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Living Guilt-Free - Navigating Emotions While Setting Boundaries

With Create the Calm

Living Guilt-Free: Navigating Emotions While Setting Boundaries is a multi-module journey designed to support anyone who feels that familiar tangle of guilt, fear, or anxiety when trying to honor their own limits. Throughout this class, you’ll explore the emotional roots of why setting boundaries feels so hard, learn how guilt and old identities shape your responses, and practice somatic tools that help you stay grounded in the moment. Each module weaves together teaching, guided embodiment, reflection, and real-life application so you can understand your patterns, meet your emotions with compassion, and create a personalized practice you can rely on in everyday situations. All background music is by Liborio Conti.

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Meet your Teacher

Create the Calm
Mesa, AZ, USA

Judy is an educator, coach, and author with deep experience guiding people through emotional growth and embodied self-leadership. With a doctorate in Organizational Leadership and years of work in teaching, coaching, and facilitating personal transformation, she brings a rare blend of academic grounding, somatic awareness, and intuitive clarity. Her work centers on helping people move from survival patterns into grounded authenticity, and her classes on Insight Timer are known for their calm presence, accessible practices, and gentle honesty. Drawing from both research and lived experience, she supports learners in understanding their emotional patterns, building healthy boundaries, and reconnecting with their inner authority in a compassionate, sustainable way.

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5 Days

22 students

5.0 stars

23 min / day

Confidence

English

Lesson 1

Understanding Guilt, Fear, And Martyr-Ego

Module 1 begins by acknowledging just how real and overwhelming the emotions around setting boundaries can feel, and it offers a compassionate entry point into understanding why those reactions arise in the first place. This session helps you identify the guilt, fear, and self-sacrificing patterns that surface when you consider saying no, and it explains the deeper conditioning and nervous system responses that make boundaries feel threatening even when they’re healthy. Through grounding, somatic awareness, and guided reflection, you’ll start to recognize where these emotions live in your body and how to meet them with curiosity rather than judgment. By the end of the module, you’ll have a clearer understanding of your internal patterns and a gentler, more embodied way of approaching boundaries. All background music in this module is by Liborio Conti.

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Lesson 2

Connecting With The Why Behind Your Emotions

This module guides students into the deeper roots of the emotions that arise when they assert boundaries — especially guilt, fear, tension, and quiet resentment. By exploring how these reactions are shaped by nervous-system patterns, past relational experiences, and the human need for belonging, students begin to understand that these emotions are signals rather than shortcomings. Through grounding practices, body-based awareness, and reflective inquiry, the module offers a compassionate pathway to uncovering the “why” beneath emotional discomfort, helping students build self-trust, agency, and a more authentic relationship with both themselves and others. Background music by Liborio Conti.

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Lesson 3

Managing Guilt And Fear In The Moment

When you’ve prepared yourself to hold a boundary — truly prepared — and then guilt or fear sweeps in and knocks the ground out from under you, it can feel confusing and frustrating. This module offers a space to understand those moments in a new way. Instead of blaming yourself or assuming you “should have been stronger,” you’re invited to explore what’s actually happening beneath the surface: the nervous system patterns that rise up when you try to honor your needs. Here, we slow down, listen differently, and practice responding from steadiness rather than reflex. This is a gentle, grounded exploration of how to stay present with yourself even when guilt or fear try to take the lead, so that you can move through those moments with clarity, compassion, and a renewed sense of inner authority. Background music is by Liborio Conti.

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Lesson 4

Integrating Self-Knowledge Into Real-Life Boundaries

In this module, we move from understanding boundaries in theory to living them in practice. You’ll explore the patterns of guilt, fear, and old emotional habits that show up when you try to say no or honor your own needs. Through guided awareness, scenario practice, and the 1-2-3 boundary framework, you’ll learn to notice your reactions, name what they reveal, and respond in a way that respects both yourself and your relationships. This is about building a personal, portable practice that helps you carry your boundaries into everyday life with clarity, calm, and self-compassion. Background music by Liborio Conti.

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Lesson 5

Sustaining Guilt-Free Boundaries

In this module, we focus on sustaining guilt-free boundaries in everyday life. You’ve already explored the 1-2-3 method and practiced noticing, naming, and responding to old patterns. Now, the emphasis is on continuing that practice with self-compassion, even when setbacks arise. You’ll learn how to revisit boundaries you may have initially said “yes” to, correct course without guilt, and deepen your trust in your own inner guidance. This is about making boundaries a lived, ongoing practice — steady, flexible, and fully aligned with your truth. Background music by Liborio Conti.

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Recent Reviews

Robin

February 2, 2026

This was really helpful. I especially like the acronym n.e.a.r. It’s really working for me. I’ve put this up in my home office and in my work office to remind I do have choice. Thank you

Nada

January 9, 2026

Thank you Create nice course I did enjoy it 👏👏👏🎄🕊️🌈

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