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Some grief has no funeral. No ritual. No name. It’s the grief of what never happened, what never came, or who you never got to become. In this intimate four-part course, François explores unseen loss, identity, resilience, and what it means to keep walking when life doesn’t go the way you hoped. Not to fix the grief. But to learn how to carry it.
What to do when you're mourning something that never happened.
Some grief has no funeral. No ritual. No name. It’s the grief of what never happened, what never came, or who you never got to become. In this intimate four-part course, François explores unseen loss, identity, resilience, and what it means to keep walking when life doesn’t go the way you hoped. Not to fix the grief. But to learn how to carry it.
François is an author, expedition leader, filmmaker, and adventurer who has spent years exploring resilience, adversity, and the human capacity to endure difficult experiences. A former military officer and survivor of the 2018 Indonesian tsunami, his work is shaped by both personal hardship and a lifelong pursuit of growth through challenge. This course draws from François’s own experience with a form of grief that often goes unrecognized—the loss of a future he deeply hoped for but never came to pass: becoming a father. Through personal reflection, storytelling, and hard-earned insight, he offers a compassionate space for those carrying losses that have no clear name, ritual, or place to be mourned.