Using NLP Presuppositions To Heal Relationships

Do you have an important, but strained relationship with someone close to you, a romantic partner, a famiy member, or maybe a work colleague?
Are you struggling to find ways to create harmony in that relationship, forging a future that is sustainable and compassionate?
Its a very human condition, and there is an answer!
This course taps into the wisdom of NLP Presupposistions. These are useful beliefs, or assumptions, that allow for different thinking, distancing you from your emotional response and allowing space for healing, love and compassion.

The Presuppositions we will explore in this course are:
1. Respect all models of the world - we are unique and have our own version of reality.
2. People are not thier behaviours - behaviours are how we express our reality.
3. Every behaviour has a positive intention - even the most destructive!
4. We are all doing the best we can with the resources we have - no one is intentionally bad.

By adopting these convenient assumptions about people, and reframing the behaviours that you witness, you will find that it is possible to diffuse the negative emotions that used to arise and instead become curious about what is really going on for that person.

During the course you will be invited to consider a particular relationship that you wish to heal. As you apply the thinking that is promoted by each Presupposition, you will notice how it changes your thinking from asking 'Why?' to the more useful thought of 'How?'

When you change to 'How?' your thinking becomes curious and compassionate, allowing space for new ways of interacting and managing your own emotional responses.

Reviews

Thank you, this course was very helpful in looking at my relationships in a different way

Loved this. Using it as the first of professional development for 2026! Thank you so much for this.

So good I will repeat it since it’s simple wise practical application for life. Such a soothing voice and radiates calm and understanding of the other perspective soft yet strong

This course has helped me think of the people with whom having connection is difficult a different way, with more understanding and compassion

This course was very helpful. Jacci gave me new ways to look at my relationship with my husband. I’m glad I took her course.

Thank you so much for this course!
I've heard the term NLP, but didn't really know what it was. I found this at the perfect time, well actually I wish I'd known about it 40 years ago! I could have made far fewer mistakes!
I read A Course In Miracles a long time ago and have tried to always have the framework that people are doing the best they can with the skills knowledge they have. Your course really brought this home! So thanks again

This course was very thoughtful, loving & compassionate. Thank you.

Thank you Jacci! Most informative and much food for thought….

Jacci has a wonderful way of presenting the course material so that it is both practical and easy to understand. Her voice is so pleasant to listen to! I know that I will be able to apply what I’ve learned about these NLP pre-suppositions into my own healing journey. These are wonderful skills for building a compassionate mindset and learning to understand and accept ourselves and others as we are. This is my first experience with NLP, and I believe this course would be great for beginners and also as a wonderful refresher to those who may have some prior experience with NLP. Thank you Jacci 🙏🫶💕✨🌟💫🙂

An excellent course although short. I have long been interested in what NLP is and the course was a good primer. Thank you for putting it together.