
Desire, Imagination & Expectation
by Alissa Cohen
An exploration of how desire, imagination, and expectation move together inside the human experience to shape what becomes real. How inner coherence organizes outer reality. A dive into the mechanics of becoming and the energetic relationship between you and the future that’s already forming.
Transcript
Hello everyone.
Today we're diving into the three energetic forces that shape your reality.
Desire,
Imagination,
And expectation.
And how to use them in a grounded,
Powerful way.
So I want to explore something that lives underneath every major change you've ever made or will make.
Desire,
Imagination,
And expectation.
These three are not just ideas that we talk about in a spiritual circle.
They are energetic movements inside of you.
They shape the path you walk long before anything shows up in the physical life.
When you really understand how they operate,
Your relationship to your future starts to feel very different.
You feel less like you're chasing life and more like you're in a conversation with it.
So let's start with desire because that's where everything begins.
Desire is one of the clearest signals that your consciousness is expanding.
It arises when a new chapter is trying to come into focus.
You feel it as a pull,
An inner surge,
A strong curiosity,
Or that unmistakable sense of I want this that doesn't go away,
Even when you distract yourself.
Desire is your system recognizing a future that fits you.
It's your deeper intelligence picking up on something your rational mind hasn't fully understood yet.
You may not know how it could happen or what it would demand of you,
But you can feel the aliveness of it.
We're often trained to treat desire cautiously,
To want a little less just in case things don't work out,
To keep expectations low so that we don't get hurt.
But wanting less has never actually spared anyone from disappointment.
If something matters and it doesn't unfold the way you hoped,
You'll feel it whether you allowed yourself to fully want it or not.
All that staying small does is cut you off from the very energy that moves your life forward.
Desire is a form of guidance.
It's a message that you are outgrowing a previous version of yourself and you're ready for a larger expression of who you are.
When you let yourself really feel that,
When you stop negotiating your desire down to something safer,
Something shifts.
Your perception sharpens.
You start seeing where you've been settling.
You start feeling the difference between what keeps you looping and what feels like growth.
You begin to sense that there is a trajectory forming,
Even if it doesn't have a clear shape yet.
Desire is your first contact with that trajectory.
It's the yes that starts everything.
Once desire is acknowledged,
Imagination becomes the place where you meet your future more directly.
Imagination is where you experience a possibility from the inside.
When you give yourself space to imagine a life that matches your desire,
You are entering the energetic field of that future.
You feel its quality.
You sense its rhythm.
You tune into the version of you who already lives there.
You're not daydreaming to escape your life.
You're exploring what your life is capable of becoming.
This is where imagination becomes very powerful.
When you imagine with real presence,
You gain information that you cannot get from logic alone.
Some futures feel instantly aligned.
They energize your body.
They open your mind.
They calm your nervous system in a deep way because they feel true.
Others might look good from the outside,
But collapse the moment you feel into them.
They feel flat,
Heavy,
Or off.
That contrast is a gift.
Imagination helps you distinguish between something you think you should want and something that is actually meant for you.
As you keep returning to this inner exploration,
The future you're sensing stops feeling abstract.
It starts to feel familiar.
You begin to recognize details,
The types of people around you,
The environment,
The kinds of experiences you're having,
The way you show up in that version of your life.
The more familiar the future becomes,
The more real it feels in your system.
Possibility turns into something you can feel in your body,
Not just think about in your head.
That's when the next movement comes online.
Expectation.
Expectation is where alignment locks in.
It forms when desire and imagination have been in dialogue long enough that your inner world recognizes a clear direction.
Expectation is the inner state of,
I know where I'm headed.
It doesn't mean you know the timing or the details.
It just means the path feels real to you.
It has weight.
It has presence.
We've all heard the warnings about expectation.
Don't get your hopes up.
Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
Stay realistic.
But scattering your energy across a dozen half-hearted possibilities doesn't keep you safe.
It keeps you incoherent.
Coherence comes from letting yourself fully commit energetically to the path that feels true.
Putting your,
Quote,
Eggs in one basket,
In this sense,
Is about focus,
Not desperation.
It's about allowing your energy,
Attention,
And choices to organize around one aligned direction instead of three competing ones.
When expectation is active in a healthy way,
You notice that you start moving differently without forcing yourself.
You respond differently to invitations.
You hear yourself saying yes in places where you would have hesitated before and no in places you used to override yourself.
You pick up on synchronicities,
The right conversation,
The right opportunity,
The right piece of information arriving at just the right time.
Your intuition becomes clearer because your inner signals are no longer competing with each other.
Desire,
Imagination,
And expectation are now speaking the same language.
Expectation reorganizes your life from the inside out.
It influences what you are available for.
It impacts what you stop making room for.
It changes the energy you bring into the rooms and that changes what becomes possible in those rooms.
This is the deeper metaphysics of creation when your inner world is coherent and your outer world begins to rearrange around that coherence.
You're not forcing reality to bend.
You're becoming a match for the reality that has been waiting for you.
So how do you work with these energies in a way that is grounded but still magical?
You start noticing where desire is already operating in your life.
Where do you feel that pull?
Where do you feel more alive,
More awake,
More curious?
What do you keep coming back to in your thoughts or in your heart even when you try to ignore it?
Instead of shutting that down,
You treat it as meaningful.
You let it matter.
Then you consciously engage your imagination.
You give yourself time,
Actual time,
To feel into the life that desire is pointing towards.
You don't rush it.
You let yourself see it,
Sense it,
And experience it internally.
You ask,
Who am I in that reality?
How do I feel in my body?
How do I treat myself?
How do I connect to the world around me?
You let the answers arrive as feelings and impressions,
Not just ideas.
Imagination approached this way becomes a conversation with your future self.
Expectation emerges from that conversation.
At a certain point,
After enough honest contact with your desire and your imagined futures,
Something inside you just knows.
You feel the direction as truth,
And from there,
Your job is to keep that relationship alive.
You live as someone who is in motion towards that future,
Even before it shows up.
You choose in a way that respects it.
You surround yourself with people and environments that support it.
You stop giving so much of your energy to what keeps you small,
Not because you should,
But because it no longer aligns with where you're going.
You're not forcing yourself into a new identity.
You're allowing the identity that's already forming to lead.
You're not begging the universe to give you something.
You're collaborating with that part of you that already knows how to get there.
You're not obsessing over outcomes.
You're becoming the person for whom those outcomes are natural.
Desire is the invitation.
Imagination is the exploration,
And expectation is the alignment that gives your future a place to land.
This is the architecture of your becoming.
This is how reality rearranges around someone who is aligned with themselves.
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