The Illusion Of Time - by Rianna Hijlkema

COURSE

The Illusion Of Time

With Rianna Hijlkema

It took me a face-to-face with death to understand that time is precious. It was a powerful reminder that I would not live forever and had to stop postponing my best life for later. Fortunately, you don’t have to wait for a traumatic experience. This course is your reminder. Caution: This course discusses death and a near-death experience, which may be sensitive for some listeners.


Meet your Teacher

Rianna is a multi-passionate serial entrepreneur living a nomadic life for the past 13 years. As a wilderness guide and nature-based coach she supports involuntarily childless women who’ve lost their sense of purpose to redesign their plan A, so that they can be their own inner guides to fulfillment and happiness. Your donations will contribute to female empowerment projects run by CWEC in Lamjung, Nepal.

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11 Days

831 students

4.8 stars

18 min / day

Motivation

English


Lesson 1

We All Die Eventually

I was in a dark place. I couldn’t find joy anywhere. After witnessing so much suffering, I didn’t dare to smile, have fun, or enjoy life. I felt guilty. I thought it was not fair for all of those people going through a reality much worse than mine. Is life fair? I don’t know. Life is life. It is the way it is. Caution: This lesson discusses death and a near-death experience, which may be sensitive for some listeners.

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Lesson 2

Don't Die With A To-Do List

I guess that just like me, there are plenty of things you want to do, learn, or experience in your life. Everyday you have a little bit less time, so don’t postpone. Every time the status quo is settling in, remember that you can choose to assume full responsibility and live without making excuses. It is a decision you can make. It is a decision you should make. Better to make it sooner than later because later is too late.

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Lesson 3

Suffering Is Optional

We all experience pain in our life. We can’t escape it. And if you think you’ll never get caught in a tsunami, so did I! Bad things doesn’t only happen to others. Thus if it is inevitable, how can we make sure to deal with it as quickly and as smoothly as possible? Most people roll their eyes when I say that suffering is a choice. And maybe you’ve just done it too... Wait! Let me explain.

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Lesson 4

You Have More Choices Than You Think

When we feel stuck or a bit low, we often think that we don’t have a choice, that we are trapped. We want to be happy but because of this or that, we can’t really. We tend to look for things we don’t have to feel good. And it isn’t really our fault. The consumption mentality, pushed by clever marketing, makes us think that happiness comes from something external.

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Lesson 5

Don't Be Average

I hope that by now, you can answer this fundamental yet straightforward question: What do I really want out of life? There is no better time to think deeply about it. You are not too young, and it’s never too late. The key is that you do it now. You know that your life is ticking away. Every minute you are closer to death. I know it sounds a bit dramatic, but my point is that you understand that you better make every moment count. I’m sure you know that already, but are you doing it?

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Lesson 6

The Mind Game

So let me ask you again, what do you want? Are you truly satisfied with your default future? Are you more committed to your reality or to your dreams? What if right now, while contemplating new possibilities, you’ve just opened the door to a whole new world. What if you could make it happen? A good “what if” question makes you think, and that’s how the mind game starts.

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Lesson 7

Dream Bigger

Have you ever asked yourself this question: What’s the whole point of life? I guess we all do at some point. I’m not sure there is one answer. But to keep it simple, I think it is okay to say that it is about creating a happy and satisfying experience. However, this amazing not average life is not just going to happen to you. You can trust the universe but you have to meet it halfway.

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Lesson 8

Hardship Is Temporary

You probably have already set goals or decided to pursue a dream in the past. And you also probably felt like giving up when things got more challenging. Don’t worry, you are not alone. Creating the life you desire requires courage. It requires long- term thinking, delaying gratification, and learning not to quit when it is hard.

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Lesson 9

Be Great or Make Excuses

When was the last time you said, “I should ...” and never did anything about it? Was that today, yesterday, or last week? We all know how it feels when we have to do something, but don’t do it. It feels bad. What is your excuse? Even if you come up with “good” reasons, deep inside, you know you are not showing up as your best, which hurts your self-esteem. The truth is that the excuses you are making shape your reality.

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Lesson 10

Money Fantasy

I could not complete this course without talking about money. It kind of rules the world, and most people are chasing it. Yet there is this fantasy behind money that often misleads us. I know you want to be successful. We all want it! I asked you this question before, and I am curious to hear what being successful means to you.

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Lesson 11

Live A Created Life

Life is too short not to make the most out of it. What are we here for if it’s not to create joy and share it with others? You don’t know how the future will unfold, so it is your mission to live every day to the fullest and die without regrets, whether that's tomorrow or at a hundred years old. It is a choice that you can make and a choice that you should make. Because if you don’t choose, somebody else will do it for you.

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4.8 (17)

Recent Reviews

Yana

January 28, 2026

Very unusual approach but it was very inspiring and uplifting. Just try and don’t stop on the first lesson, it changes x

Mary

November 4, 2025

Life changing! Thank you so much! And your reading, your voice, all bring life to your husband's work. You make a great team. 🙏🏻

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