You may not know if you want to stay or go.
And you may be wondering,
Well,
How am I going to make this decision so I can feel peace?
Is that something you would like?
Would you love to feel more peace,
More connected to what's right for you?
Well,
Let's talk about that.
Let's move into that with divine love.
With unconditional love,
First for you.
First for you.
And why do I repeat that?
Because we forget.
We forget how to really honor our heart and soul.
You are an individualized expression of this divine creator.
This is what breathes you,
Whatever you choose to call it.
It is what's breathing you.
It's what you can see,
And you can love,
And you can hear,
And you can feel,
And you can honor the being that you are in form.
And who you are is the energy that you exude from this beautiful place of divine love.
And when you're with this person,
And that's what this is about,
In this relationship,
Are you feeling heard?
Are you feeling seen?
Are you compromising what is most important to you so you can receive what you feel is love from this person?
Are you changing your life so they can feel loved,
So they can feel heard,
So they can feel seen,
So they can feel worthy,
More worthy?
Because this is about you.
It's not about them.
This is about how you choose to be here on earth with your partner,
With others,
With family,
With friends,
With business associates,
With yourself.
This relationship with yourself is so sacred.
That's why you're here.
You're not here to change for another human being.
You're here to learn how to love and adore yourself and forgive the things from the past that maybe didn't turn out the way you'd like,
And to be light and free and curious and joyous and in the innocence of the childlike energy to move forward in your life.
And you may feel exhausted in this relationship.
I don't know.
What I do know from working with my clients that when they get to this place,
So when you get to this place that you're waking up maybe in the middle of the night,
Or when you wake up in the morning,
There's like a dread feeling,
Or you're constantly in thoughts like,
I don't know what to do.
I don't know how to stay.
I don't know how to go.
I don't know if I want to stay.
I don't know if I want to go.
I don't know how to make this better.
Here are some questions you can ask your heart and soul.
If I am in a relationship,
Or if I was in a relationship,
That I truly know I want to nurture,
How will I be feeling about me?
So if you are in a relationship,
You want to nurture,
It's going to be because you feel nurtured,
Because you feel heard,
You feel seen,
You feel accepted,
Respected.
The communication that you have is going on.
You don't feel shut out.
You don't feel invisible.
You feel received.
What would it take in this relationship,
And is it possible,
For you to feel received by this other person?
Are you receiving yourself in this relationship,
Being who you love to be?
Do you feel like you can't be yourself,
Or you can't say what you want to say,
Even if you're going to say it with respect and with love and with gratitude?
I invite you to journal.
I invite you to re-listen to this,
Because there's going to be nuggets here that will talk to you.
And however this helps you to understand more about what you're feeling,
Whether you want to stay or go,
I celebrate you and your journey,
Because this is all about you.
