Work.
The relationship to work has defined who he is.
It has become a part of his identity to receive love in a certain way.
Even if it means self-destructive behaviors arise,
This is the way he understood to receive love and to be worthy of love.
This behavior will continue until it is apparent and clear that this path no longer serves.
When this point is reached,
His conscious mind will demand a realignment,
A readjustment on this perspective of how love is received,
How worthiness is achieved.
This realignment will occur within this lifetime and it may require your assistance.
Yet understand and see with compassion the journey that he is on in understanding himself,
In understanding his love for himself,
In understanding society's and the universe's love for him.
His journey is discovering love in all its ways,
Discovering who he is at his deepest essence.
Some of these journeys will include painful and challenging experiences to come to that realization,
To come to that breaking point of understanding that something must change.
A realignment of the mind,
A realignment of the heart,
And a realignment of one's actions,
Behaviors and habits.
Thank you for your question.