life brings. Its finally safe to slow down... and rest in and experience life from the miracle of your being. He says that you will find that nothing feels more natural, more powerful and joyful and effortless than owning the fullness of you and to allow the intuitive wisdom to shine trough. A constant fascination of the unknown with no need to control it. Mattis is a Certified Master Coach in relationship and trauma coach from Elementum Coaching Institute. He supports men from pleasing and insecurity back to empowerment and inner safety. He also supports women who have been hurt by the masculine to regain their inner safety, their radiance and trust in men and intimacy.