Boundary Myths

Welcome to Day 2 of the 10-Day Boundary Challenge. Do you ever worry about how you will be perceived if you speak up, express a limit, disagree, or simply say, no? Do you fear being misunderstood or labeled a drama queen, moody, or selfish? In today’s session, we’ll cover the top boundary myths that might be keeping you stuck in an old familiar boundary pattern.

Reviews

This was such a eye opener for me. Especially the ”true/healthy love has no boundaries” and ”push people away” or ” people will like me less or get angry/sad”. Healing from codependency atm, this is superhard especially in close relationships for me. It has never been more clearer that love is full of boundaires for example. But so hard!!

I found myself thinking about how people, particularly at work, may respond in anger to me asserting my boundaries. They've seen so few of them over the years. I can respond in an unhealthy manner to other's anger; becoming often times a lamb, and at other times, a lion. So I guess that's a version of fear that people won't like me?
That is something I know that I need to work on. Other people's reactions don't belong to me.

i love and appreciate these talks on boundaries. today what came up for me was 1. when i speak up i’m often told i’m too sensitive. my fear around boundaries is pushing people away (because it’s happened) and rejection. looking back all the people my boundaries seemed to have pushed away we’re unhealthy for me (rejection is God’s protection). if i keep your perspective of a boundary is asking for my preferences…that is a good way to approach boundaries for me. thanks 🦋🌈🦋🌈🦋🌈🦋🌈🦋🌈🦋🌈🦋🌈

Second time taking this course. I took it this time of the year last year as well. Still appreciate the lessons so much.

So good! You explained everything so well thank you 😊 👏❤️