Stopping the rumination.
Rumination is a powerful form of deluded thinking.
You think about the past obsessively,
Despite the fact that you cannot change what happened.
You stew in your resentments,
Replay conversations,
Beat yourself up,
And relive an event over and over.
It happens to all of us and it can be quite painful.
Mindfulness practice helps you see those patterns clearly,
Respond to them with patient understanding,
And begin to detach yourself from their power.
Ruminating often shows up as background noise,
A constant stream of obsessive negativity shadowing you throughout the day.
This practice will help you call that inner voice into the light,
Dissect it,
And hopefully diffuse some of its hold over you.
Close your eyes and allow the body to relax.
Use the breath to help encourage ease in the body.
With each exhale,
Soften the muscles of the body a bit more.
You may bring special attention to the abdomen,
Shoulders,
And jaw.
Look at the thoughts going through the mind.
If you have been ruminating about something specific,
Acknowledge the event or situation about which you are thinking.
Turn this over in the mind,
Examining it from a place of curiosity and interest.
Begin cultivating equanimity,
The state of balance and non-attachment,
In the midst of charged emotions.
Ask yourself if you are able to change this situation in the past.
Offer some phrases of equanimity and compassion.
I cannot change the past.
May I be at ease with the mind.
May I care about this difficulty.
Turn your attention toward the present.
Although you cannot control the past,
You do have power over your actions right now.
Replace the rumination with the recognition that you can choose to act in ways that encourage happiness.
Offer these phrases silently in your head.
May I act with wisdom.
May I respond with compassion.
May I move forward.
Continue repeating these phrases silently in your mind.
When the rumination reoccurs,
Return to the phrases and your intention to move forward.
May I act with wisdom.
May I respond with compassion.
May I move forward.
You you you you you you As you go throughout your day,
Carry these phrases with you.
Whenever the mind falls into the pattern of thinking about the past,
Offer a phrase of equanimity or wise action.
Gently open your eyes.
Flutter the eyelids to return to the light and notice the space around you.
Take a deep breath.
Inhale.
Exhale.
And be ready to embrace your day.
