Now,
How to know if you are in the right place?
Let me show you some of the signs that show if you have confidence or self-esteem problems.
If you can recognize any of this in yourself,
Then you definitely are in the right place and you can take a lot from today.
Undervaluing what you are capable of.
Undervaluing yourself.
Learning about negative outcomes and failure even though they haven't yet manifested.
Looking for perfect conditions to start something like a project or an important change in your life.
Being overly critical of yourself.
Or staying in your comfort zone.
And being affected by others' negative opinions of you,
Which means that you are letting other people determine your own self-worth.
Now what are the not so obvious signs that you have a confidence and self-esteem problem?
Justifying your actions and choices to other people.
So instead of just doing something,
You doubt and hesitate,
Assuming that people can judge your decisions and actions.
Immediately replying to criticism,
Like trying to save your image or reputation.
Being a perfectionist.
Having a fearful and adverse attitude towards most things.
Doing things to please other people.
Acting based on what other people think.
And dismissing compliments from people like when someone comes and tells you that he or she likes your voice or your hair and you say,
No,
That's not true,
Or stop kidding,
Or it's nothing really.
So think for a moment.
Which ones do you recognize in yourself?
