Visualising Your Future Self

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Visualising Your Future Self

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talks

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Meditation

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Create a Compelling Vision for the Life You Want In this video, we'll explore how visualising the person you want to become can help you gain clarity, direction, and motivation. I'll introduce you to the psychology of future-self thinking and guide you through a reflective exercise to imagine what you want your life to look and feel like three years from now. We'll explore what's important to you, what you might need to let go of, and what you want to create. You'll finish with three practical questions to help turn that vision into meaningful action. Disclaimer: Because this practice involves visualisation and deep reflection, please do not listen while driving or operating machinery.

Identity Based Habit Change Purpose Discovery Visualization Goal Setting Emotional Connection Personal Growth Boundary Setting

Meet your Teacher

London, UK

Meet your Teacher

London, UK

Transcript

Welcome, I'm James Davis, A coaching psychologist, And I specialize in helping people navigate midlife, Improve their wellbeing, And create more fulfilling lives. In today's video, We're going to explore how visualising the person you want to become can help you gain clarity, Direction and motivation. I'm going to introduce you to the psychology of future self-thinking and guide you through a reflective exercise to imagine what you want your life to look and feel like three years from now. We're going to explore what's important to you, What you might need to let go of, And what you want to create. You're going to finish with three practical questions to help turn that vision into a meaningful action. And listen, You don't need any previous experience with visualisation. You can simply listen, Reflect and take part at your own pace. You don't need to close your eyes at any point, But you can if you want to. So I'd like to start with a question. Have you ever stopped to think about the person you want to become? Not the things you want to own, Not how much money you want to earn, Not the job title that you'd love to have, But the person you actually want to be. This is really important. I want to connect with the emotions. What do you want to feel? How do you want to behave? What sort of relationships do you want to have? What does an ordinary Tuesday look and feel like? Because here's something I've noticed through my work as a coach. Many people are very good at identifying what they don't want. You know, Many of us don't want to feel stressed. We don't want to be unhappy in our relationship. We don't want to feel that we're stuck in a job that we dislike. And we don't want to feel tired, Frustrated, Or unfulfilled. But when you ask people what they actually do want, The answer isn't always quite so clear. And so this is where the idea of future self-visualisation can be really useful. Now this isn't about predicting the future or magically attracting the life you want, It's about getting clearer about your direction, Your priorities and the person that you want to become. Because when we have a clearer picture of what matters to us, It can help us make more intentional decisions in the present. It gives us something to work towards. So I'd like to take you through a simple exercise. I'm going to call this the future self exercise. So first, Make yourself comfortable. Take a moment to slow down. Take a gentle breath. Again, You don't need to close your eyes or if it feels comfortable to you, You can. Now, Imagine yourself three years from now. Not necessarily living some extraordinary perfect life, But a version of yourself. Who feels more aligned with what's important. So I want you to imagine waking up in the morning, First thing, How do you feel? Are you rested? Are you looking forward to the day? Are you more comfortable with who you are? Think about your physical well-being. How are you looking after yourself and how's that reflected? In your body when you look in the mirror. Are you making the time for exercise? Are you eating in a way that supports your energy? Now think about your key relationships. Who are the people around you? Are you spending time with people who make you feel good, Who energise you? Are you communicating openly? Are you making time for those relationships that really matter? What about your work? Are you doing something that feels meaningful to you? Are you using your strengths? Are you spending your time in a way that reflects your values? And how about your relationship with yourself? Are you more confident? More accepting? Less concerned with what other people think. More willing to say no when something isn't right for you, Putting down those boundaries. So take a moment to imagine that version of yourself. See yourself. What's different? What's changed? Perhaps most importantly, What if you stopped? Perhaps he stopped trying to please everybody. Perhaps you've stopped comparing yourself with other people. Perhaps he'd stopped putting off the things that matter. And prioritise yourself now. Perhaps you're taking better care of yourself or you simply become more comfortable with who you are and that's showing up in how you present to the world. Now I would like to consider something. The future self doesn't appear overnight. The person you become in three years is influenced by decisions that you make today on a daily basis. The habits you develop, The conversations you have, The boundaries you establish, The risks you take. And the things that you decide are no longer worth your time. So we want to look at how we turn that vision of our future self into action. I want you to think about three questions. What is one thing my future self would thank me for starting today? Now that might be looking after your health. Improving your relationship. Learning something new. Perhaps finally perceiving an ambition you've been paying off. Take a moment to consider that. What's one thing my future self would thank me for letting go of? An old resentment, A limiting belief. An unhelpful habit that's holding me back. The need to please everybody. Fear of what other people might think. Because sometimes moving forward isn't just about adding more to our lives, It's also about letting go of the things that no longer serve us. Finally, What is one small action I can take in the next 24 hours to move in that direction? Make it specific. Don't just say, Oh, I'm going to get healthier. Say, I'm going to go for a 30-minute walk tomorrow morning. Don't just say, Oh, I'm going to improve my relationship. Say, I'm going to put my phone away this evening and have a proper conversation. Don't just say, I'm going to be more confident. So I'm going to make that call I've been putting off, Because a vision without action remains just a nice idea. But a vision combined with small, Consistent actions can begin to change the direction of your life. Here's a final thought that I'd like to leave you with. You don't have to have everything figured out. You don't need a perfect plan. And you certainly don't need to know exactly where you'll be in three years. But you do need to give yourself permission to imagine something different, Something better, Something that feels more like you. So perhaps the question isn't whether you're too old. Perhaps it's whether you're prepared to stop. Your future self is being shaped by the decisions you are making today. So make those decisions count. And remember, You still have chapters of your life that haven't been written yet. How exciting is that? Thank you for spending this time with me. I hope you enjoyed the exercise and found it useful. And I'd love to hear you in another session here on Insight Timer.