Energetics Of Conception
Join Kristine McGlinchey-Yap for a workshop about the energetics of conception. Learn more about the spiritual perspective on this amazing process of creating a new human life. Listen to some stories from the Spirit Babies and learn what's needed to connect with them. Enjoy!
Transcript
Hi everyone.
So today we're going to be talking about the energetics of conception.
So this is something that has been in the five years that I've been doing spirit baby readings,
Healings,
You know,
Womb healings,
Activations for women,
But also men around the world.
This year,
I feel like it really landed that conception really does have its own energy.
Conception has its own vibration,
Its own energetic alignment.
And once we can start working with our energy in a new way,
We can shift the perspective.
And when I talk about conception,
Not only within our fertility journeys,
But think about it as any area or any um,
Opportunity in your life.
So it can even go beyond fertility and motherhood,
But really looking at all areas of your life,
What your energy might be holding onto,
What the stagnancy might be in it.
Because sometimes we can find ourselves stuck in our careers,
Not able to move forward in our relationships,
Not moving forward.
So I just want to invite you to,
To take a lot of these concepts and apply it in what area,
Whatever area you're feeling called,
You know,
Beyond your fertility and conception journey.
So there's a lot of new people who registered and are joining this,
Um,
Workshop.
I just going to briefly introduce myself because I haven't had the pleasure of connecting with a lot of you yet,
But I am a former corporate publicist.
So I actually,
Uh,
Worked in corporate America for over two decades.
Um,
I was a corporate publicist.
I was burnt out.
Um,
Really not in alignment with my soul's path or purpose at that time,
But it did serve me at that point in time.
When I became pregnant with my daughter,
I left my corporate job.
I started my own business,
Not knowing anything about entrepreneurship or what I would be doing in this business,
But with a lot of healing reflection,
Trusting and surrendering here I am today.
I'm an energy healer.
I'm an author.
Um,
You know,
I offer spirit baby readings.
I work with women who are starting businesses.
I still love to do a lot of the business and entrepreneurship stuff,
But also I am a certified hypnobirthing educator as well.
So I really do hold space for all facets of purpose,
Career,
Motherhood from conception to pregnancy to afterwards,
Right?
What happens after we are,
Um,
Initiated into the role of the mother.
Um,
I am currently a mom of two with one on the way.
I have a little Scorpio baby,
Um,
Joining us earth side in November.
And again,
I'm really all about community.
Um,
Support.
I just love hosting these conversations and these spaces because I just think it's so important.
There were so many points in my journey where I felt alone.
You know,
When I was starting my business,
I felt very alone.
And when I became a mom,
I felt very alone.
The fertility journey,
The conception journey is one that I will say over and over again is one of the most raw,
Vulnerable,
Intense death and rebirth experiences that a woman can really be initiated to and claim.
So I know that the path isn't easy,
But I also know that together we can find that hope that beacon of light and that support.
So please don't hesitate to,
You know,
Reach out and ask questions and,
Um,
You know,
Use your voice.
That's going to be an important part of the conversation today,
Especially when we're talking about the energetics of conception,
I'm going to be sharing a lot of themes,
A lot of my own personal experiences,
And you know,
What the guides and our future children,
Our ancestors have,
Have shown me over the years of,
You know,
What's truly important and what truly matters within our journeys.
So just a disclaimer,
Because I am by no means a medical professional beyond my certifications of intuitive practices and hypnobirthing,
But it's really important that you speak to a medical professional.
This workshop,
This information by no means is a substitute for professional medical advice or treatment.
Um,
And before you start any new health practices,
Again,
Everyone's fertility journey is so unique is so different.
All of us,
Um,
You know,
Come from a different ancestral background.
We all have different wounds,
Things that we're carrying,
But also different medical histories.
You know,
Some of us are going to be experiencing,
Um,
You know,
Medical blockages that are real physical manifestations,
Um,
And things that are a barrier to conception.
And we just want to make sure that we're getting the most aligned,
Knowledgeable support for all of that.
The things that I'm sharing with you today have been channeled throughout the years have been my own personal experience.
It's more on the metaphysical and spiritual aspects of it.
So I still really encourage you to find support systems,
Midwives,
Doulas,
Functional medicine,
Doctors,
Acupuncturists,
Fertility,
You know,
Professionals who can really support and help you,
Um,
You know,
On your path because the physical body is of course a huge part of conception and really finding the Alliance practitioners that,
Um,
Are,
Are here to support you.
So I just wanted to get into like an overview of like how I see,
How I view and how I've been a channel for spirit babies,
Ancestors,
And the energy of conception over the past five years,
As with anything we're manifesting,
Right?
Like the conception process is all about receiving.
So anything that we are manifesting or calling into our lives,
We must be an energetic match for,
We have to attune and align our energy to match that.
And what happens is what we're going to talk a lot about today is we each have energetic baggage.
Sometimes I'll see the energy of a client and there's like debris.
It's like energetic debris around your aura.
Um,
And this can often be compounded trauma over time wounds that we're not clearing energy.
We're not clearing cords attachments.
We are literally sending and receiving energy every second,
Every moment of our lives.
When you're on social media,
You're exchanging energy.
When you are at work,
You're exchanging energy.
When you're having conversations,
You're exchanging energy.
When you're at the gas station,
Every point,
Every touch point of our life is an energetic exchange and whether positive or bad,
Right?
Like whether positive or negative,
We are absorbing and we are emitting energy,
Right?
So certain situations we're giving our energy to others,
Certain situations we are literally receiving other people's energy.
And so over time that really compounds.
So if we're not um,
Engaged in any kind of like energetic hygiene practice,
If we are not,
Um,
Sitting with our energy and that includes like,
You know,
Really sitting with our emotions,
Uh,
Expressing ourselves,
You know,
Our energy also manifests in various ways,
Which we're going to talk about today,
Mind,
Body,
Spirit.
So we're energetic beings in an energetic world.
And sometimes what happens is,
You know,
From when we're most of us,
Most of us are walking around and we're not clearing or doing anything with our energy,
Right?
Some of you might have really great energetic practices because you are super intuitive,
You're empathetic.
And so,
You know,
The importance of clearing and managing your,
Your energy reserves,
But most of us,
You know,
Don't know the importance of that.
Most of us don't have those kinds of practices in line.
And I really see it as a valuable resource and a valuable tool,
Especially when we're on a fertility journey,
Because that's when we're really vulnerable.
That's when we're the most sensitive.
That's when we're going to be,
You know,
Prone to receiving and exchanging energy in different ways.
So for those of us who,
And,
You know,
All of us experience some form of trauma or wounding throughout our lives,
Through limiting beliefs,
Ancestral,
Societal,
You know,
At any point of our life,
We're,
You know,
Experiencing wounds and limiting belief or repeating a pattern that no longer serves us.
And our energy will hold that,
Especially if we're not processing emotions around it.
So let's say you are a child who had a single mother,
And I see this a lot in my male clients,
Clients who have,
Who are raised with single mothers and kind of have a father wound,
Or a lot of my clients will have like a mother wounds,
Like a really negative relationship with their mother.
Right.
And so that chips away our worth,
Our value,
Our confidence,
Our self-trust over time.
And we store and we hold that in our energy.
So the way that I see conception is,
Is this process of healing and creating space for the desired results or outcome by releasing these cords,
These energetic attachments that don't align with what we wish to bring into the world,
Which is,
You know,
The conception process is not only the birth of a baby,
But it really is of a new woman of a mother.
It's a really intense death and rebirth process through this process.
It requires a lot of purging and stepping into our higher selves through expression and reclamation.
And when I say that it's because we are literally creating a new version of ourselves,
Unfamiliar to us,
We are literally birthing a new woman,
A new identity.
And so that's why the fertility journey,
The conception journey can feel so heavy.
It can feel very daunting.
It can feel very overwhelming because we are literally creating new versions of ourselves.
We are closing one karmic cycle and we are starting a new karmic chapter.
And that's a lot,
Like we're doing a lot.
And the earlier we can embrace that,
The more that we can kind of be at the forefront of that we can start to give ourselves a little more grace and compassion,
Because I'm sure a lot of you have felt so disheartened if you've experienced any pregnancy loss,
If you've been actively trying to conceive and haven't been successful yet for a few months,
A few years.
Every month that goes by that we don't conceive chips away at our worth,
Right?
We start not trusting our bodies,
Not trusting our partners.
If you're in a relationship,
It could create a lot of tension.
And so the conception process really is,
What are we holding?
What are we storing in our energy?
And does it serve us or does it not?
Because remember,
In order to birth,
We need to create space,
Right?
So we need to create space specifically within our throat.
We need to be expressing our needs,
Our desires,
Our wants.
We need to be open to receiving within our hearts.
Do we feel like we have defense mechanisms up?
Do we feel like we have heart walls which develop over time,
Especially the more we become disappointed,
The more that our confidence is taken away from us.
We start developing this defense mechanism within our heart and our heart has to be really open.
It has to be really.
.
.
And I don't want to say from a standpoint of being toxic positivity or anything like that,
But we really want our hearts to feel ready and welcoming.
And this is the energy that spirit babies have told me time and time again,
Over hundreds of readings,
That space needs to be cleared out.
Space needs to be cleared from the womb,
Whatever ancestral programming is in there,
Whatever reparenting and reconditioning is needed.
This is the spaciousness that we are creating to invite our baby closer in.
This is the space that we're creating to become an energetic match for our children.
And I'm going to explain why this is so important,
But also why so many of us are having these challenging fertility experiences at this moment in history.
So some of you might have heard,
Read about,
Or are familiar with this new earth shift,
This new earth paradigm.
We are truly a new generation of mother.
We are being held to a higher standard by the earth,
Our ancestors,
And our future children.
And why is this?
The course of humanity is not sustainable as is right now.
So we agreed to be birthed through our parents in this lifetime with a certain set of requirements and a certain set of criteria,
So to speak.
Ours was much more lenient than our future children,
Our future children.
And it's so interesting,
The themes and the patterns that come up year after year.
But it was last year that there was this really big theme from last year.
The last five years,
We've really been stepping into this new earth paradigm,
This new earth energy.
I'm sure you guys have felt it.
Our gender roles are shifting,
Our needs,
Our wants,
Our values,
Our family values are shifting.
A lot of us are entering parenthood later in life because we've placed so much emphasis on career.
And maybe we didn't want to have children the first half of our lives,
The first 30,
40 years of our lives.
But now we're starting to slow down and really and want to bring that manifestation forward.
And this is because,
As most of you have witnessed,
Like the state of our collective.
We are moving from a patriarchal society into a more matriarchal one,
Even though it doesn't look like it,
Even though it doesn't feel like it.
But we're doing a lot of healing.
The earth itself is doing a lot of healing.
If you have any questions about this,
Feel free to message me at any time.
But you can track Schumann resonance is literally the heartbeat of the earth and how vibrationally,
Especially this year alone,
We've been receiving a lot of geomagnetic activations.
The earth has been having a lot of solar flares and all of that continues like helps advance and activate parts within us that not only have been dormant.
So a lot of us are,
You know,
Especially since covid,
A lot of us have been in the spiritual awakening phase.
And the way that I always see it is,
You know,
We start with this beautiful spiritual awakening and then we enter like this divine feminine awakening.
And the healing process isn't linear.
You know,
It never ends,
But there definitely is.
Different waves of it that start to come through.
And so as women who have been heavily,
Heavily indoctrinated to be in our masculine energy from living in a patriarchal society,
You know,
Our work structures are very masculine.
The way that we have to show up and speak and present ourselves in this society has been very masculine.
So a lot of our feminine energy,
A lot of our feminine essence has been taken away from us,
Or we we've literally have had no choice but to show up in our masculine energy.
So a lot of us women,
We are learning how to work with the feminine energy in a different way.
That's why it can feel like we are not trusting that we're not surrendering.
And you know,
That balance of masculine and feminine energy is also a very important part of conception.
You know,
The masculine energy is very important for us to hold that structure,
That foundation,
But it also requires a lot of the feminine energy of trusting and receiving for conception to happen.
So as this new generation of mothers,
We're being held to a higher standard.
Our children are requiring more healing from us.
They're requiring more from us because they don't want to be incarnated with the same ancestral traumas,
Ancestral wounds,
Limiting beliefs.
They really are looking,
The majority of them are looking for a more intuitive,
Open-hearted,
Open-minded parent who will guide them through the different paradigms that we're experiencing.
A lot of these children don't want to be institutionalized,
Which means education is changing.
A lot of them require more sensitivity in terms of managing their own intuitive abilities.
They're going to be way more vocal about being intuitive,
About being recepted to energy.
This means that,
You know,
A lot of us have energy healers for our children as well as ourselves now.
This generation is a very sensitive generation of childs,
Again,
Who's going to require out-of-the-box thinking.
They might not feel aligned with normal pediatric visits.
They're going to want a more natural and holistic way of being raised.
They're going to want their parents to be more flexible,
More at home,
More present with them than our generation of parent was.
So these are some of the things that come up,
Some of the themes that are often mirrored in my readings,
But also projected in the clients that I'm seeing.
People are wanting to do things differently.
People are investing more time in their healing,
In their foundations,
More than ever.
It's a beautiful thing to witness,
But again,
It is also challenging,
Right?
Because it's so easy for us to be disheartened or to feel disappointed.
It breaks my heart when parents and mothers feel like they're doing everything,
But they still don't feel worthy enough for this child.
This child is asking so much of me.
I don't feel like I'm worthy enough for them.
I don't feel like I'm good enough to be their parent.
And it's not about being worthy to be their parent.
That has never been an issue.
It's about finding the right balance that works for you and keeping yourself encouraged and knowing that this is not a process that you can control on your own time.
Just because you want a child right now doesn't mean you get a child right now.
And unfortunately,
That is the natural flow of the divine timing that we're going to talk about.
But this initiation into motherhood invites us to heal,
Again,
The beliefs,
The patterns that no longer serve us,
But in a bigger perspective,
It no longer serves humanity.
It no longer serves our collective future.
So sometimes it helps zooming out because our children are not only our children.
They're a gift to the world.
They're a blessing to the world.
And the more that we can see other people's children,
But also our children being individuals that we have been assigned to,
But we don't control.
We don't control our children as much as we want to try to,
As much as our parents tried to control us and who we needed to be and how we should show up.
This generation of child already knows who they are.
They already know so inherently who they've come here to be.
They're not looking for us to fill that identity in.
They're looking for us to hold space and to guide them into fulfillment,
Into being that.
They're looking at us to hold the foundations and the structures for them to step into it.
But it's not a question of them finding themselves because they come into this life already knowing who they are.
And a lot of the younger children,
When I'm reading someone's child,
If I'm having a reading with a mother and she's asking questions about her child,
It's just super clear.
This child is asking us to literally hold the space and the independence.
That's why it's really important for us to know who we are and who we are transitioning into as we enter the role of mother so that we're not projecting onto our children.
That narrative,
That role isn't kind of repeating itself.
We're able to hold space for our individual growth as women,
But also as our children's individual growth and their needs.
So something that we often tend to forget is we are co-creators.
Co-creators.
There are aspects of the conception process that require aligned action.
Of course,
I need to make sure that I'm physically healthy.
I need to make sure that I feel mentally prepared.
You know,
There's things that we can do on our part that require action.
But there's other aspects that require your full trust and your surrender.
Such as most of these children who want to come through,
Most spirit babies have a set time already in mind.
I was talking to a client most recently who has been actively trying to conceive on and off for the past two years.
When she first decided that she wanted to try to have a baby,
She got pregnant right away,
But unfortunately experienced a miscarriage early in the beginning and then wasn't able to get pregnant for about a year and a half after.
So when we're connecting with her spirit baby,
Kind of like asking and,
You know,
Also like in the event of miscarriage,
Often it's the spirit baby wanting you to know that they are fully present,
That they are around,
That conception is completely possible.
They're kind of like encouraging you and letting you know I'm here,
But the timing isn't right.
So it's really important that you know that you're here,
But the timing isn't right.
Or the,
You know,
My development right now isn't right,
Like there's just something.
It's usually an indication of something within us,
Our environment,
Something to bring to our attention in order to,
Again,
Like heal or to learn from.
And with most children,
It really is about timing.
Like there is a divine timing,
There's a timeline that they're looking at.
They're looking for specific things to be put in place.
Maybe it's,
You know,
A change in your career.
Maybe it's relocating,
A move to a new place,
City,
Country,
Apartment,
Home.
Sometimes it shifts within the partner because again,
It's not,
If you are in a relationship,
It doesn't all fall on the woman.
There's things on the partner side too that might need to be addressed.
There's like additional testing that might need to happen.
But what happens is we feel,
You know,
The fertility and the conception process can feel very masculine.
Like we need to check our ovulation,
We need to have sex within this window,
We need to do this.
And it becomes a very turnkey,
Medicalized event rather than the invitation and the creation of space to bring a baby closer into the family.
Right?
And over time,
Again,
We feel like this is my responsibility to take care of this child.
This is my responsibility to have this child.
It's me creating them.
It's my body.
It's,
You know,
And we,
We become so hard on ourselves and energetically we create these energetic blocks of like,
You know,
That masculine energy of like,
I have to produce,
I have to do this.
Like it,
It has to look a certain way.
It has to follow a certain way.
And so we start separating and disconnecting from our bodies.
We are no longer in tune with our body.
We are no longer connected to the energy of the spirit baby vibrationally.
And we kind of start going against the conception process because we feel forced into whether that's medical procedures.
You know,
A lot of my clients have told me they felt forced into IVF or they felt forced into a medical procedure when they weren't fully ready,
Just because the doctor said,
You know what,
You've been trying for this amount of time.
Let's just do IVF.
That's going to be the only way that this baby will come through.
And,
And we put our bodies and our relationships and our lives through so much when the energetic shift is maybe I should have like waited.
And I don't think that there's any,
I do fully believe that,
You know,
Your journey is your journey and it was meant to happen the way it is,
But there comes a point of reclamation.
And that's why I said,
Energetically,
Um,
You know,
There's a point of reclamation in the journey to where we stop giving away our power.
And we say,
You know what,
I've been through five rounds of IVF,
Like something's happening,
Right?
Like something else is happening.
There's a reason why this baby isn't coming through.
And then when we connect to that baby,
It's like rest,
Take a break,
Stop obsessing over the baby,
Stop trying to control or rush the process.
And this is where,
You know,
Sometimes our spirit and our humanity kind of like create this tension point because we also biologically as humans feel like we're up against a literal time clock,
Right?
Like every month that goes by that I'm not pregnant,
I'm also getting older biologically.
I'm also like being told that I'm limited with my options,
With my choices.
And we start again,
Distrusting ourselves and we disconnect ourselves from our bodies and our intuition.
And we start not that believing the medical professionals is bad,
But we start making decisions from a place of fear rather than from our heart.
Like,
What is my heart and what is my body telling me?
But now I'm starting to perpetuate the cycle of fear because my doctors are telling me it's not possible.
You're going to have a hard time.
And it's really about that reclamation point of what feels true to you versus what you are being told,
Right?
And are you trying to control the process too much by continuously putting yourself through these situations?
But you know,
I will say too,
It really depends on you and your inner voice.
You have to trust yourself and your body.
I am not against IVF,
IUI.
I'm not against anything.
I do believe those things have been created and channeled and made available to us as options.
I will tell all of my clients,
I will tell the world this time and time again,
I'm all about choice.
My thing is making a choice that feels supportive and aligned to you,
Rather than being pushed,
Forced,
Or rushed into a choice that doesn't feel good.
And then when you're doing it,
You're like,
Ah,
This choice doesn't.
And all of us have had these moments where it's like,
This doesn't feel good to me.
It doesn't feel true to me,
But I'm going to do it anyway,
Because I'm afraid.
The fear paralyzes us.
The fear and our ego makes us feel like I'm not going to be capable to have this baby on my own.
So I'm going to do the IVF,
Even though it doesn't feel supportive,
It doesn't feel aligned to me right now.
And then what happens is the IVF doesn't work,
Or you feel very disempowered by the experience and the situation.
And that creates more mistrust within yourself.
And again,
It's a lesson,
Right?
And a lot of my clients who have been through that multiple rounds of IVF,
And we connect with the spirit baby,
Sometimes the spirit baby is like,
Look,
I just need you to rest.
I need you to take a break.
I need you to stop trying right now,
Because your body,
Your mind,
And your spirit needs to catch up.
It needs to pause.
It needs to surrender.
It needs to just let go.
And during that window,
And I always tell my clients,
Create a timeline that works for you.
Rest for the next month,
Two months,
Three months,
Check in with your body.
How are you feeling?
Does it feel supportive?
Do you want to go through another round?
But most of the time they'll get pregnant in that rest window when they give themselves permission to stop controlling the process,
To stop trying so hard.
And we see that in different areas of our lives.
Again,
It's not fertility.
It's not just conception.
Sometimes we are just forcing a square to go into a circle.
How many times have we forced it?
I'm forcing this.
I'm forced from a place of fear,
From a place of lack,
From a place of scarcity.
I always tell my clients,
I'm like,
No matter how heavy,
No matter how intense your fertility journey has been,
I want you to know that your baby is around you.
Your baby is protecting you.
You have come into this lifetime to be a mother.
It's going to happen.
Just a matter of when and how.
And we can figure that out.
We have the options available to us.
We have the support systems available to us,
But it's also just important that you listen to yourself,
That you stop,
Stop,
Take a break,
Check in with your body and listen and listen to it.
So are you trying to control anything because of fear?
What can you let go of?
What can you shift?
What can you change?
And are you working with the flow?
Are you working against it?
Intuitively,
Do you know,
I need to be resting,
But I'm bypassing my intuition and I'm just like,
I'm still producing,
Producing,
Producing.
And then the act of conception becomes so overwhelming and tedious,
Especially for people in partnerships and relationships where it's like,
Okay,
I need to ovulate.
And then that puts pressure on your partner to perform.
And for those of you in a relationship,
The conception process also looks like men have to feel safe in order to release and women have to feel safe in their body in order to receive.
And sometimes when we're like,
Okay,
We have 20 minutes,
We got to make a baby now.
It's like that energy alone to create such tension and friction where your partner not may not feel safe to release.
And you might not be feeling safe to receive.
And you feel that energetically,
Like after you've had sex,
You might be like,
Yeah,
I don't think like that made a baby like that doesn't feel like it landed because you're kind of just like going through the motions in the process rather than being open energetically to invite in and receive the baby.
And I get it.
I know it's hard.
I know it's not perfect.
It's not meant to be perfect.
It's not,
You know,
I'm not saying it's going to look perfect,
But it's just shifting your perspective.
Like what energetic shifts can you make today that are really quick?
Like what mindset shifts,
What things can you change within your environment?
Again,
That creates this harmony that creates this ease that creates this peace.
And it's not the same for all of us.
Like the reality is some of us have no choice,
But IVF,
Some of us have no choice,
But surrogacy.
Some of us have no choice,
But adoption.
And I've seen it in people's soul contracts.
I've seen it in the spirit baby's contracts.
You know,
Again,
Everyone's journey into motherhood looks different.
Some of us have sperm donors.
Some of us have egg donors,
But in all of those scenarios and all of those situations,
We can still trust,
Be open to receiving.
And we can understand that,
Um,
You know,
We,
It's going to happen.
We just have to trust the process and,
And really make sure that we're listening to ourselves and connecting with our spirit baby.
Without letting the fear paralyze us.
And I know easier said than done because trust me,
I'm the first one to be like,
How is this going to happen?
You know,
Like that big,
How,
How is this going to happen?
How,
How am I going to get this done?
Again,
We are co-creators,
But we are not God.
We are not the universe.
We are part of the collaborative and co-creative process that we get to invite and create space for all of these things that we are,
Um,
You know,
Bringing into our lives.
And again,
It's a process.
It's not going to be perfect.
Are your spirit baby does not expect you to be perfect.
You don't have to be mother Mary having an immaculate conception,
Right?
You know,
It's just about the right timing,
The right initiation point of conception and timing happening really quick because,
You know,
We can't talk about conception without our spirit babies.
But,
Um,
The way that I see spirit babies are there are future ancestors,
They're reincarnated,
Reincarnated souls.
Some are star beings.
There's a lot of new energies,
A lot of new beings being sent to earth again,
To help us with the collective future,
The healing of the planet.
So some of these children have not been to earth yet.
Some of these children,
This is the first time they're visiting earth.
They come from different planets,
Different,
Um,
You know,
This is going to be their first time being born on earth.
So they're going to be more naturally curious.
They're going to be,
Um,
Fearless.
They're going to be very independent.
They're going to want to experience all facets of life.
Like they're going to look at everything like brand new.
They're going to have this enthusiasm about them.
Spirit babies exist in the spirit realm because they are waiting to become,
To come earthside.
Um,
Nothing is black and white with spirit babies.
I've seen all kinds of things.
I've heard all kinds of things.
I've experienced all kinds of things with spirit babies.
Um,
But there are like general guidelines.
So a spirit baby can be with you from very early on.
Like they are much like our spirit guides.
Um,
They can also appear when a commitment is made or a path is formed to this baby.
Like I've had a client who was looking for an egg donor.
She never wanted to become a mom,
But then she got to a point in her life where she was really stable in her career.
And,
And it changed for her.
Right.
And she was like,
I really want to become a mom,
But she's not biologically able to do so.
So she's going an egg donor route.
And,
Um,
When I was connecting with her spirit baby,
That particular point in her path,
She was looking at options.
So when I was connecting to her spirit baby,
There were literally like hundreds of spirit babies in her energy,
Because there were so many available to her.
There were just so many ready and willing to come through to her.
And that really was her soul's purpose,
Her mission,
Her contract.
Like she was able to choose any of these spirit babies.
They were all willing,
You know,
Uh,
To,
To come through to her.
Some of us have very specific spirit babies that we've reincarnated through lifetimes together.
Um,
And,
And I want to bring this up because this is why it's like really important to work with our energy for conception,
Because there's just so many variables.
There's so many things that we don't realize are happening on the backend.
And I think once we conceptualize all of the metaphysical things that are happening in the backend,
Like all the things that have to divinely align and time with conception,
We can kind of like give ourselves permission to not be so hard on ourselves,
To not like feel like our bodies are failing us.
Cause we know there's so much happening behind the scenes for us.
Um,
I don't know,
It give,
It gave me a sense of comfort when I was coming into motherhood,
Connecting with my spirit baby,
Knowing that there was like a greater collective purpose,
Like a greater meaning behind all of the,
The death that I was experiencing at the time with like,
Um,
You know,
Separating myself from my former identity and like really forging the way or the path into a new one.
But you know,
Spirit babies can,
Can,
Can come to us very early.
Some of us know,
Like in our,
Um,
You know,
I've had a lot of clients tell me when I was a teenager,
I dreamt of this child.
When I was in college,
I dreamt of this child.
Some of them come to us and there's like a connection early on,
Especially if we have like a karmic or ancestral connection to them.
And some of them,
Once we make that commitment to enter motherhood,
Then they'll appear.
Sometimes when we find that partner,
Sometimes when we,
You know,
Laid kind of like,
Again,
The bricks,
The stepping stones or foundation for them,
Then they'll appear for us.
Most of my clients are within two years of conception.
I have had single clients who we've been talking about like their purpose and stuff.
And they're like,
I'm curious if there's like a spirit baby in my energy and I'll see them very far out.
I'm like,
Yeah,
Like the next five years or so.
And they're like,
Yeah,
That makes sense because they're like in their early twenties or something.
Um,
Or like their mid twenties there,
There's like not,
Uh,
Like path for that spirit baby yet to come through.
So there'll be much further out.
But most of my clients will be within two years of conception with the baby,
Very close to them,
The baby working really,
Um,
Closely with them again.
And the way that,
You know,
There's a spirit baby in your energy is what changes do you feel called to make?
Are you questioning your career?
Are you questioning your purpose?
Are you making changes in your relationship?
Are you entering a new level of commitment?
Um,
Are you leaving a relationship?
Um,
Usually like any sign of change transition rearranging is a good indication that a spirit baby is paving the way for themselves to come through.
And I tell a lot of my clients just know like everything that you experience,
Everything that you go through,
The losses,
The month after month disappointment,
Like that is preparing you for motherhood in so many ways that we can't even understand.
It's preparing us for the resilience for the healing that our future child really needs from us.
So you can connect to your spirit baby through visualization,
Meditation,
Signs,
Dreams,
Synchronicities,
Invite them to work with you,
Invite them into your life,
Invite their presence around in the spirit realm.
It's all about invitation.
So in order to connect with them,
You have to be receptive.
You have to be open and you have to invite them to come,
Um,
Be a part of your life in a metaphysical way.
Okay.
So it's important to know what our energy holds onto because then we can start creating awareness,
But also practices that releases and clears our energy.
Again,
We're mind body spirit.
So our energy is going to form like these different buckets within our minds.
There are limiting beliefs,
Subconscious beliefs.
We have programmed conditioned inherited beliefs.
You know,
We have those societal expectations.
We have our ancestral wounds as we transition and enter motherhood.
It's really beneficial.
It's really helpful.
If we start examining what is holding me back,
Like,
Is there a fear around motherhood?
What is my limiting belief around motherhood?
Before I had my daughter,
I would have,
I was never the woman who was like,
I can't wait to start a family.
I can't wait to have children.
For me,
It was something that I didn't have to experience.
So I thought in my early twenties,
I was really focused on my career.
Like everything was the trajectory of my career,
The success of my career,
My identity,
My purpose was connected to external validation and my career,
How much money I can make,
How much growth I could,
You know,
Have within a certain company.
I didn't feel like I had space for a family because I was so focused on my career and this was well into my thirties.
Um,
And then energetically something shifted.
I went through a massive spiritual awakening still during this like career transitional time,
But my values,
My beliefs,
What I really wanted,
I started aligning with my higher self.
I started coming closer with it and I started connecting to my body.
And I realized that I really did want to be a mother.
I was just so afraid.
I was so afraid of the responsibility.
I didn't have a good relationship with my mother growing up and I was just kind of blocking myself and I was shielding myself from that path from that opportunity because I never fully felt like I was capable of it.
I didn't feel like I was capable of receiving it.
I didn't feel capable of stepping into it.
So a lot of these energetic blocks created a barrier to conception for me.
So when I finally decided that,
You know,
What motherhood looks feels real,
It looks more real for me.
I had to heal all of the beliefs,
All of the energetic attachments to why I couldn't or didn't want to be a mother.
Um,
I had to clear my mother wound.
I had to create space for my body to feel safe enough because also childbirth was like a huge fear of mine.
So I had to create space within my body to feel safe enough to hold a child.
Um,
And so a lot of these mental things and you know,
How do we clear that from our energy?
We seek therapy.
We have readings.
We do support.
We start acknowledging what emotions are kind of like dormant,
What our,
Um,
Emotions are associated to why these fears exist and where they came from.
And that starts to create space within our mental energy,
Our mental capacity.
We start shifting our mindset and shifting our perspective so that it becomes more possible because with manifestation,
If we don't truly believe something is possible,
Then how can it be?
So,
Right?
Like there's really beautiful books,
Like the biology of belief.
There's Dr.
Joe dispenses books that talk about,
You know,
We have to create space for the possibility of something.
We have to believe that there's room,
That there's miracles and that there's blessings,
That things are for us.
Cause if not,
We kind of energetically shut ourselves off to the possibility of it.
We're not an energetic match for something that we don't believe to be true.
Right?
And that goes both ways.
So for always believing in a negative outcome,
That's what we attract.
So we want to be really careful about what we're attracting,
What we're magnetizing into our reality.
And we want to ensure,
Are there any subconscious fears?
Are there any limiting beliefs that I'm still holding onto that might be contributing to this block and fertility for me?
For our bodies.
So what happens is these mental barriers can often result in physical manifestation,
Fibroids,
PCOS,
Endometriosis.
A lot of these are ancestral to their genetic.
We're holding the trauma of the women in our lineage.
A lot of these things can be reversed through nutrition,
Lifestyle,
Detoxing,
Acupuncture,
Fertility support,
Supplements,
Herbs.
It's just,
Again,
Being willing to receive the healing,
Receive the support and knowing that you can be healed.
No matter what the diagnosis is,
Your physical body is so resilient.
It can be healed through intention.
It can be healed through miracles.
It can be healed through,
Again,
The support systems of aligned medical professionals and holistic health practitioners.
It's just about being open to receive that level of support and gaining the awareness around what am I storing in my body or what is contributing to this that I can really work on healing and moving it through my body.
On the spiritual side,
Right?
So we want to make sure that we are allowing ourselves to show up in our fullest expression,
That we are listening to ourselves,
That we're listening to our intuition,
That we are connecting to spiritual practices,
That we're also allowing ourselves time for stillness and reflection because the conception journey is like a roller coaster.
It really becomes a full-time job.
It becomes all-consuming.
It's like you're doing testing,
And then if you're doing IVF or any kind of other medical procedure,
It's like constant injections,
And it's around the clock,
And I need to do this,
And I need to do that,
And we're not connecting with ourselves in a way that's promoting stillness,
That's promoting awareness.
Again,
We disconnect from our bodies.
We're separating from our bodies,
And we're not listening to what do I really need.
We need to take it day by day.
What do you need in this moment?
What do you need in this day?
How can you be fully aware and fully present?
Are you making the aligned decisions?
Does this feel supportive?
Does this feel good to you?
And with your body too,
Do I feel safe?
Do I feel safe in my body?
Do I feel safe to receive this child?
Do I feel.
.
.
A lot of conception is very root chakra based,
Right?
If you don't feel safe in your body,
It's going to be.
.
.
And not that it's impossible.
Nothing is impossible.
Let me just preface that.
Nothing is impossible,
But if you're feeling like there's something blocking you,
It might come down to safety,
Right?
Safety and survival.
Do I feel like I have the support systems,
The structures,
The partnership that makes me feel safe in having a baby and being a mother?
And if I don't feel safe,
How can I shift things so that I do feel safe?
A lot of my clients,
The women that I work with say safety is a huge thing for them.
They don't feel like their partner can provide for them.
They don't feel like their partner will be showing up.
They're actually afraid about their partner's role because their partner has either fertility issues or mental triggers or ancestral trauma.
They don't feel safe because their partners aren't receiving the help,
Aren't willing to do the work or receive the support.
So it's conversations.
We can have these conversations and that's why expression,
Again,
Energetically is a very important part of conception.
Are you being honest with yourself,
Your partner,
Your medical team,
Your family?
What conversations need to happen?
And of course,
From the spiritual side of it,
It's a lot of like the trust,
Right?
Am I connecting to my baby?
Do I feel aligned and in tune with what they need in order to come through?
Am I accepting soul contracts?
What's interesting too,
Like with soul contracts,
Some women,
Again,
Or like some of my clients,
Even like men,
Want to become parents,
Want to have a child,
Are actively trying to conceive.
But then with their energy,
They're really actually not grounded or committed to the path because there's like fears.
It's like,
Okay,
I really want to be a mom or I really want to be a dad.
But then I have this like huge fear of childbirth and I have this huge fear of actually becoming a mom.
So even though we're verbally saying like,
Like,
This is what I want to do,
Energetically,
We aren't committed to the path or the idea of having a child.
So it's kind of like the roots are kind of like hanging and the spirit maybe is kind of like,
Well,
They haven't really like decided if they want to be parents.
So I'm like,
I'm not grounded and I'm not like,
Like the baby hasn't been invited in.
There's kind of like a wall there because the baby's like,
Okay,
Like they say they want,
But there's no foundation.
There's no nothing like there's like no runway or path for me to actually come through.
So sometimes that can happen as well.
And that's why it's really important to,
You know,
Kind of experience what your mind,
What your body,
What your spirit is holding onto that sense of self-awareness,
Personal development,
Spiritual development is a really important aspect of the transition into parenthood.
And again,
Both for a woman and a man.
Um,
So how do we create spaciousness in our energy for our mind journaling affirmations,
Mind mapping again,
What is the fear?
Where did this fear develop?
Who did I hear it from?
Where did I see it?
Like kind of like mapping out,
Getting to the root and the core of the issue rather than bypassing because it's so easy to bypass.
We bypass all day,
But at the end of it,
When we're trying to conceive,
When we're trying to create spaciousness,
We really want to get to the root of the issue rather than bypassing it.
Um,
Body detoxing,
Cleansing to heal,
Testing lifestyle changes.
Do I need to become more active?
Do I need to become more dormant?
Do I need to invite more stillness?
Do I need to take a break?
Literally,
Do I need to take a arrest and a vacation to like realign with what the vision for my life is?
What I really truly want from my life.
And that's kind of what I was talking about.
Like that commitment part,
What are you actually visit visualizing for yourself?
Like,
What do you actually want?
Acupuncture is really great for fertility.
Um,
It comes up in almost every single reading.
Um,
So acupuncture for fertility,
Supplementation,
Herbs,
Whatever your body needs to,
To heal and to be activated for your spirit readings are a beautiful way to connect,
To,
To receive the insight.
Um,
You know,
The soul truth that you need to hear the confirmation of like your own intuition,
Energy healing,
Also a great way.
Reiki practitioners,
Um,
Any form of energy healing,
Body talk.
There's just so many different modalities,
Breath work,
Anything that can connect you to your energy,
Energetic hygiene practices that you can do at home,
Um,
Is a really great way to,
To continuously work with your energy meditation.
And again,
Making it a daily practice.
What am I doing daily,
Weekly,
And monthly to support my mind body spirit?
All right.
So these are some reflection prompts for you guys to,
To work with that also bring that level of awareness,
Um,
That not only bring that level of awareness that we're talking about into your energy,
But can also help like clearing and releasing or actualizing what is happening below the surface.
And so that you can kind of see what you require specific support or,
Or that needs attention.
So what are you holding onto that doesn't support your family values or the values of your future child?
What is no longer in alignment with how you show up your identity?
That one comes up a lot in readings because like,
Let's say you're not having boundaries with your family or the people around you.
Um,
You know,
You tend to be a people pleaser,
But you know that,
You know,
You're ready to like start asserting yourself.
Like that's a lot of the reclamation work.
How are you showing up that,
You know,
Intuitively is not in alignment anymore anymore.
And like,
You know,
That you need to stand up to certain people,
Have certain conversations,
Play certain boundaries around your fertility journey.
Um,
So just,
Just really sitting with like who you were and who you are today and who you are becoming,
How you want to model that version.
And,
Um,
That new woman or,
Or mother,
What changes are you feeling called to make,
But have a fear or resistance to what conversations needs happened,
Create a solid foundation or runway for your baby to come through.
So again,
Do you need to talk to family members?
Do you need to talk to your partner about how they're showing up,
How they're not showing up,
How you're feeling around the support that you have around conception or fertility?
Um,
Do you need to talk to your medical provider?
Do you need a new medical provider because you're not feeling heard,
Seen,
Or supported?
And are you limiting yourself or holding yourself back in any way due to limiting beliefs or toxic patterns?
That's that fear paralysis.
Are you not making a leap in your career?
Are you not,
Um,
Seeking the support that you need?
Are you not doing certain things because you're so afraid to move forward,
To change?
Um,
Do you feel like stuck in a,
In a cycle or a pattern?
So these reflection prompts,
Feel free to come back to them.
I don't expect you to do them now.
Um,
You'll get the replay.
You could come back to them at any time and you know,
Just something to sit with right now.
It's a really great time to,
Um,
You know,
Right now to kind of like reflect no matter where you are,
You know,
On your journey or stage of conception.
So thank you for being here.
That is everything I've felt called to share everything that felt really resonant with like the energy of conception.
The biggest takeaway I want you to go home with is setting an intention for,
Again,
Like what needs to be created?
How can you create space for your family,
For your baby to come through?
What are some of the things?
Is it,
You know,
Um,
Refreshing your home?
Is it talking to your partner,
Your family,
Your friends?
Just think about any area right now that feels really supportive,
How you are reevaluating and stepping into this next chapter,
Stepping into this next cycle of your life,
This next season with fresh and renewed perspective,
No matter how daunting or challenging your journey has felt up until this point,
Know that you are starting again,
Know that you are a stronger and more resilient with,
You know,
From all of the lessons,
You have a new found,
You know,
Appreciation and,
And I,
Um,
So to speak for the next phase that you're being called into the next season and that you're very much meant to do this and,
And completely capable of it.
It's just about finding again,
That balance your voice in it and your boundaries.
Um,
But yeah,
Thank you for being here today and I hope to connect with all of you soon.
