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MIDL 'Softening Into' Breathing

by Stephen Procter

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Meditation
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In this MIDL Mindfulness Training you develop your skill in softening your relationship towards all experiences. This skill of being able to soften is then brought into mindfulness of breathing and your daily life as a way of bringing about 'mindful non-participation'. This creates the basis for deconditioning of habitual defensive patterns within your mind. Insight Timer Group: MIDL Mindfulness Meditation

MidlSofteningBreathingAwarenessRelaxationGroundingMindfulnessDeconditioningHabitual PatternsSlow BreathingBelly BreathingBody AwarenessChest BreathingHand PositionsPosturesSoftening BreathTechniques

Transcript

During this mindfulness training we'll develop the skill of softening with our breathing.

Start out by taking a seated meditation posture.

Now close your eyes over lightly.

And start to be aware of what it feels like just to be here.

Becoming aware of any sounds around you.

Allowing the change within the sound to hold your attention.

Now slowly bring your awareness into your body.

Into the experience of just sitting here.

Becoming aware of any warmth or coolness within your body.

Holding them gently in mind.

And start to be aware of the touch of your hands.

And the pressure of your body as it rests on the chair on the floor.

Grounded.

And gently bringing your awareness back into your body.

Now placing your palms below your belly button.

Fingers touching each other.

And just press in very slightly.

And we're going to use our palms to feel the breathing in our belly.

Now to breathe in,

Slowly push your lower abdominal muscles away from your body to lift your palms.

And slowly lower them down again for the breath to go out.

Slowly pushing them out draws the breath in.

And slowly lowering them down again to allow the breath out.

Slow gentle breaths.

Breath comes in,

Palms lifting away from your body.

Breath goes out,

Palms lower again.

Breath comes in,

Palms lifting up.

Breath goes out,

Palms lowering back again.

Breath goes out,

Palms lower again.

Breath goes out,

Palms lower again.

Now leave one palm below your belly button and place the other on top of your chest.

Now we're going to take a full softening breath.

Starting the breath in your belly,

Bring the breath up pushing your ribs out to the top of your chest.

And slowly allowing the breath out to relax.

Starting the breath in your belly,

Moving up through your ribs,

Top of your chest lifting you up.

And slowly allowing the breath out,

Your shoulders drop,

Your chest,

Your upper back relax.

Slowly in,

Belly,

Ribs,

Chest.

Slowly out,

Your shoulders drop,

Your chest,

Your upper back relax.

Slowly in,

Belly,

Ribs,

Chest.

Slowly out,

Relax with that out breath,

Keep taking slow deep breaths in this way.

Slowing the breath down.

Belly,

Ribs,

Chest.

Relax.

Relax.

Relax.

Relax.

Now you can remove your palm from your belly and your chest and rest comfortably in your lap.

Now we'll take some softening breaths without our hands.

Picture the breath starting in your belly,

Moving it up through your ribs to the top of your chest.

And as the breath goes slowly out,

Allow your shoulders to drop,

Your chest,

Your upper back.

Slowly in,

Belly,

Ribs,

Chest.

And slowly out,

Allow yourself to soften,

Relax with that out breath.

Breath comes in,

Filling you up.

Breath goes out,

Shoulders drop,

Abandon all effort,

Relax all effort.

Breath starts in the belly,

Filling you up.

Breath goes out,

Relaxing more deeply.

Breath comes in.

Slowly out,

Your whole body relaxes.

Feet,

Child breath giving up all effort.

Allowing the chair or the floor to take the full weight of your body,

Giving up all effort in your body.

Breath starts in the belly,

Filling you up.

Breath goes out,

Soften,

Relax.

Breath starts in the belly,

Filling you up.

Breath starts in the belly,

Filling you up.

Breath starts in the belly,

Filling you up.

Now slowly bringing your awareness back into your body.

The warmth,

The coolness,

The touch,

Grounding your awareness within your body.

Starting to be aware of any sounds around you,

Just allowing those sounds to come into you.

And when you're ready,

You can gently open your eyes.

Thank you for spending this time meditating with me.

Take care of yourself and have a wonderful day.

Goodbye.

Meet your Teacher

Stephen ProcterMylestom NSW 2454, Australia

4.8 (1 716)

Recent Reviews

Lee

August 8, 2025

Stephenโ€™s meditations help me to feel very grounded. This 52 part MIDL series is my first attempt to work with a longer daily session length and today Stephenโ€™s guidance kept me in the moment, softening my breathing, when my mind had other ideas.

Tatyana

June 20, 2024

Thank you for this meditation. Much love and gratitude to you .โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™

Dee

May 2, 2023

Iโ€™m a newbie at breath work and this was so helpful and grounding. Need to keep practicing.

Fuzzy

May 21, 2022

๐Ÿ™ Gratitude for this program. It is a beautiful balance of guidance and silence.

Emma

January 17, 2022

Lovely practice. Nice calm soothing voice and plenty of space between instruction. But enough instructions to ensure I donโ€™t wander off. Thank you ๐Ÿ™

Marilyn

October 6, 2021

This is the second time I have listened to this one, and I was able to feel the relaxation in my shoulders more with the outbreath. It felt more rounded and circular almost

Mo

October 5, 2021

Back to this series after some time, I feel like at home again Thanks so much

Adรจle

February 8, 2021

Just love your entire series and I find your voice very calming. Especially important in these turbulent times, thank you.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

Carla

February 2, 2021

Each of the lessons so far has been immensely helpful in unblocking my practice, but this one particularly so. A friend recommended these lessons because i was experiencing shortness of breath while meditating, and now this has resolved. Also i notice that my posture has naturally changed, and, interestingly, Iโ€™m back to a relaxed focus which i hadnโ€™t experienced in a while. Really good, I wish Iโ€™d found this series sooner. Thank you.

Jean-Pascal

January 23, 2021

Very powerful relaxation exercise. My mind was very focused with no thoughts at all. Thank you very much ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ

David

January 6, 2021

Definitely felt unfounded anxiety filling my sails for the day..... somehow feel balanced now. Thanks.

Bronya

December 3, 2020

๐Ÿ™thank you fir this wonderful deep breathing meditation!

David

October 1, 2020

Great for a quick meditation

Nivedita

May 12, 2020

Thank you Stephen ๐Ÿ™

Vivian

February 2, 2020

His MIDL meditations are wonderful for deepening your practice, especially for a mindfulness meditation. I meditate daily and have for decades. I use his meditations for refreshers when I need them. I also recommend them for new meditators.

karen

January 28, 2020

Nice how this consolidates the first three teachings and allows a week for integration before moving on to the next thing. Beautifully spoken with lots of space and silence as usual.

Anna

January 28, 2020

Calming and grounding softening practise, thank you Stephen.

Elaine

December 26, 2019

This a a wonderful practice to learn and use every day. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Sisyphus

December 7, 2019

Thank you, Stephen.

Dervisha

November 10, 2019

Thank you so much Stephen.

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