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What Matters Most - Deepening Perspective When Feeling Overwhelmed

by Sez Kristiansen

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When we become overwhelmed by anxiety or stress, we do not see the bigger picture. Use this 8-minute guided practice to centre, ground, and align you with what matters most by imagining you are in the final year of your life. Its intention is to uplift, connect, and support you toward living a fully lived life. Its effectiveness lies in our ability to really connect with the given scenario, so keep an open mind and a loving heart close.

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Transcript

The effectiveness of this practice is determined by how much we choose to believe in the given situation.

So,

Let us,

For just a few minutes,

Really try and feel the following statements in our whole body,

Choosing to believe that this were real.

This way,

We will be able to really connect to what is most important to us,

And it will offer us profound perspective when faced with stress,

Anxiety,

And hopelessness in daily life.

Let us begin by getting comfortable,

Taking a moment to come back to ourselves,

Feeling that sense of refuge in your return.

Allow yourself to be welcomed back into the body by the breath,

Connecting with it like a dear friend,

Following it inward,

Filling yourself up with awakened presence,

Exhaling and letting go of all distractions.

Listen to the following questions,

Taking your time to focus for a few moments on the situation and to really think about how you would most authentically answer.

You have been given a year left to live,

365 days of life.

You will hold the same capabilities as you have now physically for the entire year.

How will you spend this year?

What part of you will you give to those around you?

And what part will you let go?

You now have one month left to live.

You have been gifted 31 full days.

How will you spend this last month?

How will you show up every day?

What will you let go of in yourself?

What part of you will you give to others?

You now have one day left to live,

24 final hours.

How will you spend this day and with whom?

What quality of yourself will you offer others in this one day?

What would no longer matter to you?

What would matter most?

It is now your final minute of life.

60 short seconds.

Who is with you?

What should they know?

What do you need to thank them for?

What part of you do you offer them in remembrance?

Take a long breath in and hold it in your body for a few seconds and then release it out into the room again.

What theme ran through all four of these timeframes?

Was it the people you spent the time with?

Was it the quality of presence you would offer?

What really stayed with you this whole time?

This practice is simply to remind ourselves that life was never given to us with a guarantee toward our survival,

But gifted to us with a mystery that remains unknown to all but those who have been themselves in those final moments.

We do not need to wait until the end of days to live in reverence to what matters most.

This is our daily practice and our life's most important work.

To remember and to connect with the greater picture and to offer the quality of our presence to even the smallest of moments.

To remember what matters most is to be made sacred.

That quality of you that you would offer to others is to be honored deeply.

And those who matter most are to be your cherished reminders of why this world was created from and for love.

What matters to you most?

Nothing else is worth losing yourself over.

Thank you deeply for being open to this practice and I hope it served in some restoration or simply as a reflection to your day.

May we continue onward in servitude to what matters most and may we journey together again.

Meet your Teacher

Sez KristiansenFårevejle Kirkeby, Denmark

4.8 (4 178)

Recent Reviews

SD

November 19, 2025

“We don’t need to wait for our end of days to live in reverance to what matters most.” Those words, and the questions shared in this track, are helping me navigate with grace the hurdles life has recently put in front of me.

K

September 30, 2025

Traveled through the most penetrative strands at the core of who I truly am.

Karen

September 11, 2025

Amazing, so much depth I found in such brief pause, thank you 🙏🏻

Shana

July 25, 2025

Brought tears to my eyes... Reminded me to cherish ALL OF THE MOMENTS! Thank you ❤️ I have so much gratitude 🙏🏽

Mudita

July 4, 2025

Thank you for helping me gain a meaningful and calming perspective. Thank you for sharing your gifts with me. Love to you…

Jim

June 29, 2025

A heart filled with gratitude and compassion, a mind empty of wanting, a body made strong by the breath, a soul filled with joy. Dear Sez, as each day passes time gives and takes so much from and to us all. Your words strung together small and strong give us the opportunity to listen to what matters most. My deepest thanks for what you wish the world to see; I’m here with you on this long walk home. 🔥🙏

Nina

June 26, 2025

Wow. So precise and powerful and gentle. Thank you 🙏🏼

Lotus

April 13, 2025

Wow! Raw, brought up so much love fringed with fear! Very powerful! Namaste 🙏

Viviane

March 13, 2025

Such an important tool to help remember what is truly important. I will return often. Thank you.

Brenda

March 11, 2025

I deeply resonate with this self-love practice. Thank you ❤️ 🙏

Sophia

February 26, 2025

Amazing…. A closeness to my life, a beautiful reminder of awe for life of the ones I love of the time I love how brave to be the last 60 seconds I expected would be for others but it wasn’t it was for me totally peaceful nurturing ✨✨💞thank you so much for your gift of written word amazing 🤩

Julie

December 23, 2024

Thank you for this meditation. I had prayed before listening asking my higher power for help as I am struggling with all the holiday plans, stress over last minute things that need to be done. Hard to hear but it was exactly what I needed today…

Melo

November 4, 2024

This is a beautiful meditation. It helped me to remember what really matters most. Life is precious. Thank you for this meditation! I will use this regularly

Marisa

October 17, 2024

This was so unexpectedly sad but so needed. It pulled me out of a funk where I was feeling only as good as I could produce, or obtain, or do.

Graham

October 9, 2024

One of my favorite meditations I’ve ever done - we could die tomorrow, focus on the present moment and what’s most important. Nothing is worth losing yourself over. Thank you for this beautiful start to my morning.

David

October 4, 2024

Sez seems to always invite the listener, (in this case…me), on an inward journey in which a sense of the mystery of being alive and present is inescapable. She incorporates the words and voice of a poet with the delivery of a surgeon who is deftly and knowingly guiding another, perhaps less familiar with a given procedure, to continuing onward, to the heart of the matter. Thank you Sez!

Perla

July 28, 2024

So reflective. What matters most. Share that which matters most with you, with those you love or care for. Trying to weave into my every day I have left as me. Namaste 🙏 Another fabulously yet swiftly, gentle reflection with Sez.

Lucia

July 19, 2024

Simply beautiful and emotional. Tears came to my eyes...I really needed to be reminded of what the matters most to me. Thank You 🙏

Penny

July 4, 2024

Wow, powerful and a strong reminder of what is truly important. I needed this today more than ever. Thank you for sharing your wisdom through your life learnings, you help me daily with your books 🙏🏻🪷🌈

Cassandra

June 27, 2024

Great reminder, love this meditation! Thank you! 🙏🏼

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