
Gratitude: The Power Of 20 Seconds
by Reuben Lowe
We're going to explore a little neuroscience into the power of gratitude. Then we will put it into practice. We finish off with a final reflection. This was a recorded event for the Daily Insight here on Insight Timer. This is the brief version. There is an extended one here on Reuben's profile.
Transcript
The power of 20 seconds.
Welcome to The Daily Insight.
My name is Reuben.
I'm one of the teachers here at Insight Timer.
We're going to explore a little neuroscience on the practice of gratitude and why 20 seconds is so relevant for the intention we bring to some of the things we are grateful for.
And before we get into that,
If you're comfortable with this,
Allow yourself to form a gentle half smile.
Just like the Mona Lisa.
Just a soft one.
Keep this gentle half smile for a few moments.
Notice how the physiology of doing this often changes the neurobiology,
Subtly changing the way we feel.
See if you can keep this gentle half smile whilst absorbing the following words before our practice in a few moments.
Gratitude involves noticing the goodness in other people and the outside world.
We know the brain changes with experience,
So the more that gratitude is practiced,
The more the brain grows and learns to tune into the good things in the world.
It's now very well established and replicated many times over that the practice of gratitude is associated with better mood,
Better sleep,
Less fatigue,
As well as some physical health benefits.
Esther Hicks,
Who coined the term the law of attraction,
Suggests that we need to gently hold on to such thoughts for a minimum of 17 seconds to bring abundance into our lives.
And neuroscientist Rick Hanson states that focusing upon something to be grateful for,
For 20 seconds,
Is long enough to thicken the neural template for gratitude within our brains.
This provides the space for the experience of gratitude to expand,
Meaning that it gets easier the more we do it.
Some of the studies around gratitude suggest reflecting upon three things that you are grateful for,
Or journaling these three things,
Holding these in your mind.
How's that gentle half smile going right now?
So let's have a practice right now.
Take a moment to reflect upon these senses that you experience with,
The five senses of sight,
Sound,
Touch,
Taste and smell.
What meaningful encounter have you appreciated recently that has touched your heart?
And as you bring this to mind,
Reflect upon three of these five senses.
Now moving on,
Because there is so much more than the five senses,
There's the capacity we have to be aware of our minds,
To watch our thoughts.
Neuroscientist Dan Segal has coined this mind sight.
Others call this the observing self,
The noticing self.
This is where we watch all our experiences,
Not just of the five senses,
But thoughts,
Feelings,
Intuitions.
And with regards to intuition,
This is another sense that we often overlook.
Take a moment to reflect upon a time when your intuition helped you.
Let's hold this for 20 seconds.
Now take a moment to think about other living beings in your life that you were truly grateful for.
Let's hold this for 20 seconds.
As we draw to the end of this practice,
Gently reflect upon what aspect of this has touched your heart.
Now imagine these two words appearing in front of you.
Thank you.
The power of 20 seconds.
Thank you for taking part in this practice and for being part of the change.
As I said at the start,
Some of the studies around gratitude suggest reflecting upon just three things you were grateful for,
Holding these in your mind.
And you can do this through journaling if you like.
Please post in the comments section and you can start this post with,
Three things that I am grateful for are.
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.
And if you're comfortable with sharing,
Simply complete the sentence.
Three things that I am grateful for are.
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.
Post this post and make a wall of things to be grateful for,
To inspire us and remind us of what is already good in our lives.
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3 things I am grateful for: Harvey, Hugh and my beautiful little sister Juanita who was my "twin" - we did everthing together. She passed away 7 years ago but I am grateful I had her as my little sister ๐
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August 19, 2025
Thought provokingโฆ I will try to remember to hold the gratitude for 20 seconds. Thank you ๐
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July 2, 2025
Being grateful is for me a real change in life, thank you so much!
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This was really good , it allows you to sit , I am grateful for my body to be working in perfect harmony to do this . ๐
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October 2, 2024
Thankfulness. Feeling gratitude makes me a better person and it is a constant reminder to me of the good things in life. Writing three things that I am grateful for each morning and recalling three things that have gone well each night before I sleep has changed me, my way of thinking, my life. 1. For feeling well 2. For the people close to me 3. For sunshine Gratitude to you Reuben ๐
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August 15, 2024
A fascinating and beautiful guided practice. 3 things I am grateful for are my family, my doggo and the beautiful place I live. Thank you so much. This is one to share โค๏ธ
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This was so lovely to listen to ! I am so grateful to have seen it just now! Thank you so much Rueben! ๐โค๏ธ
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February 25, 2024
So enjoyable! Will follow and practice! Grateful for you and the lesson and this beautiful day! ๐
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